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The Remote-First Revolution: Building Borderless Teams with David Nilssen

In this episode of The Long-Distance Worklife Podcast, Wayne Turmel sits down with David Nilssen, author of The Future is Borderless and CEO of Doxa Talent. David discusses how his remote-first company manages over 1,000 employees across seven countries, completely office-free.

Explore the remote-first revolution, why hybrid work often falls short, and the importance of cultural awareness when managing borderless teams. David also shares lessons from his book and podcast, helping leaders navigate the challenges of global teamwork.

Key Takeaways

1.Remote-First Is a Strategic Choice, Not a Cost-Saving Measure: Embracing a remote-first approach isn’t about cutting costs by eliminating office space. Instead, it’s a deliberate strategy to align with modern workforce trends, investing in team-building, professional development, and collaboration.
2. Intentional Connection Is Critical in Remote Work: Without the "osmosis" of in-office interactions, leaders must intentionally create opportunities for team bonding, professional development, and cultural connection. This includes in-person meetups when possible to foster a sense of unity.
3. Cultural Awareness Builds Stronger Global Teams: Understanding cultural differences in communication, trust-building, and feedback is vital when managing international teams. For example, high-context cultures like the Philippines require indirect feedback, while low-context cultures like the U.S. prefer directness.
4. Hybrid Work Often Creates Two Classes of Employees: When hybrid environments are poorly managed, in-office employees may have better access to leaders, information, and opportunities, leaving remote workers at a disadvantage. Leaders must avoid this by ensuring equity in communication and collaboration.
5. Define Clear Roles and Outcomes for Outsourced Work: Outsourcing succeeds when organizations provide specific job roles and clear expectations. Avoid unrealistic “unicorn” job descriptions by focusing on the exact outcomes you need.
6. Training Remote Teams Requires More Than Osmosis: In-office training by osmosis—sitting a new hire next to an experienced employee—doesn’t translate to remote work. Leaders need structured onboarding processes and tools tailored for remote teams.
7. Outsourcing Can Benefit Higher-Level Roles: Outsourcing isn’t just for low-level administrative tasks. It can add significant value in higher-level functions like finance, marketing, and software development, especially when supported by robust systems and processes.
8. Start with Why: Before building an international or remote-first team, clarify your organization’s goals. Is it to build capacity, advance back-burner projects, or improve efficiency? Your purpose will shape how you approach the process.

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00;00;08;05 - 00;00;39;27
Wayne Turmel
Hello, everybody. Welcome once again to the Long Distance Worklife Podcast, where we help you survive, thrive, arrive alive, whatever. In this crazy world of remote and hybrid and the evolving workplace. My name is Wayne Trammell. This is a Marissa Alice episode. Marissa will be back next week. But that means I get to talk to somebody really cool about an important topic.

00;00;39;27 - 00;01;02;01
Wayne Turmel
And so today we are going to talk about building international teams, working internationally, and probably ruffle a few feathers along the way, I suspect. My guest is appearing on screen now is David Nelson from Docs and Talent. He is in Boise, Idaho. Hi, David. How are you?

00;01;02;04 - 00;01;04;16
David Nilssen
I'm doing great, Wayne. Thanks for having me on today.

00;01;04;18 - 00;01;17;10
Wayne Turmel
Well, thank you for being here. Listen, the question is, who really quickly. Who are you? And docs and talent and what makes you qualified to talk about this?

00;01;17;12 - 00;01;40;15
David Nilssen
Yeah. So, docs a talent is a socially conscious outsourcing firm. We help, companies in the US build and scale up high performing teams of global talent. What makes me qualified to talk on this topic? We actually have about a thousand employees across seven different countries, and we have zero office space. So I'm a real, I'm passionate about remote work.

00;01;40;15 - 00;01;46;08
David Nilssen
I think it is the future. And I love talking about this with people. So glad to do it today.

00;01;46;11 - 00;02;06;14
Wayne Turmel
Now, before we started recording, we were having a conversation, and you said something interesting, which strikes me as, a little paradoxical, which is that you have no office space. But you told me before that you are remote first.

00;02;06;17 - 00;02;07;29
David Nilssen
Yes.

00;02;08;02 - 00;02;12;28
Wayne Turmel
You had. How do you swear that? How do you make that work with this many people?

00;02;13;00 - 00;02;29;28
David Nilssen
Yeah, I think a lot of people have this assumption that the reason why companies go remote is to save money on office space, and. And the reality is, what I tell people is that when we chose to go fully remote, meaning no office space whatsoever, we weren't remote, only we were remote first. It's not a cost cutting exercise.

00;02;29;28 - 00;03;04;19
David Nilssen
It's just a strategic move to embrace what we think are modern workforce trends. And so for us, when we say remote company, it does not mean that we don't ever get together, as an organization. So, for example, next week, my entire leadership team, and other members are flying into Manila and we're going to have, a week long, event where we do some cultural training, where we do some strategic training, we unveil our annual plan, we do some teambuilding, and then we have our annual holiday celebration, and we'll have approximately 700 people ascend on Manila for us to be able to have that.

00;03;04;19 - 00;03;10;06
David Nilssen
So that's obviously a pretty large expense. We're not saving money, we're just investing it in different ways.

00;03;10;08 - 00;03;28;13
Wayne Turmel
And that's really important. I, I think this is a little sidetracked, but I think it's important, this notion that people look at remote as a way to save money and therefore investing in getting people together is something we don't need to do because we're remote.

00;03;28;15 - 00;03;49;28
David Nilssen
Yeah, I don't think that's actually true. I mean, I do believe that in an office you have this great opportunity to build relationships, but you generally do it unintentionally through osmosis, right? You and I meet at the water cooler. We have a little coffee together. Or we have these crazy events. And I remember, you know, a decade ago when I had everybody in one office in downtown Seattle, we had all these fun events that we would do.

00;03;49;28 - 00;04;09;19
David Nilssen
And it's really about creating a fun environment when you move to the remote world now, also, you don't get a chance to sort of build that connective tissue that you would just build, naturally through, being in an office and so we have to sort of create those opportunities in small, digestible snippets. And so that's what we are we're doing in that regard with the group.

00;04;09;25 - 00;04;23;09
David Nilssen
The other thing I would say, though, is that also, instead of investing what I would call fun, and that's what people often think of culture as we're investing more in professional development and tools and training resources to help elevate them as people, professionals, along the way.

00;04;23;12 - 00;04;35;20
Wayne Turmel
What kind of skills when you are putting a team that is going to be remote first and more than that, international, what kind of skills are you looking for?

00;04;35;22 - 00;05;02;18
David Nilssen
Well, in our in our company, we help companies. We help our clients. I say build teams of everything from, administrative professionals to finance and accounting, data science, software engineering. So the skill set that they need, will vary depending on the type of roles that our clients need them to play. But I would say aside from that, there are some characteristics of the way people work in this sort of, internal needs that they have that are important.

00;05;02;18 - 00;05;19;14
David Nilssen
So we actually use an assessment to help us as one indicator towards predicting whether this person can be successful in a remote environment. One is have they done before? And if they haven't. And we want to understand are these people autonomous workers or do they need a lot of direction and sort of support, or are they social people?

00;05;19;20 - 00;05;48;25
David Nilssen
Because if you have a very high social need, the remote world can actually feel very isolated. For someone who's really a high producing individual, doesn't need a lot of social stimulus, though it can actually be a very freeing environment. And then the other thing that I would say that we do is we spend a lot of time, working with our clients to make sure that they have the right process and systems and collaboration tools and rhythms to get the the outcomes that they want from the workers that we have, because we could provide the best worker in the world.

00;05;48;27 - 00;05;56;19
David Nilssen
But if the company is instead of to actually support a remote worker or an international team member, then it may not be successful. Anyways.

00;05;56;22 - 00;06;01;05
Wayne Turmel
What kind of pushback do you get? What don't they expect they're going to have to do?

00;06;01;08 - 00;06;02;26
David Nilssen
The workers with the clients?

00;06;02;28 - 00;06;12;05
Wayne Turmel
The clients? I'm not. The person with the money makes these decisions in the long run, and are largely responsible for whether it works or not, right?

00;06;12;08 - 00;06;30;21
David Nilssen
Yeah. The thing that's always the most surprising and the place where people are challenged, the greatest working with remote workers, whether they're offshore, onshore, it doesn't really matter. The question is, do they have the tools and the sort of rhythms to work with people in our environment? Oftentimes we default in office practices when we have in office workers.

00;06;30;21 - 00;06;50;11
David Nilssen
And so we haven't built the the sort of muscles that we need as leaders to make sure that people are clear on the outcomes that are expected of them to, ensure that they've put the right person in the right seat and that, everyone feels like they're on the same playing field. So that would be the first one, is do they understand how to work with the remote, workforce?

00;06;50;13 - 00;07;09;15
David Nilssen
The second, though, is do they have standard operating procedures for the roles that are, you know, required for people to do similar work constantly, which is often what gets outsourced. They need to have standard operating procedures. Well, it's pretty interesting to me, as I've worked with large scale organizations up to public companies who didn't really have strong SOPs.

00;07;09;15 - 00;07;16;26
David Nilssen
And so that tends to be the place where there's the biggest friction point when you're trying to blend international remote with standard work.

00;07;17;03 - 00;07;42;10
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, the notion of this is how we want you to do it. As you say, it happens a fair amount by osmosis. When you're in the office, it's kind of in the oxygen. There that you breathe, which also leads to something else, which is you are very definitely remote first, and you're not a big fan of hybrid work, or at least what a lot of people call hybrid work.

00;07;42;13 - 00;07;47;08
Wayne Turmel
Now, here's your chance there. Here's your soapbox, buddy. Have.

00;07;47;09 - 00;08;10;25
David Nilssen
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, I mean, look, I would say, my first experience. So pre-pandemic, we were sort of playing with should we go remote? We've been a centralized organization for almost two decades. And, the company that I was running at the time and, you know, we celebrated culture, but we were starting to get the, you know, people reaching out to saying, hey, I'm having to move further to a for a home.

00;08;10;25 - 00;08;29;21
David Nilssen
I want to work here. I love the company, but I can't can't commute two hours a day. Would you be open to this? And so we started playing with that. And we constantly heard little grumblings from our team. That was just a bad experience. Well, it became, true to me when I was traveling on the road, we were having a leadership team meeting, and everyone sitting around the table.

00;08;29;23 - 00;08;50;25
David Nilssen
And here I am sitting in cyberspace on a zoom call. They kept forgetting about me. I was I wasn't able to barge into the calls. I couldn't read the body language of the people around me. And I realized really quickly that by creating a hybrid environment, we created two classes of people. Those that had access to information, access to leaders could read the body language and those that did not.

00;08;50;28 - 00;09;09;09
David Nilssen
And so when we looked at it, we zoomed out, we said, hey, look, in an office, we built all the same sort of muscles around. How do we how do we think about productivity and employee experience and what management, skills and tools do you need, and how do we train people and the same thing is true in remote.

00;09;09;09 - 00;09;25;20
David Nilssen
If you're fully remote, you build the same sort of muscles. When you're in a hybrid environment, you have to do both. So you do both and you pay for both. But you can't really be best in class either. And so for us, we decided we wanted to be a remote organization. We felt like that was the future of the modern workforce.

00;09;25;23 - 00;09;34;10
David Nilssen
But I'm not against in-office work. I just believe that in the hybrid environment, it's the most expensive and potentially the most dangerous for employee experience.

00;09;34;13 - 00;09;50;22
Wayne Turmel
There you go. Now, some of that, of course, has to do with what we think of as hybrid. And are we aware of these dynamics and taking steps to deal with them? Right. Well, where I'm in violent agreement is when it's done badly, all of those things.

00;09;50;24 - 00;10;06;26
David Nilssen
Yeah. Okay. Well, you talked about training just a second ago when you brought that up. I thought, you know, that's a great example of one. Right. So when we used to have salespeople that would onboard with us in an office, I would say, hey, Wayne, welcome to the company. And I'm over generalizing, of course, just to be illustrative here, but hey, great to have you here.

00;10;06;26 - 00;10;19;20
David Nilssen
You're to be our orientation with our HR leader. And then I'm going to have you sit next to Dave. Dave's been in this role for two years. You're going to watch him for the next 2 to 4 weeks. You'll pick it up, you'll be great. And that's sort of how people think about training. It's really training by osmosis.

00;10;19;22 - 00;10;38;21
David Nilssen
But in a remote environment that is absolutely impossible. So if your company is set up to onboard and train and develop people in a, in an in office environment that is not aware of or sensitive to the remote workforce, then the remote people get the short end of the stick and oftentimes, are much less successful.

00;10;38;23 - 00;11;06;08
Wayne Turmel
Absolutely. So we're going to put a pin in that for the moment. Let's get back to the notion of building an international team. If you're remote first and probably on some levels shouldn't matter. In the job and you have the infrastructure, it'll work. I suspect human beings don't work quite that easily. What are some of the challenges when you're putting together an international?

00;11;06;11 - 00;11;26;29
David Nilssen
Yeah, so there's a couple of things. One is, most people are actually not terribly clear on what sort of outcomes and activities are required of the people. So I can't tell you how many times I get sent a job description. And it looks like somebody took a, an executive assistant, a finance, professional and a software engineer and just sort of merged them together and said, hey, we're looking for this unicorn.

00;11;27;02 - 00;11;40;28
David Nilssen
And I think when a company is thinking about outsourcing, be very clear about the specific skill set, and outcomes are looking from a particular role. I know that sounds like table stakes, but, it is not. The second thing that I would say is that most people don't realize that.

00;11;40;28 - 00;11;50;03
Wayne Turmel
There's nothing there is nothing natural. There is nothing natural or simple about doing things naturally and simply.

00;11;50;06 - 00;12;11;23
David Nilssen
Yeah. Totally true. The second thing we've already covered, which I won't go into, it's just it's the management side of this. I find that most of the time when offshore teams fail, they either have the wrong provider, which is possible, or the management team is not really equipped to deal with both remote or international talent. The remote side we will talk about because we did just a minute ago.

00;12;11;25 - 00;12;30;13
David Nilssen
But when it comes to remote workforce right now, two really hot destinations, both of which we serve, are the Philippines and Colombia. And when you think about how do we communicate, how do we evaluate, problems with an organization, how do we lead? How do we make decisions? How do we build trust? How do we disagree?

00;12;30;13 - 00;12;49;24
David Nilssen
Those are all very different based on the cultures you're in. So I'll give you a couple of examples. One is, how we communicate. So, you know, in the Philippines, they've been a country, living on these islands for thousands of years. They've learned how to communicate through cultural nuances and very sophisticated level communication. Well, there you go.

00;12;49;24 - 00;13;12;10
David Nilssen
To us. We've been around for 250 years. We're a, a country of immigrants. We have to be very explicit what they call low context. And the way that we communicate Philippines high context, U.S. low context. So oftentimes the Filipinos to the Americans can feel avoidant in a conversation when in fact, actually the way that they communicate is just very, very different.

00;13;12;12 - 00;13;34;18
David Nilssen
The other thing is how we build trust. So here I'm very task based, which is very U.S centric, very in the way that I built trust. When you told me you were going to do X, you did it on time and you did it well, I now trust you to do the next step in the Philippines. Well, they want to have long coffees and lunches and get to know you as a human being and those kind of things before they trust you.

00;13;34;18 - 00;13;59;05
David Nilssen
And so understanding some of those nuances, they're not wrong. They're just different. But I think a lot of times we expect everyone to be very American in the way they work, when in fact we also need to be open to and embracing, the cultural nuances the others. So one example of that would be, when it comes to giving feedback, in the US, we like more direct feedback, not quite like the Germans, but we like more direct feedback.

00;13;59;11 - 00;14;14;01
David Nilssen
And then in the Philippines, indirect negative feedback is how you give it. So you have to sort of sandwich, the feedback one positive, a negative and then another positive. In order for them to be able to hear and understand it. So there's just things like that that make a big difference.

00;14;14;04 - 00;14;42;28
Wayne Turmel
I'm curious. And maybe this is my Canadian American centric brain. It seems to me markets like the Philippines. And this has to do with colonialism and all kinds of things, probably function with Americans a little bit, probably better, but certainly different than a country like Colombia, which is unifying you all, which you know, is there challenges there?

00;14;43;01 - 00;15;06;05
David Nilssen
Well, surprisingly, the Colombian culture is actually, closer aligned to the American culture in terms of the business environment, the Filipinos. Yes, I would say from a the standpoint of it is primarily an English speaking country. To your point, at one point, American said had, certainly occupied the territory. There's a great alliance from a government standpoint.

00;15;06;05 - 00;15;26;12
David Nilssen
There's a tax treaty. There's a lot of reasons why you would think that. But, they are still very, you know, hierarchical in terms of the way that they operate. Then it's got to be very prescriptive in terms of what's expected of them. And so, just a little bit different, though, in terms of the business environment, they've not quite yet adapted as a full culture in that way.

00;15;26;13 - 00;15;38;09
David Nilssen
Obviously, there's some people have been working with, American business for a long time. That's not an issue. But in general, what I've seen is actually the Colombian culture is a little bit further towards, or closer aligned to the American way of doing business.

00;15;38;11 - 00;15;56;14
Wayne Turmel
Well that's fascinating. And I could geek out on this for a very, very long time. When you go into these markets and looking for talent, are you looking for locals? Are you looking for expats who happen to be living there?

00;15;56;18 - 00;16;17;21
David Nilssen
No, actually, the I'm in fact, I would I would venture to say I'm not aware of any expats that work for us. These are all, local, individuals who who want to work with and learn from, American companies. And so, you know, a lot of the skill sets are the same when it comes to design and, email marketing and finance and accounting.

00;16;17;21 - 00;16;44;20
David Nilssen
A lot of those standard principles are the same. So it actually translates very, very well. But the things that we look at when we go to these markets is, is there, you know, safety, currency stability, is there the right infrastructure? Both. We look at, you know, the the possibility of, natural disasters, all these sort of things that we look at to say, hey, is business continuity going to be an issue for us for one reason in these particular areas?

00;16;44;20 - 00;16;48;15
David Nilssen
And so that's one of the things that we look at in addition to time zone and talent density and things like that.

00;16;48;16 - 00;17;14;07
Wayne Turmel
Very, very cool. We are nearing the end of our time already, which is amazing to me. If you are advising somebody to put together an international team that's going to be remote first, that you know it's going to do this, what are the 1 or 2 very first things that they need to do in your mind to be successful?

00;17;14;10 - 00;17;40;08
David Nilssen
Yeah. I would say first I would look at the places in my organization where I need to add excess capacity, but doing their fiscally responsible way, or where we have people who could be adding even greater value to the organization doing, work that that could be potentially moved somewhere else. Standard work. That, could be moved someone else so that they can focus their time and energy on higher value out of test.

00;17;40;08 - 00;17;54;17
David Nilssen
So that would be the first thing that I would look at. The second thing is I would look at is, what are some of the things that are on the back burner that have been your perpetual second or third priority that you know, need to get done, but you just haven't yet had the time, energy, or capacity to address?

00;17;54;24 - 00;18;05;00
David Nilssen
Those are the first two things that I would look at. And then downstream are the things that we talked about, which is making sure you got the right standard operating procedures and the tools and resources to be able to help to collaborate with those individuals.

00;18;05;02 - 00;18;16;29
Wayne Turmel
But deciding why you want to do it, and that this is a good business thing to do, is probably a good first step. And you'd think that would be a natural thing for people.

00;18;17;02 - 00;18;41;14
David Nilssen
Absolutely. You would think so. But I think a lot of people still just believe that outsourcing is really for, you know, low level tasks. Outsourcing can actually add value in every part of the organization. And my expense I've seen the further we move up in New York chart, the more value we extract from that experience. And so I would not limit yourself to just thinking about administrative work, more about where are the parts of organization that you want to advance, faster than you are today?

00;18;41;20 - 00;19;05;15
Wayne Turmel
Absolutely. David, thank you so much for being with us. Ladies and gentlemen, we will have links to David to, to the future is Borderless podcast Host, which is his podcast. We will have that on our show notes at Long distance Work life.com. David, I'm going to dismiss you and I am going to wrap up the show here.

00;19;05;19 - 00;19;08;00
Wayne Turmel
Thank you so much for being with us, man.

00;19;08;02 - 00;19;08;29
David Nilssen
Thanks for having me.

00;19;09;01 - 00;19;41;09
Wayne Turmel
And now, ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls. Well, come back, long distance work life is based on the books. The long distance leader, long distance teammate, and long distance team. If you want information on our new book, long distance leader, revise rules for remarkable remote and hybrid leadership. This is the new, updated edition. It is available at long distance work life.com/ldl.

00;19;41;09 - 00;20;08;09
Wayne Turmel
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00;20;08;09 - 00;20;33;03
Wayne Turmel
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00;20;33;08 - 00;20;55;27
Wayne Turmel
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Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
00:39 Meet David Nilssen and Doxa Talent
02:10 What It Means to Be a Remote-First Company
03:10 Building Culture Without an Office
05:02 Skills Needed for Remote-First International Teams
07:16 Why Hybrid Work Often Fails
10:38 Training and Onboarding in a Remote Environment
11:06 Challenges of Building International Teams
14:14 Cultural Nuances in Global Workplaces
17:00 Advice for Building Remote-First Global Teams
18:41 Closing Thoughts and Resources

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1. Plan Your PTO Today: If you have unused PTO, schedule it now. Use it to rest, recharge, and reflect on your accomplishments.
2. Set Boundaries: Silence notifications, turn off work alerts, and resist the urge to check your inbox during time off.
3. Be Intentional: Create small plans that bring you joy, whether it’s reading a book, enjoying coffee dates, or scheduling social activities.
4. Communicate with Your Team: Plan ahead with colleagues to ensure adequate coverage during holiday breaks. Use tools like Slack or email scheduling to respect others' time off.
5. Unplug Guilt-Free: Remember, taking PTO isn’t just a perk—it’s essential for maintaining work-life balance and long-term productivity.

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00;00;00;00 - 00;00;22;02
Marisa Eikenberry
The holiday season is supposed to be a time for joy and connection, but for many remote workers, it feels more like juggling act of work, emails and holiday plans. Sound familiar? If taking time off without sneaking a peek at your inbox feels like an impossible dream, you're in the right place.

00;00;22;05 - 00;00;34;22
Marisa Eikenberry
Welcome back to Long Distance Worklife, where we help you lead, work and thrive in remote and hybrid teams. I'm Marisa Eikenberry, a fellow remote worker. And joining me as always, is co-host and remote work expert Wayne Travel. Hi, Wayne.

00;00;34;24 - 00;00;36;26
Wayne Turmel
Hey, Marissa. How are you?

00;00;36;29 - 00;00;59;29
Marisa Eikenberry
I'm great. It's the holiday season and lights are up and things are happening. And you know, it's it's just great. But obviously we have to also start thinking about taking time off. And so there's I mean, we got to talk about setting boundaries and disconnecting and actually enjoying our holiday season. What a concept.

00;01;00;03 - 00;01;11;15
Wayne Turmel
Yeah it's it is an interesting thing. And if you have trouble setting boundaries this is the time of year when it becomes an Olympic sport.

00;01;11;17 - 00;01;14;03
Marisa Eikenberry
Oh, great.

00;01;14;06 - 00;01;44;17
Wayne Turmel
If you have no trouble setting boundaries. God love you. Enjoy the turkey and party down. But it is tough. And we're not even talking about all the family stuff that goes on it. Actually, this speaks to. And I'm speaking to my since I am now a citizen, my American brothers and sisters. Who are notorious for not taking their time off.

00;01;44;19 - 00;02;16;28
Wayne Turmel
The average American lives 10 to 14 hours of personal time in there. Use it or lose it at count. And that means they lose it every year. We are awful about that. Europeans are like, these people are morons. I can't help. But it is important that, you know, I more than once have been taken aside and said, I don't care what you have planned.

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Wayne Turmel
You need to take this time off. And so there you go. And a lot of people are in that position.

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Marisa Eikenberry


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Wayne Turmel
I find it's easier for me to take days throughout the years so that there is less of a chunk of unstructured time because Wayne basically loses his mind. You know, if I don't plan to go anywhere and I it's just my wife and I. So I am left to my own devices. Right. You know.

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Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah.

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Wayne Turmel
You know, let's see I transcribed back.

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Marisa Eikenberry
You know what. It'll probably actually do pretty well. But it's, it's interesting too that you're talking about this because like I actually got a newsletter this morning that was talking about, you know, taking PTO and, and why you should. And here's the things you can do. But they had this line and I wanted to remember it for this episode, but it says, remember that paid time off is more than just a perk of your job.

00;03;15;24 - 00;03;20;17
Marisa Eikenberry
It's a vital part of maintaining your work life balance.

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Wayne Turmel
And oh, by the way, it's the law. They have to give it to you. So stop feeling guilty.

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Marisa Eikenberry
Well, that do.

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Wayne Turmel
Seriously, I don't care about your perfect attendance record. You know, it is your time. You are being paid for it. Take advantage of it. And to Marissa's point. It does allow us to recharge our batteries, and we need to do that.

00;03;48;22 - 00;03;49;24
Marisa Eikenberry
Right? So.

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Wayne Turmel
You know, it's funny this time of year. This time of year. I I'm just going to get personal for a moment.

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Marisa Eikenberry
That's fine.

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Wayne Turmel
The end of the year is really hard for me. I tend not to celebrate the end of the year. I tend to go in a fetal position and obsess about all the ways that screwed up. Oh, no. I mean, basically, I hate New Year's Eve. I love New Year's Day. Okay, here's day. I've got a start. I've got a fresh start.

00;04;21;27 - 00;04;32;26
Wayne Turmel
New year's Eve is just a giant convention of all my neuroses hanging out inside my head. And, oh, by the way, let's fuel that with alcohol.

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Marisa Eikenberry
You know.

00;04;34;03 - 00;05;07;06
Wayne Turmel
Sure. So. Woo hoo! So I have learned. And that's why I'm sharing this with you. I have learned that while staying busy over the holidays keeps me somewhat sane, I tend to balance it out so I will with discussion with my manager. I will work part days. I will work a couple of days and then take each day off during this time.

00;05;07;07 - 00;05;15;26
Wayne Turmel
It's also a really good chance for me to be a good teammate and cover for people who are, you know, stressed for time.

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Marisa Eikenberry
Right? Well, and it's interesting too, that you talk about, you know, you prefer to take days over the year and all that. I, I am somebody my very first year here. And for those of you that have been listening for a while, this will surprise no one. I didn't take a single day off the first year that I worked for getting.

00;05;33;07 - 00;05;39;13
Marisa Eikenberry
That was just me as a person. I just, while I'm here, I got to take the day, you know? So unless you're hoping for a.

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Wayne Turmel
Certificate on the wall.

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Marisa Eikenberry
Because the thing is, I. What I wasn't, it was just in my head. I'm like, well, I'm supposed to go to work, so I'm going to go. Or, like, I didn't have any reason not to go. And yeah. And like, Kevin pulled me aside and was like, hey, so take your day. And, you know, because I, I don't really travel at this current time in my life and I don't really do a lot of extra stuff.

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Marisa Eikenberry
So for the most part, I don't really have a reason to just take a random Thursday off because, you know, to your point, like I just sit at home, I go, well, I could have been working, but the last couple of years I do take a chunk of time at the end of the year. Because, you know, I host Christmas Eve and I'm trying to bake cookies with my mom and so there's all this stuff that happens at the very end of the year anyway, and it's just like all of that stuff comes together and it's like, you know what?

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Marisa Eikenberry
Okay. And so the last I think two year, 2 or 3 years now, I've just taken the last two weeks of the year off and it's just been that's it. I'm I'm out of the office and it's weirdly been the best thing for me to do to get myself reset for January. Yeah.

00;06;51;00 - 00;06;53;18
Wayne Turmel
Not everybody can go.

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Marisa Eikenberry
100%.

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Wayne Turmel
Without a break. And so, you know, if you want to grow up and be like, Marissa, God love you. Not everybody functions that way. And so it's really important. What if you struggle with that? If you struggle that what am I going to do except obsess about work? Make a plan for that day.

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Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah.

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Wayne Turmel
Even if it is. I mean, I have said I am stepping out. I live in Las Vegas, so I can do this. I am going to spend a couple hours on the deck with a book, me and the hummingbirds and maybe a cigar. I actually plan for that and I leave and it's it a I got to check something off my list.

00;07;40;11 - 00;07;44;07
Wayne Turmel
I sat right back and I watched the hummingbird and I had a cigar. And it's all good.

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Marisa Eikenberry
Check check check check.

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Wayne Turmel
But plan little. What makes you happy? What is a treat for yourself?

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Marisa Eikenberry


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Wayne Turmel
And it doesn't have to be huge. It really doesn't. But little things that make you happy. Is there a book you've been wanting to read? Is there a movie you've been wanting to see? Is there you know, my wife and I have coffee dates and we get out of the house, which is the function, because Wayne is in the house all week.

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Marisa Eikenberry
Right?

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Wayne Turmel
We get out of the house, we have a cup of coffee. We chat about stuff. But we make it an event. And I think that's the thing is. Well, what am I going to do with this time anyway? Get used to being good to yourself, and it doesn't have to be big, and it doesn't have to be expensive, and it doesn't have to be anything that any body else cares about.

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Marisa Eikenberry
100%. I mean, I'm not going to lie. Parker and I have. So Parker's my husband. For those of you listeners that haven't heard me mention that name before, but like there has been once or twice, but we took a day off of work. Why? Because again, we were really excited about came out and we were going to play it together.

00;09;06;01 - 00;09;23;02
Wayne Turmel
Absolutely. Little things make us happy. And if you are alone at this time, plan for things that get you involved with other humans.

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Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, the social part is so important.

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Wayne Turmel
It is. It's really easy for this to be hard for people. My daughter is in Chicago. She's alone. She struggles with seasonal stuff. Anyway. She has to. Yesterday she went to the, sing along with it at.

00;09;47;05 - 00;09;48;04
Marisa Eikenberry
Okay.

00;09;48;06 - 00;10;00;16
Wayne Turmel
By herself, her and half of Chicago, from the sounds of it. Just singing popular at the top of her lungs for two hours, and it made her happy.

00;10;00;18 - 00;10;09;12
Marisa Eikenberry
Thank you. You know, I definitely want to see that movie, but I'm waiting for the no singalong version for a bit, because I've actually never seen it.

00;10;09;15 - 00;10;14;00
Wayne Turmel
But that's what she has seen the stage play nine times.

00;10;14;02 - 00;10;15;16
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, there you go.

00;10;15;18 - 00;10;47;01
Wayne Turmel
So she is a little of right, but this but this is the thing is that we need to guard our time. If you are working during this season. Don't begrudge the people who are taking their time. Plan with them what's available, what's really do. What can you do to help them? What can they do before they disappear to help you so that you are not left stranded?

00;10;47;04 - 00;11;23;28
Wayne Turmel
Right. And these conversations take place kind of organically when we're all in the office together. But when we work remotely and I. If there's a drinking game for this show, the words we. So and intentional are probably the ones that will put you over the line. But intentionality is so important. It's funny, we're talking about taking time off and recharging your batteries, but you need to be intentional about that.

00;11;24;01 - 00;11;32;25
Wayne Turmel
You can't just assume that it's going to happen or assume that everybody understands or does that the same way that you did.

00;11;32;28 - 00;11;57;15
Marisa Eikenberry
Switching gears a little bit. Talking about intentionality and, and you know, when we are taking that time, but like how do we also intentionally protect that time by, you know, resisting the urge to check work messages and slack messages and emails and all that? I know I struggled with that for a very long time. I have some tips I'll get into in a minute, but do you have some tips on that?

00;11;57;18 - 00;12;20;13
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, for me it's really simple. It's just kill the alert. It's a simple. Yep. Setting. I mean, for me, it's enough that I kill the auditory work because I'm like Pavlov's dog. I hear a ping. I need to check it. Right? Right. I can pick up my phone and see there are eight messages in outlook. Well, I ain't working right now, so.

00;12;20;16 - 00;12;38;22
Wayne Turmel
But I also have 60 years of practice that allowed me to get there. But kill the alerts. Silence the notifications. It's easy to do, and you'd be amazed at what a difference it makes.

00;12;38;24 - 00;12;44;13
Marisa Eikenberry
I've had my email this off for years and it's so helpful.

00;12;44;15 - 00;13;11;15
Wayne Turmel
And if you are obsessive, just pick a time. I mean, okay. I'm an early morning riser. My wife is asleep. I'm supposed to be on vacation. I'm supposed to be whatever. I will sneak a peek of my emails just to see if there's a burning fire. But once it's done, I'm done. I can relax. I have hit the little valve on my brain that vents that stuff.

00;13;11;17 - 00;13;35;13
Wayne Turmel
And I can now relax because I know there's nothing there that requires my immediate attention. For a lot of us. It's the anticipation of, oh, my God, there's something in my inbox. I know there is. So, you know, hitting the little vent and letting the steam escape is actually better than just trying to ignore it. Stick your finger in here and go la la la la la I'm not listening.

00;13;35;14 - 00;13;36;10
Wayne Turmel
You.

00;13;36;13 - 00;14;07;06
Marisa Eikenberry
Well funny enough that is what I do is that I, I have all the do not disturb, but I know me. I know that for me, I am a recovering workaholic. And if I first of all, I get a bunch of emails just telling me that the websites have updated constantly. And so those happen anyway. But I know that if I go in to look at stuff and if I see something that's a task my brain isn't going to be, oh, that can wait until Monday.

00;14;07;06 - 00;14;29;08
Marisa Eikenberry
It's, well, I can do that right now. I'm already home. Like, I'll just go do it. I know me and so I won't look at it at all. So if if you are like me, like, that's okay too. Whatever you need to do to protect yourself and your time. I know that one of our coworkers used to frequently tell me we are not surgeons.

00;14;29;09 - 00;14;33;11
Marisa Eikenberry
These are not life and death situations. And if it is, they will pick up the phone.

00;14;33;14 - 00;15;01;00
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, it's. We've been doing this show a long time. We have given you lots of advice. Readers, listeners. I still I'm an analog guy. Dear listener, we have given you a bunch of stuff. Some of it is going to ring true. Some of it is going to seem weird. Probably we should have offered this disclaimer when we began doing this show, which is your mileage may vary, right?

00;15;01;01 - 00;15;32;26
Wayne Turmel
We are all human beings with our own individual styles. For me, quick bursts of venting and then being allowed to possibly go about my day works for other people. It doesn't. As long as it doesn't go down the rabbit hole, as long as you it doesn't interfere with your pleasure, with your relaxation. I know that being worried about stuff is counterintuitive to time off.

00;15;32;28 - 00;16;13;24
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. Defeats the purpose. Get used to it is my advice. Small doses gradually building up resistance. And that is the answer. But we all do stuff differently, and there are generalities. We need time off. We need to recharge our batteries. We need to set boundaries with the people we work with and for so that our life, work life does not overrun our personal life and steal our joy.

00;16;13;26 - 00;16;20;26
Wayne Turmel
And yes, this is grumpy old white guy talking about joy. You are allowed to have it.

00;16;20;28 - 00;16;30;08
Marisa Eikenberry
Let the record state at 1127 at 2 p.m., Wayne said. Let there be joy.

00;16;30;11 - 00;16;34;23
Wayne Turmel
And it were. And let there be joy. Darn it, it's the holidays.

00;16;34;25 - 00;16;54;02
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, and to your point about, you know, respecting each other's boundaries and things like that. So, you know, if I know that Wayne is out for a week and I might still be working and I have something that I need to talk to him about or whatever, maybe I don't send that email right now. We have slack schedulers.

00;16;54;03 - 00;17;14;24
Marisa Eikenberry
I'm sure Microsoft Teams has some sort of scheduling thing. I know outlook does. You know, if you need to get the email out of your head. So that way you don't forget. Great. Do it. Schedule it for when they come back because it's it's just not important right now. And if it is pick up the phone.

00;17;14;27 - 00;17;20;19
Wayne Turmel
And your desire to get it off your plate does not mean you get to mess with somebody else.

00;17;20;21 - 00;17;24;05
Marisa Eikenberry
Absolutely. And while it will.

00;17;24;06 - 00;17;33;20
Wayne Turmel
Things scheduling emails, you know, these little behavioral niceties.

00;17;33;22 - 00;17;35;09
Marisa Eikenberry


00;17;35;12 - 00;17;51;28
Wayne Turmel
Build up. You know we've talked before about the trust bank account and how every time you have a good interaction with somebody it builds positive will and positive will so that when inevitably something unhappy happens you don't drain that account.

00;17;52;00 - 00;17;53;01
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;17;53;03 - 00;18;11;29
Wayne Turmel
And these little things make all the difference. You know, you've heard me say before. My favorite quote from Napoleon. If you want to avoid war, you avoid the thousand little pinpricks that lead to war. Little things like this matter.

00;18;12;02 - 00;18;34;05
Marisa Eikenberry
So one of the last things I want to cover before we end this episode is, you know, what are some strategies that teams can implement to, like, ensure adequate coverage when team members are taking time off, especially like, you know, we're going into the holiday season, lots and lots of people are taking time off. And in some cases you're working with skeleton crews and things like that.

00;18;34;05 - 00;18;40;28
Marisa Eikenberry
So what can teams kind of plan for ahead of time to accommodate?

00;18;41;00 - 00;18;49;21
Wayne Turmel
I can't remember the last time anybody listening to this heard me say, have a meeting, but this would be one.

00;18;49;24 - 00;18;51;07
Marisa Eikenberry
Yes.

00;18;51;09 - 00;19;22;22
Wayne Turmel
Right. Prior to probably mid-November, as a team, look at what is remaining that needs to be done for the rest of the year. That is time sensitive, right? That isn't just more of the same, but what are the unique demands of the end of the year? There are reports that need to be done. There are all kinds of end of the year activities that get added on to, oh yeah, we're trying to run a business and sell some stuff.

00;19;22;25 - 00;19;23;26
Marisa Eikenberry
Crazy.

00;19;23;28 - 00;19;48;15
Wayne Turmel
So as a team, identify what those are and then talk about who's going to be a way during that time. You know, people have use it or lose it time. You know, so-and-so can't shut up about their upcoming trip to Hawaii. We know they're not going to be here, but somebody else has a bunch of use it or lose it time, and there's no real occasion.

00;19;48;15 - 00;19;51;00
Wayne Turmel
So we didn't know that they're going to be gone.

00;19;51;03 - 00;19;53;26
Marisa Eikenberry


00;19;53;29 - 00;20;19;19
Wayne Turmel
Have these conversations and maybe have a slack channel or something like that. That's just for holiday coverage. Hey I'm around. Hey I'm going to be around but I'm going to be out for two days. Something came up. I'm not in the rest of the day. Right. Keep each other apprized so that there are fewer uncomfortable. Recognitions.

00;20;19;21 - 00;20;21;20
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. Sudden recognitions.

00;20;21;22 - 00;20;38;21
Marisa Eikenberry
Right? Well, and in your out of office emails, too. You can also say, you know, hey, if you have questions about this talk to this. I know every time I do an out of office, especially if I'm the only one taking time off. Like it depends on what it is. You know, if they're talking about long distance work life, I tell them to go to you.

00;20;38;21 - 00;20;46;16
Marisa Eikenberry
If they're talking about Remarkable Leadership podcast, they go to Lisa like, I have a list. Here's all the people that you need to talk to because I'm not here.

00;20;46;19 - 00;21;13;25
Wayne Turmel
Here's the other thing with a couple of very obvious exceptions, because you are the tech guru that the rest of us aren't. Stuff gets done. The company is still standing when you come back on January, whatever the heck it is. Yeah, the building will still be there. You will still have a job. Your boss is still going to expect you to get back to work.

00;21;13;27 - 00;21;16;15
Wayne Turmel
And the world has not come to a halt.

00;21;16;18 - 00;21;18;07
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;21;18;09 - 00;21;28;27
Wayne Turmel
If you are that vital to the preservation and maintenance of the business, you are underpaid and your boss is doing it wrong.

00;21;28;29 - 00;21;36;14
Marisa Eikenberry
And probably have no idea anything about delegation either. Depending on where you're at in the hierarchy.

00;21;36;17 - 00;21;49;07
Wayne Turmel
But that's something that we need to get used to, to this notion that if I take my holidays, the bill, you know, the company will fail. No it won't. Yeah.

00;21;49;10 - 00;21;54;05
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, it's like we said earlier, that man, that's a life or death situation.

00;21;54;07 - 00;21;59;18
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. It's like, take your time. It's right across.

00;21;59;21 - 00;22;19;11
Marisa Eikenberry
Do it. So I guess the lesson for this episode, listeners is that if you aren't taking your PTO, please take it. If you know that you have days that you haven't spent this year, and especially if it's a use it or lose it. Figure out when you're going to take off. Like right now. Like stop the show. Go do it.

00;22;19;13 - 00;22;38;08
Marisa Eikenberry
We will forgive you for not listening to the rest of this episode. But, Wayne, I want to thank you so much for this last live episode of the year. This last one that we're going to be recording. So for those of you that are listening, you'll hear about two weeks of replays before we get new shows up in January.

00;22;38;11 - 00;23;05;03
Marisa Eikenberry
But before we go, we're excited to share that the second edition of The Long Distance Leader is now available. This updated guide is packed with actionable strategies to help you lead effectively in today's remote and hybrid environments. Don't wait. Order your copy at long distance work life.com/ldl. Take your leadership skills to the next level in 2025. And because the holidays are in full swing, we do want to wish you a joyful and restful season.

00;23;05;06 - 00;23;26;12
Marisa Eikenberry
Take these moments to recharge. Use your PTO. Connect with your loved ones and reflect on the wins that you've had this year because you've earned it. And thank you so much for listening to The Longest Worklife for Shownotes transcripts and other resources. Make sure to visit Long Distance worklife.com. And if you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe so you never miss a future one.

00;23;26;14 - 00;23;43;11
Marisa Eikenberry
And while you're at it, leave us a rating or review on Apple or Spotify. It's quick, and it helps us reach even more listeners like you. And we'd also love to hear from you. So reach out to us via email or LinkedIn with the links in our show notes and let us know that you listen to this episode, or suggest a topic for Wayne and I to tackle in the New Year.

00;23;43;13 - 00;23;50;11
Marisa Eikenberry
Thank you so much for being part of our community. We hope you have a wonderful holiday season. And as Wayne likes to say, don't let the weakness get you down.


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
01:00 Why Americans struggle with taking PTO
03:15 The benefits of PTO for work-life balance
05:00 Personal stories of managing time off and holiday stress
08:00 Small joys: Planning activities for your time off
12:00 Tips for disconnecting from work during PTO
14:30 The power of scheduling and protecting boundaries
18:12 Strategies for ensuring adequate team coverage during holidays
22:00 Final thoughts: Why you need to take your PTO now!

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Wayne Turmel welcomes Sri Ganesan, co-founder and CEO of Rocketlane, for a deep dive into the challenges and innovations in remote project management. They discuss the complexities of client-facing projects, why traditional tools often fail remote teams, and how Rocketlane aims to centralize and streamline project delivery to create transparency and trust. Sri shares insights on the importance of proactive systems over "hero" managers, the evolving role of project management without dedicated PMs, and how AI is shaping the future of project oversight. Tune in for practical tips on building client trust, setting expectations, and fostering effective collaboration in a dispersed environment.

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3. From Hero to System: Great project management shouldn’t rely on heroic efforts. Instead, robust systems should proactively surface potential risks and keep projects on track without constant manual oversight.
4. Adapting Project Management: Many remote projects lack dedicated PMs, making it crucial for tools to fill this gap by guiding governance and best practices.
5. AI in Project Management: Sri encourages teams to start experimenting with AI to identify project risks early and improve efficiency in team workflows.

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00;00;08;05 - 00;00;36;17
Wayne Turmel
Hello everybody, and welcome to the Long-Distance Worklife Podcast where we are determined to help you thrive. Survive generally make sense of the crazy, ever changing world of remote and hybrid work. My name is Wayne Turmel. This is a Marisa-less episode, because as we do every other week, we have a really excellent conversation planned for you.

00;00;36;19 - 00;00;57;00
Wayne Turmel
So I'm going to introduce today's guest, Sri Ganesan. Is the boss of all things at Rocketlane. We're going to talk about project management, managing projects, setting up teams in a remote environment. Tre, how are you today?

00;00;57;02 - 00;01;03;10
Sri Ganesan
I mean, thank you so much for having me on your show today. I'm doing well. Things are good.

00;01;03;12 - 00;01;15;22
Wayne Turmel
I am delighted to hear that. We will try not to, mess that up. So real quickly, tell us, who are you? Why do we care? And what is Rocketlane?

00;01;15;24 - 00;01;43;24
Sri Ganesan
Sure. So, you know, as you introduced, I'm one of the founders and the CEO here at Rocket Lab, and this is my second SAS venture, built one from 2012 to 2015. And then, you know, that company got acquired, went through a seven and eight year journey overall in the previous business. And had a lot of learnings from that venture, which pushed us, me and my co-founders, the same co-founders of the last time, towards building something new.

00;01;43;27 - 00;02;09;13
Sri Ganesan
And we started Rocket Land four and a half years ago. We found that client facing project delivery felt very broken. We found a category called PSC Professional Services Automation, which had a bunch of legacy tools, and we thought, hey, what if we make this customer centric, modern PSC as a category that we can champion, we can create, and that's what we are on to at Rocket Lab.

00;02;09;13 - 00;02;32;00
Sri Ganesan
So we are a professional services automation tool which has a customer facing angle to it and helps both in the back end of operations for project delivery teams, like resource management, time tracking, etc. but also on the front end of it helps you with the actual project delivery, the governance around it, and so on.

00;02;32;03 - 00;02;40;21
Wayne Turmel
What was actually broken in the client facing piece of this? What was the problem you were solving for?

00;02;40;24 - 00;03;08;22
Sri Ganesan
So it's say two things. One is there's a deluge of tools that people were using. So you use one tool for the actual project management. You use something else to collaborate on documents. You use a conversation tool like a slack or a teams. You also use a PSA tool for same time tracking, budget tracking, you know, invoicing, etc. so information gets siloed across all of these and email as well.

00;03;08;22 - 00;03;30;05
Sri Ganesan
You can imagine. And everyone does also stuff an email. And then also the work gets siloed, which means, you know, there's there's tasks, small things that you need to do emerging from something you documented on email saying, hey, here's the action items from a meeting. There's something else that's in the project management tool. There's a comment on a document that needs to still be resolved.

00;03;30;07 - 00;04;00;14
Sri Ganesan
So work becomes too siloed. It's spread across too thin in different places. It's hard for anyone to be on top of it. And along this journey, the internal team and the customer are on a different page, right? Like you have a version of everything internally, you have a version that you've exposed to the customer. Everyone feels it's a little bit of a black box as to what's really happening, what's happening in the customer's mind the customer is anxious about, hey, are you really going to deliver on time?

00;04;00;16 - 00;04;19;22
Sri Ganesan
Because all they see is like a status update or a weekly status report you publish each week. So a lot of anxiety, mistrust along the way that builds up. People are not on the same page, and things do get dropped as well because of how siloed information and what this.

00;04;19;25 - 00;04;58;29
Wayne Turmel
Now, project management is one of the first areas that really embraced and figured out remote work. And when I say figure it out at least enough to make it happen, right? You remember working on remote projects back in the 90s and what? What has gotten easier over the years with remote project teams and what still remains a bear that we just haven't done as well as we might.

00;04;59;02 - 00;05;33;04
Sri Ganesan
I think what's gotten easier to just meeting more often, I think people have just gotten used to the fact that, hey, there's going to be zoom meetings every other day that we need to jump on and keep each other updated. I think the practice of project management has evolved so much that those who are in the know around those practices do a great job of surfacing risk earlier, being transparent about where things stand, calling out you know, things that need to be resolved, across teams, etc. but it's not necessarily something that everyone still does.

00;05;33;05 - 00;05;49;14
Sri Ganesan
Right? I think those who are who have embraced project management over a period of time as a practice have evolved to a state where they're able to do a great job of all of this. But you wouldn't find this to be universally true. What else has become one of the.

00;05;49;17 - 00;06;11;14
Wayne Turmel
One of the things that and I'm throwing you this curveball. So if the answer is you don't know, that's an acceptable answer. But I know that, Project Management Institute and the PIM Borg had instituted a lot of knowledge about what project management is. And I know that plays a role in the fact that people are getting better at it all the time.

00;06;11;16 - 00;06;20;23
Wayne Turmel
Has the Pim Bork adjusted to remote work as well as it might, or what's it missing?

00;06;20;26 - 00;06;43;13
Sri Ganesan
I would say the principles are, you know, universal in the sense that it doesn't matter if it's a team doing things remotely versus a doing team getting together in person, but it's more about, I would say not everyone is going to be a PMP, the new.

00;06;43;14 - 00;07;04;00
Wayne Turmel
Project management professional. And my apologies for throwing Pim back out there. Like everybody knows what it is. That is the project manager Book of Knowledge, the One Ring to rule them all. Project management is industry looks at. So my apologies to the to the listeners who just went Yeah.

00;07;04;00 - 00;07;11;13
Sri Ganesan
So like likewise, my apologies to throwing PMP as a term, but you would see if someone is a PMP you would see it on their LinkedIn. Right? Like the.

00;07;11;13 - 00;07;16;00
Wayne Turmel
Name. Oh, they are not shy about telling you if they're.

00;07;16;02 - 00;07;44;17
Sri Ganesan
My what what I've seen is we are increasingly moving to a world where people are not specialists in project management. Not every project, a big project has an engagement manager, a project manager assigned. But very often people are expected to play that dual role of, hey, I'm, I'm working on the things that need to get done, but I'm also managing the project, in which case, I think, you know, the expertise in project management is not going to be there.

00;07;44;20 - 00;08;32;19
Sri Ganesan
But you expect that with tools that are available, you get the job done. You you know, there's enough, that that you have to, tool systems, emails, etc., that you still should manage to get the project delivered successfully without a full time expert project manager. And that's that's where I think things actually break down. It's true that not every project deserves a full time project manager, but the systems need to adapt and and help bridge the gap in a better way around best practices around governance for projects, etc. because the people you know, and then they're running their first few projects or even later are not necessarily well attuned to.

00;08;32;21 - 00;08;46;02
Sri Ganesan
If you go to any SAS company, for example, the implementation teams there typically are not PMP certified. So you need to deal with that reality in how you deliver on your projects successfully. Even without that kind of expertise.

00;08;46;05 - 00;09;14;15
Wayne Turmel
Well, what you just said is really important because yes, you know, there are project managers and there are official projects, but every leader on the planet deals with projects and, you know, ranging from organizing Alice's birthday party in the break room to huge, you know, system changes. I guess there are two sides to this. One is that my experience?

00;09;14;15 - 00;09;44;09
Wayne Turmel
Is that project teams, project managers are not necessarily the manager of the people on the team. Right. So there is a little bit of you're my project manager, but I answer to Bob. And so there are these, conflicting priorities. Sometimes miscommunication. Can technology help us address that?

00;09;44;11 - 00;10;07;07
Sri Ganesan
Absolutely. I think there's a few. I mean, you made a very good point around you're responsible to get things done on time, but you're not the boss of most of the people on the project. As a project manager and think about customer facing projects where you also need inputs from customers, approvals from customers, things to happen on time, from the customer side.

00;10;07;09 - 00;10;30;26
Sri Ganesan
And you're definitely not the boss of your customer. So how do you handle that? Right? The way I've seen things. Then when you don't have the right technology, the team member is always worrying about, like the project manager or the person assuming that role for the project is worried about, hey, I just asked the customer about this yesterday.

00;10;31;04 - 00;10;49;06
Sri Ganesan
Is it okay for me to ask about it again today, or should I give it a couple of days? Even for an internal team member, I. Hey, the last time I asked about it, they said they'll get back in a week. Should I follow up midweek? About. Hey, are we on track still or is it going to get too annoying if I keep doing this?

00;10;49;09 - 00;11;18;27
Sri Ganesan
So there are these soft software aspects, right? And, you know, there's a gentleman, one of my customers once asked me, how does the project get delayed? And the answer to that was, you know, I came up with various reasons, like, why does the project get delayed? Here are like ten reasons why a project gets delayed. And he said, hey, you know, the question was, how does a project get delayed?

00;11;18;27 - 00;11;59;26
Sri Ganesan
And the answer is one day at a time. So his input was that every day matters, right? And you need to get really tight on your execution for you to actually deliver on time. You're not going to manage to keep a project on track if you don't have that tight governance around how things are happening. And I think the right tool can actually help you with that governance and automation around the governance so that it's not down to, hey, I have this hero project manager here who does a great job every single time and is on top of things and knows when to follow up, but it's more system driven.

00;12;00;03 - 00;12;18;12
Sri Ganesan
So can we move from hero driven to system driven? I think that's the responsibility of a great client. Facing project delivery to a great PSA will throw risks at using hey, this project has a schedule risk, a scope risk, a budget risk, etc. so that you get ahead of the problems.

00;12;18;15 - 00;12;52;04
Wayne Turmel
I think that is such an important point, and I think on remote teams, because you can't just poke your head over somebody's cube when there's a problem. I think that it's really important to remember that systems are replicable and heroes seldom are. It's way easier to build a good system that people can plug into than it is to try to create a whole bunch of great project managers.

00;12;52;06 - 00;13;15;29
Sri Ganesan
Absolutely. And I think, you know, it's not just for internal when you're working with the customer. It's also about, do you have a sense of what's what's going on in the customer's mind in a remote world? You see them on zoom for like one hour every alternate day maybe, and you don't necessarily. You're paying attention to what you're presenting and how someone reacted to that.

00;13;16;01 - 00;13;38;21
Sri Ganesan
You're not necessarily gauging what else is running on their mind, and very often, you know, you think things are going great. And then there is an escalation from the customer. And by the time that escalation comes in, it's too late to recover from that. There's there's so much that has built up in the customer's mind around what's working, what's not working, why this partnership is good or not good anymore.

00;13;38;24 - 00;14;07;15
Sri Ganesan
And that's led to that escalation. Whereas if you have a great system, the system should capture along the journey. What's the sentiment of the customer as well and help you get ahead of a problem the first time you have a three star rating for like a workshop or a training or something else you did with the customer, is a great opportunity for your leader to connect with them, saying, hey, what could have made this a five star experience?

00;14;07;18 - 00;14;19;26
Sri Ganesan
And, you know, turn things around if you have if you don't know about like if it's a one star experience, you hear about it because there's someone shouting at you already. Yeah, but if it's multiple three star.

00;14;19;26 - 00;14;50;13
Wayne Turmel
About it very quickly and then actually, I think is a point whether you're using project management software or not on remote teams, I think it's really critical that there are the big check ins, right? The the meetings, the conversations. But there's also this constant feedback loop of the ability to check in, the ability to just check a number rather than call a meeting.

00;14;50;13 - 00;15;20;06
Wayne Turmel
The, you know, that information needs to be flowing both ways all the time. And that's just true of remote work, right? If you wait until there's a big challenge, it's very often too late or it's created way more drama than it needs to. Let me ask you this. We're going to switch gears just a bit as the guy running the company, right, has the CEO.

00;15;20;08 - 00;15;44;05
Wayne Turmel
And I know that just because people make a certain software or have a certain expertise, doesn't mean they always execute perfectly. So what are the things that you wish your team did better? And how do you handle it? Because you're sitting in Lehigh Utah, and they're not. Yeah.

00;15;44;08 - 00;16;13;20
Sri Ganesan
So we actually have, team members globally now, of course, as you would expect. And I think the way we've thought about this is we look at it from the customer's perspective. What is the journey that a customer is going through with us when you are executing on a project? So our projects, for example, are we are delivering like we are implementing our own software as a project and it is project management software.

00;16;13;20 - 00;16;36;08
Sri Ganesan
Of course, that's it's sort of a I think question over there. But but we are implementing using our own software. So we need to come across as the experts. We need to be one of the best customers of our own. Software is not the best. And we learn from our customers all the time. But we sort of engineered a lot of things to get this right.

00;16;36;08 - 00;17;13;06
Sri Ganesan
I would say it starts at making a great first impression and setting expectations right very early. So that kickoff meeting, even right from kickoff and kickoff, I think there's a lot of effort that's gone into perfecting what needs to happen over there. How do we help customers see us as experts early on? How do we help create a few teaching moments, even from the kickoff meeting where the customer walks away from that meeting thinking, hey, I learned something today from the Rocket Lab team that I can put in use in my projects with my customers.

00;17;13;08 - 00;17;43;23
Sri Ganesan
It's also about, you know, getting their permission for, hey, we're going to be intense in this project. That's our style. Are you okay with that? So one of the questions we ask in the kickoff meeting is what should we do if your team is not reacting or responding to what we need on time and with the exec sponsor on the other side, usually they're going to say, hey, if there's a day of delay on your site, suffice it to me, I'm happy to figure out like how to solve this and move things forward.

00;17;43;25 - 00;18;10;12
Sri Ganesan
But I want to hear early because the exec wants to hear early and we are thinking about, hey, Will, will we be throwing someone under the bus, should we escalate or not, etc. but now you have the permission from the leader saying, hey, here's the way you're going to operate, here's what's going to happen every week. So that's those are some things that we've done early in the journey and then throughout the journey, if it's a large project, as you said, there's like a steering committee meeting that happens.

00;18;10;14 - 00;18;23;28
Sri Ganesan
But for smaller projects, we have a set that goes out automatically for every deliverable along the way. So you catch sentiment problems early. You also catch like a critical milestone, slipping early.

00;18;24;00 - 00;18;49;15
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. I want those of you who are listening who are not necessarily project managers. I don't want what Sri just said to slide by because it's something not enough people ask, which is you're talking to your customer, you're talking to your stakeholder, and you want to say, hey, everything's going to be great. And here's what we're going to do.

00;18;49;17 - 00;19;22;17
Wayne Turmel
But pointing out if there is a problem, how do you want to handle it as quickly as you can? And getting agreement on what that is prevents so much drama. And and Shree, thank you, because I haven't heard anybody actually put that into the process. And I think that's really important. We are running out of time. Sri, what is the one thing that you want to leave with the folks who are listening?

00;19;22;25 - 00;19;41;06
Wayne Turmel
We will have links to Rocketlane. We will have links to the demo. We will have links to Sri in our show notes, but, Sri, what's one piece of brilliance that you want to leave our listeners with?

00;19;41;08 - 00;19;48;15
Sri Ganesan
I'll say two things, if that's fine. One is. Oh, fine. I would say just remember that.

00;19;48;17 - 00;20;09;00
Sri Ganesan
I would say one thing for any project team to remember is if you're working with the customer on a project, the ball is always in your court. You may believe that it's in the customer's code, but you still need to internalize that it's still on you to hold them accountable and make things happen because you don't want finger pointing later.

00;20;09;03 - 00;20;47;12
Sri Ganesan
The exact on the customer side, you know, trusted you to deliver as a team, and that includes making their team do work on time. So that's one second I would say is pay attention to what's happening in the last year and a half around AI, because it's going to change a lot in this space. You need to, if you're like in your budgeting season budget for I need to do some AI experiments to to figure out how to make my team more efficient, to get more, you know, high quality, work, focus on our team versus like the mundane tasks that people are doing, etc..

00;20;47;12 - 00;21;03;03
Sri Ganesan
Right. So I think very important for us to actively be experimenting with new AI tools in this space and to ensure that we are getting ahead of the game and equipping ourselves and our teams to to embrace what's coming our way.

00;21;03;05 - 00;21;16;25
Wayne Turmel
Without going down the rabbit hole. Because, boy, that's a big rabbit hole. What is one thing that you think AI is going to change about the way rocket land works?

00;21;16;28 - 00;21;41;23
Sri Ganesan
We already have a bunch of things that have come in that use AI to make our teams, the teams that use rocket, land more productive, but I feel the biggest thing is, again, the system identifying opportunities, risks, you know, things to surface for at a county level, not just one project, but you're running multiple projects with customers across a project.

00;21;41;23 - 00;22;06;06
Sri Ganesan
You're playing on different calls and emails and so on. How do we identify risks? Early problems early surfaced not letting it to be something that someone needs to raise their hand and say, I need help, but instead the system saying, hey, pay attention. This project. Someone needs to look at what's happening over here so that a leader can help resolve things before something goes south.

00;22;06;06 - 00;22;08;20
Sri Ganesan
So catch it while it goes sideways, not after.

00;22;08;27 - 00;22;41;14
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. So it's surfacing things proactively. Yeah, that's very cool. Thank you I appreciate that. I am going to excuse me for just a moment while I tell you that, you know, leadership is an important part, whether it's project leadership or traditional leadership. Kevin Eikenberry in my new book, The Long Distance Leader Revised Rules for Remarkable Remote and Hybrid Leadership, that is the second edition updated for 2024.

00;22;41;20 - 00;23;24;09
Wayne Turmel
You can find out more about that at long distance. Kevin eikenberry.com/ldl or long distance work life.com/ldl. And the book is now available on audible. If you enjoyed the show, please like subscribe, listen to past episodes. If you have an idea for, topics for guests, if you have comments, questions, vicious personal attacks, you can contact us directly Wayne at Kevin eikenberry.com Marissa at Kevin I can barrie.com or through LinkedIn for either of us or the long distance work life page.

00;23;24;11 - 00;23;48;17
Wayne Turmel
You know what? The world is changing so fast, and that's why we're here. As I said, we will have links to Straight to Rocketlane. You can learn more about the software, on our show notes. Long distance work life.com. That's it for another week. I'll be back with Marissa. Marissa. Next week we will be having a really fun conversation.

00;23;48;17 - 00;23;55;01
Wayne Turmel
You want to check that out? And in the meantime, my name is Wayne Turmel. Don't let the weasels get you down.

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Timestamps

00:00 Welcome to Long-Distance Worklife
00:36 Introduction to Rocketlane
02:09 The Problems with Current Project Tools
04:00 Challenges in Remote Project Management
06:11 Adapting PM Standards for Remote Work
08:32 Dual Roles in Project Management
10:07 Building Trust with Client Projects
12:18 Moving from Heroic to System-Driven PM
13:16 Gauging Client Sentiment Remotely
15:20 Managing Global Teams and Expectations
18:10 Proactive Project Management Techniques
20:47 The Role of AI in Project Management
22:41 Final Thoughts and Resources
23:48 Closing Remarks

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Staying Connected When Natural Disasters Disrupt Remote Teams

Wayne Turmel and Marisa Eikenberry dive into a topic often overlooked—natural disasters and how they impact remote and hybrid work environments. As hurricanes, blizzards, and wildfires increase, so does the need for effective business continuity plans. Wayne and Marisa discuss real-world stories and provide insights on how companies can balance employee safety with the need for operational continuity. They cover essential strategies like communication protocols, cloud-based backups, risk assessment, and creating an emergency contact directory, offering practical advice to help remote teams stay connected and productive during crises.

Key Takeaways

1. The Importance of Preparedness: Why every organization needs a disaster preparedness plan, especially in areas prone to natural calamities.
2. Real-World Consequences: Wayne shares a cautionary story about a company that delayed evacuation, resulting in tragic consequences.
3. Remote Work’s Role in Crisis Management: How remote and hybrid work setups can offer flexibility and continuity when disaster strikes.
4. Communication Protocols and Access Plans: Ensuring that every team member has access to essential data and knows how to communicate their availability during outages.
5. Human-Centric Leadership: The significance of showing grace and understanding toward employees facing personal crises during natural disasters.

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00;00;00;01 - 00;00;14;12
Marisa Eikenberry
When disaster strikes, what happens to your work, whether it's hurricanes, floods or blizzards? These events can disrupt our lives and our jobs in an instant. As your workplace prepared.

00;00;14;14 - 00;00;28;23
Marisa Eikenberry
You. Welcome back to the long distance work life. We help you live, work, and thrive in remote and hybrid teams. I'm Mercer, I can marry a fellow remote worker. And joining me is my co-host and remote work expert, Wayne Trimble. Hi, Wayne.

00;00;28;25 - 00;00;46;24
Wayne Turmel
Hello there. Marissa. Hello, listeners. Greetings from Las Vegas, where we have set a record for days over 100 degrees, and people are melting on the sidewalk. And so does rasters. And nature and stuff is very much on people's minds.

00;00;46;27 - 00;01;17;26
Marisa Eikenberry
Right? And so, listeners, as we are recording this, Hurricane Helen just came through, multiple states in the past weekend. And so we thought that this would be a really interesting episode while we dive into a very critical topic, which is how workplace workplaces handle natural disasters and ensure that business continues while keeping employees safe. So, Wayne, I just want to start off by saying, like, you know, all of these different things happen blizzards, wildfires, we've heard different stuff.

00;01;17;28 - 00;01;31;12
Marisa Eikenberry
Oh, definitely. Over the past couple of years. And how can organizations ensure that business continuity while prioritizing employees safety during these natural disasters? Because, like business can always stop? Yeah.

00;01;31;13 - 00;02;01;10
Wayne Turmel
Therein lies the problem. What I am going to say is based merely on multiple news reports. I'm not taking it from a single source, and I don't know the veracity of it, but we know of at least one company in Tennessee. People wanted to evacuate the workplace. The employer said no until it was too late, and there were 10 or 11 fatalities as a result.

00;02;01;12 - 00;02;30;15
Wayne Turmel
This is thankfully not common, but it ain't unheard of either, right? So this is a very real thing, and you can be cynical and say this ties to the whole work in the office presenteeism kind of thing. But it's also companies are trying to make a living, and they're trying to get as much work done as they can before the storm or the fire or whatever it is happens.

00;02;30;15 - 00;02;34;06
Wayne Turmel
And, you know, we we guess wrong, right?

00;02;34;12 - 00;02;36;17
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. Weather can be unpredictable in that way.

00;02;36;20 - 00;03;03;25
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. So I am not casting blame other than to say that it happens. Right. But that does raise the issue of with sufficient warning. What are the company's plans. How much of a company's work can in fact be done off site. And this is where to say we are going to abandon remote work and everybody get back to the office.

00;03;03;27 - 00;03;34;28
Wayne Turmel
This is exactly the kind of thing that one faces. Before Covid, companies were starting to put call them business continuity plans. Call them what you want in place. And some of this is helped by the fact that so much is now on the cloud, or that the servers are somewhere other than the office. I mean, 1520 years ago your office had a huge server farm in it, and if your office went down, so did everything you own then?

00;03;34;28 - 00;04;07;01
Wayne Turmel
No. Right. That's that's less and less the case now for most organizations. So you know, what is the plan? First of all, for the data, your business has to survive. Your company has to survive. And then how do you ensure that people can get at it? And if you are in a cloud environment, if you are in a paid server environment where the servers are somewhere other than where you are, and if you're experiencing the disaster, hopefully your servers are not.

00;04;07;03 - 00;04;33;20
Wayne Turmel
But ready. What is the plan? And I think that organizations need to have a plan that says even people who don't normally work outside of the office need to know how to access the data. They need to know how to if they're on a VPN, they need to know how to do that. There needs to be there.

00;04;33;21 - 00;04;42;25
Wayne Turmel
And ironically, you know, if you put it in a manual, in the manuals in the office and the office is no longer there, that's a point.

00;04;42;27 - 00;04;43;06
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;04;43;06 - 00;05;01;19
Wayne Turmel
And I, you know, I say that I'm not making light of the situation clearly. So the first thing is think about it from an organization standpoint. If something happens, I mean, we talk in the office all the time about what if Kevin gets hit by a bus?

00;05;01;22 - 00;05;08;23
Marisa Eikenberry
Yep. We've said that about many, many people on our team just because of how integral they are.

00;05;08;26 - 00;05;22;08
Wayne Turmel
Right. We don't want that to happen. We clearly keep you know, we keep him wrapped in bubble wrap when he's not in the office. But you have to have those conversations, and it's irresponsible not to.

00;05;22;10 - 00;05;22;28
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;05;23;00 - 00;05;45;05
Wayne Turmel
If you live in a place that is prone to hurricanes, if you live in a place that is prone to winter blizzards, if you are, you know, whatever it is that needs to be addressed. How do people, the as many people as possible, continue to keep the business afloat? And if you haven't had that conversation, you'd better have.

00;05;45;05 - 00;06;16;14
Wayne Turmel
And if people don't have access codes and they don't have, I mean, I I've heard of people who, when they return to the office after Covid, lost their access to the VPN. Is that really what you want? Mr.. Mrs.. Business owner. So you need to think about that. You also need to and this is best done I think on a team by team basis is does everybody know where everybody is.

00;06;16;16 - 00;06;44;14
Wayne Turmel
Do they? I'll never forget I had an instructor in one of the buildings at the World Trade Center. Wow. The day that 911 and I spent 14 really bad hours waiting to hear from that person. She was safe. She was fine. She got out at the first sign of danger of building all of that good stuff. But for 14 hours, we didn't know where she was, let.

00;06;44;14 - 00;06;45;19
Marisa Eikenberry
Alone.

00;06;45;21 - 00;06;54;18
Wayne Turmel
What she was doing with the business. Whether what was going on with the client. None of that. We didn't physically know if she was still with us. Right.

00;06;54;21 - 00;06;56;21
Marisa Eikenberry
That's terrifying.

00;06;56;22 - 00;07;23;25
Wayne Turmel
So do people know when there is a disaster? Is there a plan for letting your peers and your boss know you're okay? Letting your peers and your boss know I have internet access and I am available, right? Because some people, if you have internet access, there are things that I could do in your absence, but only if I know that you don't have the internet access.

00;07;23;27 - 00;07;41;10
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, I was going to say with that example, we have a person on our team, Guy Harris, who, he's in South Carolina. So while his home is safe and his family is safe, he was hit by a lot of the storm and, like, didn't have power and didn't have internet and thankfully had a generator. But it can only do so much.

00;07;41;10 - 00;08;00;27
Marisa Eikenberry
And he called me very early on to be like, hey, like, I need you to take care of all the disk or disk, support tickets, because I can't help you unless you know, we need to have a phone call about something. But, like, he physically could not get into the back end to help me with anything. And so he made sure to let me know.

00;08;00;29 - 00;08;16;02
Wayne Turmel
So, is there a plan? Right. Do you have the home phone? Numbers are no longer a thing. But do you have the cell, the personal cell number of all your employees? And do they have each other right?

00;08;16;02 - 00;08;19;05
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. Or directory somewhere that they can access.

00;08;19;07 - 00;08;33;06
Wayne Turmel
Is there a directory that exists? I know teams that put each other in their contact list, because having an online resource doesn't help if you can't get online, right.

00;08;33;08 - 00;08;34;08
Marisa Eikenberry
That's fair.

00;08;34;11 - 00;08;46;06
Wayne Turmel
That's a decision, right? You can decide do people want to be that connected to each other? You assume that everybody's going to be a grown up and behave responsibly right now.

00;08;46;06 - 00;08;48;20
Marisa Eikenberry
Drug text Susan at two in the morning.

00;08;48;22 - 00;09;26;20
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, but that's a that's a very concrete thing, right, that you can do to help make sure that that happens. So you need to think about what's going to happen before it happens. Now, I am firmly of the belief that every time one of these disaster have disasters and somebody gets convinced that maybe remote work is not the worst thing that could happen, because even if everybody is physically safe, even if everybody's homes are physically safe, if the office is damaged, if the roads are impassable.

00;09;26;22 - 00;09;33;05
Wayne Turmel
If any of that is going on, could we rarely meet somewhere else and still function well?

00;09;33;05 - 00;09;34;10
Marisa Eikenberry
And on that same.

00;09;34;10 - 00;09;35;03
Wayne Turmel
That line.

00;09;35;04 - 00;09;56;19
Marisa Eikenberry
Is. Yeah. Well, I was going to say on that same line, you know, for people who have teams that are working from home and stuff like that, I mean, there's still thunderstorms, snow, you know, lots of rain might cause flooding or whatever. Like, you know, we've all been in situations of, hey, we got a really bad storm here.

00;09;56;20 - 00;10;18;28
Marisa Eikenberry
I don't have internet or I don't have power. Right now, but it doesn't make sense to go into the office or in your case, your states away from the office. It doesn't make sense to do that. Like what level of flexibility should companies be offering employees for dealing with things like power outages and internet disruptions or personal crises, even during a disaster or just severe weather?

00;10;18;29 - 00;10;46;13
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, I think that this there's several levels to this, right? On the most basic level, you need to sit and think about what risk analysis is, what are the odds of something happen. And what are the results of it. Did that's risk analysis in a nutshell, right? So have you done a risk analysis on your business. Right. What business absolutely has to be done out of the office.

00;10;46;15 - 00;11;08;26
Wayne Turmel
What can be duplicated conducted elsewhere, whatever. And then what are the plans for that on an H.R level, it's yes, the company is fine, but Maurice's house just got washed away, right? First of all, odds are she's not coming into work a few days.

00;11;08;29 - 00;11;11;06
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, I got other priorities right.

00;11;11;09 - 00;11;37;02
Wayne Turmel
And do we have an ability to absorb that or are we going to stick to the. Well, that's personal time. And you've got five days to get your insurance together because after that we ain't paying you. And these conversations happen and they happen all the time. We are very blessed. I mean, we have had some interesting things in this organization in the last year.

00;11;37;05 - 00;11;59;27
Wayne Turmel
I'm about to go out for my second knee replacement in a year, and we've kind of worked around that in terms of time off and all of that. And it's all very civilized. Guy is stuck in a hurricane zone at the moment, you know, as an organization, we have decided we want to take care of each other.

00;12;00;02 - 00;12;17;29
Wayne Turmel
Right. And there is a mechanism in place for that. Right? First of all, there's a lot of grace. There's a lot of people pitching in and helping each other. That's really the kind of thing that it can happen on the spur of the moment. But boy, it's easier if you've planned it.

00;12;18;01 - 00;12;36;10
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. Well, I was going to say like, you know, I, I know that there's also been situations too, where it's like, this thing is not important right now. You know, speaking of spur of the moment, like, you know, my stepdad died last year and I was out for a week because it was just I just can't right now.

00;12;36;10 - 00;12;56;11
Marisa Eikenberry
And so it was like, podcast didn't get edited like this show didn't happen for a week or two. Like, and I don't want to say like everybody was okay with that. But it was grace was given. Right. You figure out what's the what's the biggest priority here. And frankly, it's not that well.

00;12;56;14 - 00;13;19;28
Wayne Turmel
And there are organizations that will tell you that that is the priority. And get your butt back here. We've seen we've seen it time and time again. Again. This is where the possibility of remote work, the idea of even if it's not all the time, can you access the data that you need? Can you reach your customers? Can you reach your teammates?

00;13;20;01 - 00;13;24;01
Wayne Turmel
Do we know if we can't reach the boss who does what?

00;13;24;03 - 00;13;24;14
Marisa Eikenberry
Right?

00;13;24;20 - 00;13;53;22
Wayne Turmel
Those conversations are uncomfortable and they're weird, but you have to have them. And teams that have had those conversations and they know if something happens to Guy, Marissa handles that. If something happens to somebody else, you know, I know the intricate workings of a couple of people here in job, right? If I have to step in, at least short term, I can do that.

00;13;53;24 - 00;13;56;22
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. Basically, make sure you have a backup person.

00;13;56;24 - 00;14;27;28
Wayne Turmel
We've talked about it and we've planned for it a lot of companies. And this is where bad managers get in trouble, because if you weren't used to delegating, if you are used to doing everything yourself, if you don't share the passwords and the information and the workflows and the relationships with other people in the company. If you haven't included your team on that and built into that because you are so important, God forbid something happened to you.

00;14;28;00 - 00;14;28;21
Marisa Eikenberry
Right?

00;14;28;23 - 00;14;46;13
Wayne Turmel
And you know, this gets back to ripen. Wrapping Kevin in bubble wrap. Clearly it's a founder led company. That's a very serious thing. Right. But we can hold the fort for a bit.

00;14;46;16 - 00;14;58;19
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. I was going to say and and to your point, like there are plans in place if something should happen, like he's got stuff written down in places and knows who to contact and like we know what to do.

00;14;58;22 - 00;15;25;25
Wayne Turmel
But this all boils down to a couple of things. First of all, you have to trust your employees. You have to trust. And Covid proved this almost beyond a reasonable doubt. You know, if we send people to work from home, they're going to slack off. They're nothing. It's not true. When there is a crisis and Covid was a crisis, when there is something that happens, people naturally pull together.

00;15;25;25 - 00;15;47;14
Wayne Turmel
I know Americans like to think they're the only ones that do it, but no, people do that right. They help each other, they come together, they do what they do. So your employees want the company to exist. Your employees want each other to be successful. They want to stay employed. If you want to, you know? Yeah.

00;15;47;17 - 00;15;49;07
Marisa Eikenberry
Hiring like a paycheck.

00;15;49;10 - 00;16;14;01
Wayne Turmel
That's, you know, for the short term, people will move heaven and earth and they will make it happen. But you have to help them achieve it. So have the conversations have not just a central location. I mean, it's great to have everything in a filing cabinet, but if there is a raging wildfire between me and the filing cabinet, that's not going to help.

00;16;14;03 - 00;16;17;06
Marisa Eikenberry
Right? Right. I do have one last question for you.

00;16;17;07 - 00;16;34;26
Wayne Turmel
It just hasn't been being and I'm not being facetious other than my normal smart Alec self. This is serious stuff that needs to be done. But they're uncomfortable and they're weird, and there's always something more important that we have to do until there is right.

00;16;34;28 - 00;16;53;05
Marisa Eikenberry
And we've talked a lot about business continuity and things like that. But one of the things that, one of my last questions for you is like, how can organizations provide meaningful support both during or after a disaster, to employees who are being affected by this and, you know, like home damage, family safety, that kind of stuff?

00;16;53;05 - 00;16;58;28
Marisa Eikenberry
I mean, we've already talked about like checking in and, you know, okay, what can I take from you? But like, what about the person itself?

00;16;59;03 - 00;17;04;22
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, a lot of that is just human grace and kindness.

00;17;04;25 - 00;17;06;16
Marisa Eikenberry
A strange concept, right?

00;17;06;19 - 00;17;37;28
Wayne Turmel
Well, it is, and when everybody is affected, it's very difficult to if there's a team member that I don't normally work with or that I'm not really close to, it might feel uncomfortable and weird. Right? For me to to reach out to them or to offer them something. But generally, most teams have somebody speaking very generically, politically and incorrectly.

00;17;38;00 - 00;18;05;10
Wayne Turmel
Eight times out of ten, it's a woman. That's where is the connector, who knows what's going on and will organize getting food to somebody or making sure that somebody has a roof if they need one or whatever that is. And we need to encourage those types of relationships, and we need to encourage those kinds of people on our teams.

00;18;05;12 - 00;18;09;14
Marisa Eikenberry
I would also encourage having a back that is one of those two.

00;18;09;16 - 00;18;11;03
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. And the backup, one.

00;18;11;03 - 00;18;21;00
Marisa Eikenberry
Of those, I mean, legitimately, because we had that happen where our connector had an issue and we all had a moment of, oh crap, who is it now? We figured it out, but still.

00;18;21;03 - 00;18;38;25
Wayne Turmel
And figured it out pretty quickly because we wanted to we cared. We care about our teammates. We care about all the people that we work with, and employers are shocked at how much we care about them. Right? They really are. How?

00;18;38;27 - 00;19;02;00
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, Wayne, thank you so much for this. And listeners, if any of you or family members, relatives, friends are affected by the most recent hurricane, our thoughts and prayers are with you. But before we go, I do want to let you know that the second edition of The Long Distance Leader is now available. This updated guide is perfect for navigating today's remote and hybrid work environments with new principles and proven strategies.

00;19;02;04 - 00;19;27;08
Marisa Eikenberry
Kevin, I can Mary Wayne Trammell show you how to lead effectively no matter where your team is located. Don't miss out on the latest insights and exercises designed to boost productivity and morale. Order your copy now! At Long Day's Work life.com/ldl and strengthen your leadership skills today. Thank you for listening to the Long Distance Worklife. For Shownotes transcripts and other resources, make sure to visit Longest Work life.com.

00;19;27;10 - 00;19;47;17
Marisa Eikenberry
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00;19;47;22 - 00;19;53;14
Marisa Eikenberry
We would love to hear from you. Thank you for joining us. And as Wayne likes to say, don't let the weeds get you down. Hey.


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction: Why Disaster Preparedness Matters
02:01 The High Cost of Delayed Evacuation
04:07 Ensuring Data Accessibility for Remote Teams
08:33 Building a Team Directory and Backup Contacts
12:00 Offering Employees Grace During Crises
15:00 Trust in Remote Employees During Disasters
19:02 Wrap-Up: The Importance of Proactive Disaster Planning

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Mastering Hybrid Coaching: Avoiding Proximity Bias in Remote Teams

Wayne Turmel and Marisa Eikenberry tackle the challenge of proximity bias and its impact on coaching in remote and hybrid teams. Proximity bias, where leaders give preferential treatment to those physically closer, can skew coaching opportunities and development. Wayne and Marisa discuss how to overcome this bias and ensure remote team members receive equal attention and guidance. You’ll also learn practical tips on how to leverage technology, such as Zoom, Slack, and Teams, to create more effective and meaningful coaching experiences.

Key Takeaways

  • Defining Proximity Bias: What it is and why it matters, not just for leaders but also for peers and teams.
  • Coaching Differences: How coaching remote employees differs from in-person coaching and why proximity plays a significant role.
  • The Importance of Regular Feedback: How coaching should be proactive, consistent, and more formal in remote settings to avoid isolation.
  • Leveraging Technology: Tips on using tools like Zoom and Slack to enrich one-on-one coaching experiences and maintain engagement.
  • Avoiding Bias in Hybrid Teams: Strategies to ensure that in-office employees don’t get favored over their remote counterparts during coaching sessions.
  • The Emotional Impact: How not receiving feedback or coaching can be demotivating for remote employees, and what leaders can do to avoid this.

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00;00;07;27 - 00;00;08;18
Marisa Eikenberry
Welcome back to.

00;00;08;18 - 00;00;20;00
Marisa Eikenberry
The Long-Distance worksite, where we help you live, work, and thrive in remote and hybrid teams. I'm Russ, I can be a fellow remote worker. And joining me is my co-host and remote work expert, Wayne Trimble. Hi, Lynn.

00;00;20;03 - 00;00;22;05
Wayne Turmel
Hello, Marissa. How are you?

00;00;22;11 - 00;00;23;28
Marisa Eikenberry
I'm great. How are you?

00;00;24;01 - 00;00;27;01
Wayne Turmel
I'm fine. Even though we're nowhere near each other.

00;00;27;03 - 00;00;57;00
Marisa Eikenberry
Right, right. You in Vegas and me in Indianapolis said we're going to kind of talk about that today, as we do every time on our remote show. But today, specifically, we're talking about coaching and differences between coaching in-person and remote and how to try to make those similar and avoiding proximity bias. So one of the first things that I do want to start with, and we've talked about this a lot on the show, but for people who have never listened to an episode of ours before, maybe we should define what is proximity bias.

00;00;57;08 - 00;01;35;21
Wayne Turmel
Proximity bias as it relates to leaders. Okay, is and I'm looking at this very fancy I generated definition and okay, like all I generated definitions I want to go. That's not entirely it. It says and I quote proximity bias is a cognitive bias that occurs when people have positions of power, favor employees who are physically closer to them, and that includes things like promotions and coaching opportunities and an unintentional exclusion for those who aren't there, and all of that good stuff.

00;01;35;21 - 00;02;02;03
Wayne Turmel
The problem with this definition, of course, is that it happens not just in leadership, it happens in life, and it happens among peers. On teams. So when we're talking proximity bias, yes, in this case, because we're going to be discussing coaching its leaders, but it's also peers and colleagues and stuff like that.

00;02;02;06 - 00;02;11;06
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. So how does proximity bias specifically like affect the coaching experiences of remote employees as opposed to ones in person?

00;02;11;08 - 00;02;41;12
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, well, proximity bias affects coaching in some obvious ways, right? An obvious way is if I'm in the office and I see somebody doing something incorrectly or wrong or even really well, and I want to give them some coaching and some feedback on that, my brain says, I see this happening and I should respond, the problem, of course, with remote workers is you often don't see things happening in real time.

00;02;41;19 - 00;03;11;24
Wayne Turmel
You see them long after the fact, and they generally need to be pretty dramatic in order for your brain to go, you know, I should pick up the phone. I should type them a message. I should make a point of mentioning this. So coaching happens much more spontaneously, much more frequently, and often better in person than it does remotely.

00;03;11;24 - 00;03;49;09
Wayne Turmel
And the ultimate impact of that is more than you would think. Because when you are remote and you perceive that other people are getting coaching and attention that you are not getting, it can be rather disheartening. And the. Well, of course, but when you're the one who is guilty of the bias, you often don't see that. For example, you know, out of sight, out of mind to a lot of leaders is, you know, unless there's a problem, I'm just going to let Marissa do her thing.

00;03;49;11 - 00;03;51;29
Marisa Eikenberry
And for some reason, you're okay with that.

00;03;52;01 - 00;04;27;00
Wayne Turmel
For some people, they're okay with that. But even people who are really good at their jobs and prefer to be left alone to do them need a little love. They need some attention. They need positive reinforcement and and occasionally correction. Because a lot of us who work remotely and we've talked before about the Wiley Coyote moments, where, you know, it's like the Roadrunner cartoons where you run, run, run, run, run and you're way off the cliff before you realize that you're off the cliff.

00;04;27;02 - 00;04;31;19
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. But if you would have had, you know, weekly or biweekly meetings, you may have if.

00;04;31;19 - 00;04;59;23
Wayne Turmel
You were getting regular feedback, which is ultimately what all of this comes down to is feedback loops, right? And proximity bias tends to have really strong feedback loops with the people with whom you are physically proximate and weaker, and less frequent feedback loops with people that you do not interact with in a rich way nearly as often.

00;04;59;25 - 00;05;14;10
Marisa Eikenberry
So what are some signs that a manager might be showing proximity bias during one on one? So if they are, you know, actually meeting. But how might those one on ones differ a little bit if they're showing proximity bias?

00;05;14;12 - 00;05;48;06
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, I think there are a bunch of ways. And I'll just tell you because everything ultimately is about me. It used to make me crazy with managers who, if they were in the office, would call people in. They'd have a cup of coffee, they'd sit across the desk, they do their thing. But because I was usually on the other end of the country or traveling or they were traveling, I would get my coaching conversations on a staticky cell phone in a busy airport lobby.

00;05;48;08 - 00;05;50;10
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, it was an afterthought.

00;05;50;12 - 00;06;22;20
Wayne Turmel
It was, well, we got to do this. It's schedule. Let's do it. And so there wasn't time to connect. There wasn't the visual component where you could see that somebody was stressed or not. You basically because you're trying to drown out the distractions around you run from a checklist. And so a lot of those one on ones were not coaching opportunities so much as they were check ins on tasks.

00;06;22;22 - 00;06;23;06
Marisa Eikenberry
Right?

00;06;23;06 - 00;06;25;06
Wayne Turmel
Which is important.

00;06;25;09 - 00;06;26;01
Marisa Eikenberry
But it's not the whole.

00;06;26;07 - 00;06;52;20
Wayne Turmel
Coaching. Coaching is more than that. Coaching is not just having a one on one coaching conversation or conversation. Coaching is a very specific thing. It involves feedback. It involves both performance and development. So it's not just this is what you're doing, but what would you like to be doing right? What would you like to be doing better? How can I help you do that?

00;06;52;22 - 00;07;25;28
Wayne Turmel
Is true coaching. It's not just feedback right. So and that's one that's a very obvious one. I think the other thing is that coaching remotely by definition is going to be more formal and needs to be planned, which means there are big coaching moments. Okay. But there's not a lot of that spontaneous in the hallway giving somebody a thumbs up when you hear them on the phone, doing a great job with a customer.

00;07;26;00 - 00;07;45;08
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. That's fair. So, you know, you were talking a second ago about your old coaching conversations where, you know, staticky cell phones and things like that. And obviously we now have tools like Zoom and Slack huddles and Microsoft Teams that give that visual and help make things a little bit easier, even if it isn't quite the same way.

00;07;45;10 - 00;07;53;09
Marisa Eikenberry
So how can technology help to kind of create a level playing field during one on ones between remote and in-office employees?

00;07;53;11 - 00;08;25;17
Wayne Turmel
Sure. Well, we have talked a lot on this show about the importance of richness and scope and understanding when you use which right. It's fair to say that coaching should be an extremely rich experience. It doesn't mean you can't send an ad a girl over over slack or something like that. But in general, coaching, requires a little bit more attention.

00;08;25;20 - 00;09;13;08
Wayne Turmel
And, and so that's part of it. So so the richer technologies are probably helpful. The other thing and not enough coaches do this, I think, is when you're on teams or whatever you're on, is the ability to share data so that you are not just staring at each other's faces, but you're actually looking at numbers and saying, you know, if I say you're not hitting your numbers or you were a little off this month, that's very different than looking at a spreadsheet that shows exactly how much you were off relative to the month before or the last couple of months, and it makes it more real when it's just face to face.

00;09;13;15 - 00;09;17;10
Wayne Turmel
It's very easy for coaching to become emotional.

00;09;17;14 - 00;09;17;24
Marisa Eikenberry
Okay.

00;09;18;00 - 00;09;33;19
Wayne Turmel
And emotional in good ways, but also emotional in ways of becoming defensive or, you know, putting on a front or whatever. And and that's for both the coach and the coach.

00;09;33;21 - 00;09;35;03
Marisa Eikenberry
Coach, of course.

00;09;35;05 - 00;09;37;10
Wayne Turmel
The person being coached. Okay.

00;09;37;12 - 00;09;48;01
Marisa Eikenberry
With that. You know, are there some things that managers can be doing, like to, enhance that a little bit during one on ones.

00;09;48;03 - 00;10;20;00
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. And I'm not going to make this whole thing a shameless plug for the new book, the new old book, but in the Long Distance Leader Revised Rules for Remarkable Remote Leadership, which is the updated version. One of the things that isn't updated a whole lot is the section on coaching, because it's the same as it's been. It's funny, one of the critiques we got of the book is, well, there's all this stuff about coaching, but it's not specific to remote and hybrid.

00;10;20;02 - 00;10;36;25
Wayne Turmel
And that is correct, because one of the things that we don't do well enough, even in person, is coaching. And there's no evidence that says we're going to do it better without the visual and approximation cues. And those sorts of things.

00;10;36;27 - 00;10;37;20
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;10;37;22 - 00;11;10;23
Wayne Turmel
But there are some things that need to happen. And a big one is when you are coaching, you need to check your beliefs because it's very easy to. And this is part of proximity bias. If you see people busily working, you assume that they're always busily working. And that tells you something about that person, right? If you feel positive towards them, you are inclined to cut them slack when something goes wrong because you see them working.

00;11;10;25 - 00;11;24;23
Wayne Turmel
When you are dealing with somebody who is surrounded by white space and you don't see everything that's going on around them. While we want to assume positive intent.

00;11;24;27 - 00;11;25;08
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;11;25;15 - 00;11;56;15
Wayne Turmel
We don't always. Because if I've worked with Morris a long enough, there is a part of me that goes, you know what she's like. And and that colors how we approach our coaching. And over time, if we don't check those beliefs, if we don't stop and ask ourselves if the information we're getting or the impression we're getting is accurate, we start to act on those beliefs by default.

00;11;56;17 - 00;12;17;28
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, we've talked about this in previous episodes too, but because, you know, you can't see somebody, maybe their performance is down this month. And you know, you notice that. So you just assume, oh, they're lazy. But if you had been seeing them you would notice like they're stressed out, they're overworked, they're burned out. They've got something going on at home that's affecting stuff.

00;12;17;28 - 00;12;22;04
Marisa Eikenberry
And you have no idea if you're not checking in like that.

00;12;22;06 - 00;12;49;18
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. And so, you know, a coaching conversation actually has several parts. And one of the most important, you just said it and we kind of glossed over that part, okay. Is at the beginning of the conversation when we say, how are you? We made the correct response with the correct response is, oh, I am fine. Let us please get to this meeting that I don't really want to have.

00;12;49;18 - 00;12;51;02
Wayne Turmel
But you have called.

00;12;51;05 - 00;12;51;15
Marisa Eikenberry
Right?

00;12;51;23 - 00;12;52;20
Wayne Turmel
Right.

00;12;52;22 - 00;12;54;00
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah.

00;12;54;02 - 00;13;22;11
Wayne Turmel
And, and and so and I'm sure I've said this before because I'm mildly obsessed with it. How are you? Is both a greeting and a request for information. Right. And a good coaching conversation starts with the request for information. Yes. The second thing that the coaching conversation does, and hopefully over time, the person understands that that is a legit request for information, right?

00;13;22;11 - 00;13;29;14
Wayne Turmel
When I say to you, how are you doing? You are generally pretty forthcoming with me about how are you doing?

00;13;29;17 - 00;13;34;01
Marisa Eikenberry
I mean, we have that trust established, right? Like, I just I don't have to trust anybody.

00;13;34;03 - 00;14;05;19
Wayne Turmel
Right. But we have that trust established. I have demonstrated in the past that I am actually willing to listen. I give a hoot. And and so, I mean, we started we start every conversation with how's it going? How you doing? Is, you know, what's going on in your world. But the other thing that a good coaching conversation does, this is different than the sports model coaching that we often think of, where the coach tells you stuff right.

00;14;05;21 - 00;14;06;22
Marisa Eikenberry


00;14;06;24 - 00;14;32;28
Wayne Turmel
Nobody sees Phil Jackson. Ask Michael Jordan what's going on out there. You see Phil talking to Jordan right. You have these guys that was maybe the oldest white guy reference I could have made there. But but a good coaching conversation lets the other person speak first. Yeah right. What's going on. What would you like to talk about?

00;14;33;03 - 00;14;57;12
Wayne Turmel
And the reason is very simple. I can come in saying I need to give Billy Bob feedback on this thing that isn't work, and that's fine, right? Because we need to get his performance up. So I'm going to coach him. But as you alluded to earlier, let's find out what's going on with Billy Bob. And one of the really important things is does Billy Bob know there's a problem?

00;14;57;15 - 00;15;27;01
Wayne Turmel
That's right. If I say, tell me about your numbers last week, oh, it's no big deal, blah, blah, blah. If I say, tell me about your numbers last month. And Billy Bob goes, oh, God, you wouldn't believe it. It's such a okay. Until he events, he is not going to be able to hear my feedback. If I think that he's in denial, I'm going to give him different feedback than I would if he is guilt ridden and knows that there is a problem, right?

00;15;27;01 - 00;15;57;02
Wayne Turmel
Because he is guilt ridden and knows that there is a problem, he probably wants to get better. And I am going to approach that coaching conversation different than I will. If he doesn't think there's a problem at all. Well, it's really important for me to know where the coached person is psychologically, mentally in terms of the problem, because that's going to radically dictate how we have that conversation.

00;15;57;04 - 00;16;16;23
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Well, it's interesting that you're saying this too, because it's one of those things that like, I, I mean, I've been working for the Kevin like Burger for ten years, right? And I did not realize that almost every conversation I've had with any manager that I've had has been like that. The one on one started off with, okay, I have some things for you, but let's start with you first.

00;16;16;29 - 00;16;35;06
Marisa Eikenberry
What do you have for me? And then and sometimes it's the same stuff that's on their list. But it was just, you know, I mean, I have a biweekly meeting with, you know, my manager now, and it's always what's on your list first. And it didn't occur to me until now that it's like, oh, yeah, well, like that let me lead the conversation first for a little bit.

00;16;35;08 - 00;17;02;07
Wayne Turmel
Well, you know, we both have lists, right? Right. The manager here has a Kevin has a waiting list. Right. These are the things I need to talk to Wayne about. And Wayne has a Kevin list. And it is an actual physical running list that I keep. And if what is on the top of Kevin's list is not what's on the top of mine, I'm going to be responsive to what Kevin's telling me.

00;17;02;07 - 00;17;15;18
Wayne Turmel
But in the back of my head I'm going, yeah, but what I really want to talk about is right, right, right. Or what I really think is important is this. And I may not be fully in the game.

00;17;15;20 - 00;17;18;22
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Well, it may be something that's not on Kevin's radar.

00;17;18;29 - 00;17;49;04
Wayne Turmel
Right. So here we are running radically out of time. And most of what we have talked about is coaching, because coaching is coaching. And the nuances of doing it remotely are important. There not the biggest things in the world, but they matter. The only thing before we wrap up is that in hybrid hybrid coaching, if you've got people couple days in the week, blah blah blah, choose when to do it in person.

00;17;49;04 - 00;18;05;27
Wayne Turmel
And coaching in person is almost always more valuable than coaching at a distance. So if you can schedule your time and arrange your schedules so that if you are in the office together, that's when that stuff happens.

00;18;05;29 - 00;18;25;27
Marisa Eikenberry
Right? Have it be as rich as possible. Of course. So Wayne, thank you so much for this. And I really hope that our listeners got a lot out of this. But before we go, the second edition of The Long Distance Leader is now available, and this updated guide is perfect for navigating today's remote and hybrid work environments with new principles and proven strategies.

00;18;25;27 - 00;18;56;12
Marisa Eikenberry
Kevin and Wayne show you how to lead effectively no matter where your team is located. Don't miss out on the latest insights and exercises designed to boost productivity and morale, and order your copy now! At long distance work life.com/l d l and strengthen your remote leadership skills today. And thank you so much for listening to the long distance work life for Shownotes transcripts and other resources, make sure to visit Long Distance Work life.com and if you haven't yet, subscribe to the show so you don't miss any future episodes.

00;18;56;17 - 00;19;12;04
Marisa Eikenberry
And while you're there, make sure to give us a rating and review your feedback helps us improve and reach more listeners just like you. And feel free to contact us via email or LinkedIn with the links in our show notes. Let us know you listen to this episode, or suggest a topic for Wayne and I to tackle in a future episode.

00;19;12;06 - 00;19;17;23
Marisa Eikenberry
We would love to hear from you. Thanks for joining us. And as Wayne likes to say, don't let his weasels get you down.

00;19;17;25 - 00;19;23;05
Marisa Eikenberry
Hey.

00;19;23;07 - 00;19;31;26
Marisa Eikenberry
There.

00;19;31;29 - 00;19;32;07
Marisa Eikenberry
You.

Timestamps

00:00 Intro
00:27 What is Proximity Bias?
01:35 How Proximity Bias Affects Coaching
03:11 Differences Between In-Person and Remote Coaching
05:14 Signs of Proximity Bias in One-on-Ones
07:45 Using Technology to Enhance Remote Coaching
09:48 Creating a Level Playing Field with Remote Tools
10:48 Coaching Conversations: Feedback and Emotional Dynamics
12:22 The Importance of Trust in Coaching
14:05 How to Start a Good Coaching Conversation
17:49 Final Thoughts on Hybrid Coaching
18:25 Long-Distance Leader Book Promotion
18:56 Outro

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Revised Rules for Remote Leadership: What’s New in The Long-Distance Leader, 2nd Edition

Marisa Eikenberry interviews special guest Kevin Eikenberry and co-host Wayne Turmel about the newly revised second edition of The Long-Distance Leader. Together, they explore the biggest changes in remote work and leadership since the book’s first release in 2018. Kevin and Wayne share insights on navigating the evolving world of hybrid work, the impact of technological advancements like Zoom, and the critical balance between synchronous and asynchronous work.

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  • What’s changed in remote leadership since 2018? 
  • The rise of Zoom and its impact on work culture 
  • Challenges of hybrid work and how to overcome them
  • The difference between remote-first and remote-friendly workplaces 
  • How the second edition of The Long-Distance Leader addresses modern leadership needs 
  • Kevin’s upcoming book on flexible leadership 
  • Surprising trends in remote work: Who really wants to stay remote? 
  • The importance of intentional leadership in hybrid teams 
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    00;00;08;01 - 00;00;35;20
    Wayne Turmel
    Hello everybody, and welcome to another episode of The Long Distance Work Life, the podcast designed to help you thrive. Survive, and generally keep the weasels at bay as we navigate the world of remote work, hybrid work, and how the workplace has changing. Today, we have a very different kind of show. Ordinarily, if it's Marissa and I, we chat and discuss the topic.

    00;00;36;02 - 00;01;07;19
    Wayne Turmel
    otherwise I interview guests. But today, because we are talking about a very special book that Marissa will tell you about, I am playing the role of hot shot author, or at least co hot shot author is our friend and boss and colleague Kevin Eikenberry. And we will be discussing the second edition, newly revised version of the Long Distance Leader Revised Rules for Remarkable Remote and Hybrid Leadership.

    00;01;07;19 - 00;01;16;04
    Wayne Turmel
    And I got that out the first time. Yay! But Marissa, you are playing interviewer today, so you are running the show lady.

    00;01;16;05 - 00;01;33;06
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Thank you. And so, as we already said, we're going to talk about the second edition of The Long Distance Leader, which was written by Kevin and Wayne, and it's a book that's been a cornerstone for remote leaders, set its first release in May of 2018, and so much of the world has already changed as far as leadership and remote work.

    00;01;33;06 - 00;01;43;01
    Marisa Eikenberry
    And so we're going to dive into what's new in the second edition, and how leaders can navigate the evolving challenges of leading from a distance. So, Kevin, thank you for joining Wayne and I today.

    00;01;43;04 - 00;01;49;01
    Kevin Eikenberry
    I'm glad to be here. you know, this is I think it's I think this is only the second time I've been on the show, so.

    00;01;49;08 - 00;02;09;13
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah, second or third. So we're excited to have you back. And I hope that our listeners are excited as well. So one of the things that I want to start off with first, so as we already said, the book came out in 2018. So much of the world has changed since then. So what are some of the biggest shifts that you've observed since the rise of remote work?

    00;02;09;17 - 00;02;32;28
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Biggest shifts? You know, I think that I I'll just say this. I think that we are in the middle of living in a time where time has been compressed. And here's what I mean. Like the nature of the workplace usually changes in takes like 50, 60, 70 years for that sort of adjustment to sort of filter through, being tested, being tried, being sort of, acclimate the world, the society being acclimated to it.

    00;02;33;12 - 00;02;53;00
    Kevin Eikenberry
    and in this one, it largely happened in like eight weeks and then over two years. And so what I think all of the changes, all the challenges, all the frustrations, all of the stuff that you guys talk about here on a regular basis are in part because we're living in this very compressed time of change that we've not ever experienced in the workplace.

    00;02;53;00 - 00;03;09;24
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Like we could go back and talk about since the Industrial Revolution and all that sort of stuff. But that's, to me, the most fascinating thing about all this, like human dynamics show up, people's people's, wants and needs show up and their and their tendencies around change show up. And it's all because of that to me.

    00;03;09;27 - 00;03;17;15
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah, absolutely. And and we've talked on the show before to your point about eight weeks. It's like zoom went from, what is that to a verb?

    00;03;17;18 - 00;03;18;09
    Kevin Eikenberry
    It really.

    00;03;18;09 - 00;03;20;19
    Wayne Turmel
    And then from to is syndrome, right.

    00;03;20;19 - 00;03;22;11
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah. Zoom fatigue and all that.

    00;03;22;11 - 00;03;50;04
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah I think Kevin's absolutely right. The, the kind of seismic change. And yet what is both interesting and frustrating is how little it has changed. Right. some of that is because the change was already underway when the kind of crossing the Rubicon moment happened. And the other thing is, I think there's this desperate attempt to go back to the before times.

    00;03;50;10 - 00;03;55;15
    Wayne Turmel
    So we're not really embracing what's changed and launching from that point.

    00;03;55;17 - 00;03;56;12
    Marisa Eikenberry


    00;03;56;14 - 00;03;57;02
    Wayne Turmel
    Well that's the key.

    00;03;57;02 - 00;04;15;17
    Kevin Eikenberry
    So it's, it's that it's that tension between the, the future and and and and so many things are pulling us forward. And yet so many of us and I'll say us are holding us back with the way it used to be and the good old days. And why can't we all be in the office and 100 other things like that, right.

    00;04;15;19 - 00;04;22;14
    Kevin Eikenberry
    It's that tension. That's where this is so interesting. and really where so much of the conversation ends up lying, I think.

    00;04;22;15 - 00;04;36;11
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Well, and, you know, just a second ago, I mentioned, you know, zoom went to a verb. And when you guys wrote the book, tools like zoom and even Microsoft Teams didn't exist yet. So how have those communication tools transformed the way that we work?

    00;04;36;14 - 00;05;01;04
    Wayne Turmel
    So I think that it's it's transformed in two ways. One is it's normalized them. I mean, when the book first came out, one of the big lessons was use your webcam. Well, now, you know, people understand it's not going to steal your soul. And everybody, including your grandmother, has been on a zoom call and they know kind of what that's about.

    00;05;01;04 - 00;05;22;22
    Wayne Turmel
    So I think, you know, the the novelty of the technology. The other thing is that, you know, I'm going to give you a very quick analogy. When I started my consultancy, 18 years ago, there were 120 web meeting platforms out there. Everybody was inventing a new one all the time, and then it kind of collapsed into the top five, right?

    00;05;22;22 - 00;05;46;14
    Wayne Turmel
    There's WebEx and there was Skype for business and whatever. And now we have gone through another one of those collapsing where at the beginning of the pandemic, there were a thousand tools out there and people had enough already. It's not that we don't love technology, it's that we've got work to do. And they were kind of looking for one ring to rule them all.

    00;05;46;21 - 00;06;09;12
    Wayne Turmel
    And so we've settled into there's kind of the Google universe, there's the slack zoom universe, and there's Microsoft Teams. And you can argue whether teams was designed by Sauron or not. But at the end of the day, people are looking for ways to get the work done with as little drama and pain about technology as possible.

    00;06;09;15 - 00;06;29;21
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Right. And drag. Can I just make a comment? and this will probably take us off track for what you're planning, Marissa. But that that that webcam comment that, that Wayne made is exactly right. And and yet here's this tension. And yet when I'm with groups regularly, I still have people saying, do we really have to use our webcams?

    00;06;29;21 - 00;06;47;01
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Like so everyone now has use them. And yet in some ways, the message that we had in 2018, Wayne hasn't completely changed because the reasons they don't want to may be different, right? The reason they may want to not want to use them might not be the same that a still in there. So I'll see in my living room all that stuff.

    00;06;47;07 - 00;07;02;10
    Kevin Eikenberry
    But but the but the the fact that some people don't want to be on them is still there. And that's one of those tensions. Right. Like that. The drag on it, the ease of doing it all, that's gotten better. And yet we're not all really there. It's just a small example of what we talked about earlier.

    00;07;02;11 - 00;07;18;26
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Speaking of all of that kind of stuff too. So like one of the things that you guys have added into this new edition of the book is a lot of discussion about hybrid. And so what are some of the unique challenges and opportunities for hybrid work presents compared to a fully remote or a fully in office setup?

    00;07;19;00 - 00;07;36;05
    Kevin Eikenberry
    I think the single biggest thing, and it's really not rocket science, the single biggest thing to me is that if we're going to have a hybrid workplace where some or all of the people are going to be in the office some of the time, then we ought to use those days as appropriate. And so what I always say is not every workday should be the same.

    00;07;36;08 - 00;07;56;11
    Kevin Eikenberry
    The day should go to the office, ought to be different kinds of day. It's more likely you're going to collaborate to have those those serendipitous conversations. that's the chance to work with a mentor. That's the chance to do side by side training. Like we ought to make sure that we're taking advantage of those days and then releasing people when they're back home to get more, have more productivity with fewer meetings, etc..

    00;07;56;13 - 00;08;06;19
    Kevin Eikenberry
    So to me, that's the single biggest thing that's relatively easy to implement. And yet I'm still seeing most organizations not doing that very well.

    00;08;06;22 - 00;08;50;26
    Wayne Turmel
    Well, and part of that, I think, is because they're looking at going back to the office says, okay, we are now primarily in the office again. And the people who are working remotely are outliers, or they will adjust because we're in the office. What I think one of those seismic changes that Kevin was referring to earlier is that companies that are starting now are much more comfortable with the remote workplace and trying less to cram it into the old model than companies where the boat's already in the water and you're dealing with memories of before time and sunk costs and all kinds of things.

    00;08;50;26 - 00;09;06;21
    Wayne Turmel
    So that's another one of the changes is that if I'm starting a company and I don't need a big office and I don't need to be all the time, cool, but if I've already got that infrastructure, I'm already paying for it.

    00;09;06;21 - 00;09;08;14
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Wayne. Right.

    00;09;08;17 - 00;09;15;26
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Well, it goes back to the conversation we've had before about remote first versus remote friendly and how they're very, very different.

    00;09;15;29 - 00;09;39;26
    Wayne Turmel
    Well, and one of the challenges with that is that there's a tendency for leaders to fall back into old habits. And so there are some pitfalls with hybrid work primarily being proximity bias that, you know, it's really easy to look across the room and see somebody. So they get involved in the conversation and somebody gets excluded. Not intentionally.

    00;09;39;26 - 00;09;51;06
    Wayne Turmel
    I'm not, you know, not including somebody. It just doesn't happen naturally. And so that dynamic needs to be navigated well.

    00;09;51;06 - 00;10;07;21
    Kevin Eikenberry
    And then we think everybody knows whatever the thing is. And yet oh, well, we didn't know what sent an email or a slack message or send it. It's put some in the teams channels. So the only the everybody that knows are those that are here. I mean, we used to have that once in a while when someone was home sick or on vacation.

    00;10;07;21 - 00;10;29;12
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Right. But that just happens way, way, way more often now and again. Not intentional just happens. We've got to be, you know, one of the messages from the first version of the book and still in there is that word of being intentional, like making conscious choices, stepping back from our routines and our habits, from the auto utter response to, to doing what is the the best thing given the situation.

    00;10;29;13 - 00;10;42;23
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Well, and Wayne, you just mentioned a minute ago about companies that are starting now are more comfortable with remote work and so, you know, how should organizations approach hybrid work differently, whether they're an established team or they're newly forming?

    00;10;42;25 - 00;11;09;06
    Wayne Turmel
    I am like a dog with a sock on this particular topic. I think you have to be very careful about using the word hybrid. Are you, in fact doing hybrid work or or are you doing, you know, remote friendly work? With the focus in the office, a hybrid? If we're going to be really technical and semantic about it, a hybrid is two things coming together to create a third entity.

    00;11;09;08 - 00;11;28;18
    Wayne Turmel
    You know, a mule is a horse and a donkey, but as an old farm boy, a mule is a mule. I mean, it is its own thing. And I think over time we are going to develop this third way of working, this hybrid work that is not only who works where, but the element of time gets folded in.

    00;11;28;20 - 00;11;38;14
    Wayne Turmel
    So it's what work gets done where and when that work gets done. And the balance between synchronous and asynchronous is going to be very different.

    00;11;38;14 - 00;11;54;20
    Kevin Eikenberry
    I think that's huge. And I think, you know, you know, when it in the in the first book we, we introduced that we used the word hybrid. And and I wish that I could I wish that everybody on the internet would say, oh, these guys created that that phrase for the hybrid team, which, no, we can't, we can't say.

    00;11;54;22 - 00;12;12;23
    Kevin Eikenberry
    But when we use that word, that's what we meant even in 2018. Right. And and I think it's it's not it's not always meaning that. But ultimately that's what that's what it needs to mean. And organizations that figure out how to do it that way, if that's the way they want to do work, will have a competitive advantage.

    00;12;12;26 - 00;12;29;28
    Marisa Eikenberry
    So, Kevin, you know, you've had the Kevin Like Mary group for over 30 years. And we've been a hybrid team for a very, very long time. And so if you were starting a business today, if you were starting this business today, what would you do differently than you did when you started?

    00;12;30;00 - 00;12;46;24
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Well, what I do different than when I started it, different than what I would do, knowing what I know now, I suppose. Yeah. but I think that in terms of, how I hired who I, where I look for the hiring pool, I don't think it would change. Much like, I think that, you know, I do have a separate building.

    00;12;46;26 - 00;13;21;17
    Kevin Eikenberry
    That's where I'm sitting right now, that Marissa, you come to two days a week, but only if I'm here. Right? and I think there would still be a place, it would be like it is. And it's not. Wouldn't. How's everybody? Because not everyone would be. How? Isabel? Because they're all across the country. I'm not sure. I mean, there's lots of things that that we could do different about our business, but in terms of how it's set up, I'm not sure I would change that much because I think that what we have works not only works for us, but we're generally I, you know, while there's always room for improvement, we're relatively productive.

    00;13;21;25 - 00;13;31;05
    Kevin Eikenberry
    There's there's good relationships. we have we're able to collaborate. And I don't think that having us all in the same place, or even less so, would make any difference.

    00;13;31;07 - 00;13;32;23
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah, that makes a lot of, you know.

    00;13;32;23 - 00;13;57;11
    Wayne Turmel
    What I'm going to I'm going to mildly contradict that. Okay. when I joined the group, I lived in Chicago. Most of the people were in, most of the people were there, and we communicated it a little bit differently. We got together more often. We spoke more often, I think, because the longevity of the people on our team has been there for a while.

    00;13;58;00 - 00;14;23;05
    Wayne Turmel
    Kevin's comfort level as the boss with waiting, you know, letting people get their work done and trusting that we will come to him proactively if there's something that needs to be addressed. I think the way and the comfort level with that is different than it was even a few years ago. As you know, the decision was made.

    00;14;23;05 - 00;14;28;15
    Wayne Turmel
    We're not going to focus on hiring people in Indianapolis. We're not going to.

    00;14;28;17 - 00;14;29;22
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Right. so, I mean, I'm not.

    00;14;29;22 - 00;14;32;28
    Wayne Turmel
    Disagreeing with I think Kevin's comfort level and skill level.

    00;14;32;28 - 00;14;46;01
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Yeah, I, I won't disagree with that either. and yet, I think if the question is about being willing to, to bring people from different places. Yeah. Like, I mean, I think part of the reason we write the book, The Long Distance Leader and why we write a second edition of it, is to help people continue to build those skills.

    00;14;46;01 - 00;15;03;16
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Right. And I think that that's the question we get asked a lot now. Marissa is okay, why a second version of the book? And people say, well, yeah, we get it that the world is different, but do we still need this book? Because we've all been many of us been doing this for 2 or 3 years. I said, well, we've all needed new, more leadership training, even though we've been leading for longer than that.

    00;15;03;16 - 00;15;26;26
    Kevin Eikenberry
    And I think a lot of people have have haven't really locked into some of these things that maybe they know because they've done it for a few years. And I think the idea of this book is in part to not only show us what's different and changing, but also what we need to make sure we're really doing well, that I'm I'm pretty confident not all leaders of remote hybrid distributed teams are doing.

    00;15;26;29 - 00;15;36;23
    Marisa Eikenberry
    So for people who are reading the book or, you know, once they do read the book, what are some actionable steps that they can take, both organizationally or even professionally. After reading?

    00;15;36;23 - 00;15;55;16
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Okay, here's a short answer and then I'll let you go. Wayne. The short answer is don't just read it. Do something like you will determine when you read it, what those most actionable steps are. And I think we've written a book that is actionable and that gives you very specific things that you can go do. In fact, every chapter tells you, gives you some examples.

    00;15;55;18 - 00;16;08;12
    Kevin Eikenberry
    But the point that I'm making is that it the best thing you can do is go take action on whatever those most important things are to you, because it would be a bit presumptuous for Wayne and I to determine which two things those would be for an individual leader.

    00;16;08;12 - 00;16;32;00
    Wayne Turmel
    I just think that, you know, the the most dangerous thing is to think you've got it all figured out. And one of the challenges that we're hearing from our clients is, oh, we know that people could use a little help, but we've done remote, right? We did remote training during Covid. People know what they're doing now, and we never entirely know what we're doing.

    00;16;32;00 - 00;16;49;00
    Wayne Turmel
    And there's some backsliding and there's some things that we thought people knew that they're not doing. And so maintaining that skill development is really important. And I know that sounds self-serving. since that's the business we're in. Okay. But it also happens to be true.

    00;16;49;03 - 00;17;07;06
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Yeah. There's a difference between knowing something and doing something. Right. it's a and there's a big gap there a lot of the times. And so I, you know, I think Wayne and I are, are coming to that same point, like if you or if your organization did some training on remote, that's fine. That's great. but the question is how is it going now?

    00;17;07;13 - 00;17;20;17
    Kevin Eikenberry
    And if it's not going in the ways you'd like it to go, or you think it could be better, then I'm confident you'll find nuggets in this book. in the second edition of this book that would help you as a leader, but also help the leaders in your organization.

    00;17;20;17 - 00;17;29;22
    Marisa Eikenberry
    So we've gone from leader to teammate to team. Kevin, what's next for you in the world of remote and hybrid work? What's the next thing you're focusing on?

    00;17;29;22 - 00;17;49;10
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Well, I'm I'm writing a new book that's not specifically about that, but it is about the future of work. In some ways it comes out next, next March. And maybe I can convince you guys to have me on to talk about the flexible leader. or flexible leadership when, when that time comes down the road. So but it's not specifically or solely about remote.

    00;17;49;10 - 00;18;01;07
    Kevin Eikenberry
    The word remote doesn't show up or hybrid doesn't show up in the title. But certainly, there are hat tips and conversations about not only what we've been going through as lessons, but also what we do moving forward as well.

    00;18;01;10 - 00;18;15;12
    Marisa Eikenberry
    That's great. And Wayne, I know that hybrid work has been something that you've been talking about a lot. You mentioned the mule versus, you know, donkey earlier. So what are some aspects with hybrid that you're obsessed with exploring right now?

    00;18;15;14 - 00;18;41;00
    Wayne Turmel
    I think it's that being intentional about the balance of synchronous and asynchronous work. You know, my favorite example is we've all walked into meetings and had to sit there while, you know, all the preamble and context is created. Well, we could do a lot of that beforehand. And then the meeting happens. And then we've all walked out of meetings and halfway down the hallway we've got oh, man, you know what?

    00;18;41;00 - 00;19;06;26
    Wayne Turmel
    I should have said is correct. And so there is getting together in collaboration time. And then there's thinking and planning time on both ends, which can make way better use of our time and result in better outcomes. And so it's what does that hybrid work look like and how do we get better, smarter, faster about it is kind of where my brain is at.

    00;19;06;28 - 00;19;22;19
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah. Well I'm excited to do some episodes about that in the future. And before we wrap up, I have one last question. So other than the pandemic, which obviously changed a lot of things about remote and hybrid work, what is one surprising change in remote work that you didn't anticipate?

    00;19;22;22 - 00;19;45;17
    Wayne Turmel
    It's it's who wants remote work? one of the things that the numbers are showing is people thought that the youngsters wouldn't want to go to the office, and they all want to stay home and, you know, do their work. Between playing video games, no young people want to go to the office. They're early in their career. They're more socially program.

    00;19;45;17 - 00;20;05;11
    Wayne Turmel
    And they they want to learn and soak up the knowledge and the culture of the company, the people that are most demanding, remote work are middle managers, people in the middle of their career who know how to do their job, and they just want to do it, and they want to do it in a way that they can do it best.

    00;20;05;11 - 00;20;16;01
    Wayne Turmel
    They want some flexibility in their time. So some of the assumptions about who is going to want to work remotely have not proven to be the way we thought they were.

    00;20;16;07 - 00;20;50;15
    Kevin Eikenberry
    I think the thing part of part of I think I shared part of my answer earlier with this whole compacting of the timeline, but I but I will say that I think that it's been a bit surprising and I think generally hopeful and helpful that, we've, we've added in a whole other conversation, not just about the where and the when of work, but the why of work, which is, which is, people wanting to have a better sense of, of why they're there and what and finding meaning in their work and how they hook.

    00;20;50;23 - 00;20;51;09
    Wayne Turmel
    Work.

    00;20;51;14 - 00;21;09;08
    Kevin Eikenberry
    To life. Right. Which has been messy for a long time, got messier when people were working from the place that they live. But I think the the ongoing conversation about all of that, I think is generally healthy, and we need to keep thinking about it as individuals, for ourselves, but also as leaders in organizations.

    00;21;09;11 - 00;21;16;27
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Kevin, I know that, you know, when this episode comes out, we're about to have virtual con. do you want to talk a little bit about that before we wrap up?

    00;21;17;02 - 00;21;43;27
    Kevin Eikenberry
    Yeah, I can just very quickly. So, you know, back at the start of the pandemic, I had this harebrained idea that we should, when no one was having doing any training and couldn't get away, couldn't do that. So we created this thing we called virtual Leader Con, and we've continued to do it. It's evolved somewhat, but, on September 17th through 19th, we're doing two and a half days where we will have a bunch of experts join me, to on a, a virtual platform that allows for lots of participation and engagement.

    00;21;44;00 - 00;22;01;29
    Kevin Eikenberry
    And we're going to bring those leaders in, those thought leaders in to have conversations with, with our participants from around the world to talk about what matters. And I think the thing that makes a difference than a podcast or a webinar or other those kinds of things, is that that the the direction of the, of the conversation is guided much by the people that are there.

    00;22;01;29 - 00;22;24;05
    Kevin Eikenberry
    So we'd love to have you join us. It's completely free virtual contact. Com and I think the thing that specifically relates to this show is that that first half day on September the 17th, Wayne will be joining me at the beginning, and at the end we'll be we'll be doing a Q&A, but we'll have three guests, and that whole session will be about the future of work, hybrid work, and all those sorts of things.

    00;22;24;05 - 00;22;40;09
    Kevin Eikenberry
    So if you're listening to this show, you definitely want to join us that half day virtual leader. Contact. Com. And if you decide you wanted to have the recordings and transcripts of those sessions, you can get them for free if you preorder a book. And I know that's where you're headed is to talk about that. That is our I'll let you be.

    00;22;40;09 - 00;22;45;14
    Kevin Eikenberry
    I hope that we'll have you all join us at Virtual Con. And, and thank you guys for having me on the show.

    00;22;45;21 - 00;23;09;17
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yes. Thank you so much for being here. And, Wayne, as always, thank you so much for joining me for this conversation. And before we go, as we've already been discussing, the second edition of The Long Distance Leader is available for preorder and will be launching on September 17th. As we just talked about a minute ago, and this updated guide is perfect for navigating today's remote and hybrid work environments with new principles and proven strategies.

    00;23;09;24 - 00;23;32;09
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Kevin and Wayne show you how to lead effectively no matter where your team is located. Don't miss out on the latest insights and exercises designed to boost productivity and morale. Preorder your copy now at Long Distance Work life.com/lvl and strengthen your remote leadership skills today. And listeners, thank you so much for listening to the Longest and Spark Life version ups, transcripts, and other resources.

    00;23;32;10 - 00;23;55;13
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Make sure to visit Long Distance worklife.com if you haven't yet. Subscribe to the show so you don't miss any future episodes. And if you're on Apple or Spotify, please give us a rating and review. Your feedback helps us improve and reach more listeners just like you. Feel free to contact us via email or LinkedIn with the links in our show notes, and let us know that you listen to this episode, or suggest a topic for Wayne and I to tackle in a future episode.

    00;23;55;14 - 00;24;15;29
    Marisa Eikenberry
    We would love to hear from you and thanks for joining us. And it's Wayne. Like to say, don't let the weasels get you down. Hey.

    00;24;16;01 - 00;24;16;13
    Marisa Eikenberry
    You.


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    Timestamps

    00:00 Intro: Welcome to the Show
    01:33 What’s New in The Long-Distance Leader, 2nd Edition?
    04:22 Zoom Fatigue and Remote Work Tools
    07:02 Hybrid Work: Challenges and Opportunities
    09:08 Remote-First vs. Remote-Friendly Workplaces
    11:09 Building Trust in Hybrid Teams
    15:03 What You’ll Learn from The 2nd Edition
    17:29 Kevin’s Next Project: The Flexible Leader
    19:22 Who Actually Prefers Remote Work?
    20:50 Leading Hybrid Teams with Intention
    22:50 Virtual LeaderCon: Join Us!
    23:09 Wrap-Up and How to Preorder the Book

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    The Long-Distance Leader’s Evolution and Its Ongoing Relevance

    This is a repost of one of our favorite episodes from The Long-Distance Worklife. As we approach the release of the 2nd edition of The Long-Distance Leader, we’re revisiting this special conversation where Wayne Turmel and Marisa Eikenberry celebrate the book's fourth anniversary. Wayne reflects on the unexpected changes in remote work since the original publication, how the book's advice has held up, and what to look forward to in the updated edition. Whether you’re new to the podcast or revisiting this discussion, it’s the perfect time to hear insights on leading from a distance.

    Key Takeaways

    1. The Unexpected Surge in Remote Work: How the pandemic accelerated trends and pushed remote work to the forefront.
    2. Stealth Remote Work: The hidden practice that many companies ignored until 2020.
    3. Evergreen Principles: Why the leadership principles in The Long-Distance Leader remain relevant, even as technology and work patterns evolve.

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    00:00:08:18 - 00:00:18:18
    Wayne
    Hello everybody. Welcome to The Long-Distance Worklife podcast. I am Wayne Turmel. Along with me is my co-host and copilot, Marisa Eikenberry.

    00:00:18:22 - 00:00:19:15
    Marisa
    Hi, everybody.

    00:00:20:09 - 00:00:41:23
    Wayne
    And this is the podcast. For those of you unfamiliar, where we're just trying to work our way through the world of long distance work, whether that's being a digital nomad, whether it's working from home full time or in the office some days or not, and bouncing back and forth. And it's a hybrid world. That's what we're doing today.

    00:00:41:23 - 00:00:47:01
    Wayne
    And Marisa chose today's topic and I am going to let her tell you what it is.

    00:00:47:23 - 00:01:03:14
    Marisa
    So at the time of recording this, we're celebrating the fourth anniversary of the book, The Long-Distance Leader, co-written by Kevin Eikenberry and my co-host Wayne Turmel. And we wanted to invite you into our celebration by hearing insights about the book straight from one of the authors. So, Wayne, if you're ready to dive in, I'm ready.

    00:01:04:00 - 00:01:08:11
    Wayne
    Yeah, it's always a little weird talking about your work, but I am happy to do it.

    00:01:09:11 - 00:01:19:09
    Marisa
    So one of the first things I wanted to start with is other than the obvious pandemic remote work surge, like what did you not expect to happen with remote work when you wrote the book?

    00:01:20:05 - 00:01:21:23
    Wayne
    You can't yadda yadd a third of the workforce

    00:01:23:19 - 00:01:24:02
    Marisa
    Fair.

    00:01:24:03 - 00:01:47:03
    Wayne
    For getting sent home. You can't do. It's like other than the invention of the telephone, what's changed in communication. The Long-Distance Leader and this is now the first of soon to be three books in the Long-Distance Worklife series. Long-Distance Leader came out in 2018.

    00:01:47:03 - 00:01:47:22
    Marisa
    Mm hmm.

    00:01:47:22 - 00:02:02:04
    Wayne
    And at the time, as I have explained to people who said, boy, you guys were in the right place at the right time, I felt a little bit like the crazy guy with the sandwich board walking up and down the street saying the end is nigh, man.

    00:02:02:13 - 00:02:21:13
    Wayne
    Now I just have a new sandwich board that says, "Told you." What has changed primarily and you can't discount this is that remote work was growing and it was growing at 30% a year, which is a lot.

    00:02:21:13 - 00:02:43:16
    Wayne
    Crazy high exponential growth. But what happened in 2020, of course, is that we got pushed across the Rubicon and all these people who said, well, we should have a policy and we should think about it and maybe we should experiment with remote work. And this is not a drill. This is real.

    00:02:44:00 - 00:02:44:10
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:02:44:22 - 00:02:54:18
    Wayne
    And some organizations went, yeah, okay. Because there was a lot of people doing what I call stealth remote work.

    00:02:55:04 - 00:02:56:10
    Marisa
    Okay. So what's that?

    00:02:56:22 - 00:03:06:12
    Wayne
    Stealth remote work was, "Where's Marisa today? Oh, her kid's sick. She's working from home. She'll take the conference call from home."

    00:03:07:03 - 00:03:07:12
    Marisa
    Okay.

    00:03:07:23 - 00:03:15:13
    Wayne
    Or somebody was working. I'm working on a project. It's impossible to get anything done in the office. I'm going to go home and work.

    00:03:15:22 - 00:03:16:06
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:03:17:03 - 00:03:21:21
    Wayne
    And a lot of organizations just pretended like this wasn't happening.

    00:03:23:09 - 00:03:24:00
    Marisa
    Hence the stealth.

    00:03:24:00 - 00:03:41:17
    Wayne
    I have a client, a big international company. And I remember distinctly walking through her office and her saying, "Wayne, I love you guys, but, you know, we don't do remote work. Everybody needs to come into the office." And I'm walking through the office and 50% of the desks empty.

    00:03:42:01 - 00:03:42:18
    Marisa
    Oh, my gosh.

    00:03:42:19 - 00:04:01:11
    Wayne
    They're obviously assigned. There's pictures of kids and cats and. Yeah, inflated birthday balloons. And I'm like, oh, so-and-so's in Denver today. So-and-so's kid was sick. If they are working and they are not at their desk, they are remote.

    00:04:01:11 - 00:04:01:23
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:04:01:23 - 00:04:16:18
    Wayne
    The organization had zero process in place for things like performance reviews and, you know, everything. Career path, everything was based on presence in the office.

    00:04:17:07 - 00:04:33:00
    Wayne
    Even though people weren't in the office and that was going on a lot. So what happened in 2020 is everybody got pushed out of the boat by a third of the workforce. And we have to remember it's only a third of the workforce.

    00:04:33:04 - 00:04:33:15
    Marisa
    Of course.

    00:04:34:05 - 00:05:04:04
    Wayne
    A third of the workforce suddenly found themselves in this situation. And the reactions, of course, ranged from what's the big deal? I've been doing this forever and I hear a lot of that. I hear a lot of people. And why is everybody so freaked out? Because I was doing this before the pandemic to oh, my gosh, we didn't think these jobs could ever be done remotely to I can't wait to get back in the office.

    00:05:04:09 - 00:05:04:18
    Marisa
    Yeah.

    00:05:05:15 - 00:05:17:07
    Wayne
    Right. So the big thing was this was building up, building up, building up. And then it happened. And fortunately for us, as, you know, mercenary weasel selling books.

    00:05:17:07 - 00:05:18:09
    Marisa
    Mm hmm.

    00:05:18:09 - 00:05:33:11
    Wayne
    We were there when that happened. And the response to Long-Distance Leader has been just overwhelmingly positive. And very encouraging. And of course, for our business, which is teaching.

    00:05:33:11 - 00:05:33:22
    Marisa
    Of course.

    00:05:33:22 - 00:05:37:13
    Wayne
    Stuff, that's not a bad thing either.

    00:05:37:20 - 00:05:55:15
    Marisa
    Right. So so with that, I know that in the book you guys have best practices and you have models and. Has anything from the book changed since you've written it? Anything that was a best practice. But maybe now that more people are remote, it's a little different.

    00:05:56:09 - 00:06:08:10
    Wayne
    I, I think what's happened with the book is the general principles are pretty solid. We wrote the book intentionally to be evergreen.

    00:06:08:17 - 00:06:09:03
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:06:09:07 - 00:06:19:16
    Wayne
    Right. But some things have happened. I mean, one of the things in the book is we're telling people, use your webcam, use your webcam, use your webcam, because there was a lot of resistance.

    00:06:19:16 - 00:06:20:06
    Marisa
    Yes.

    00:06:20:06 - 00:06:39:14
    Wayne
    And then Zoom came along. And it's fascinating from a watching technology thing. Right. Because Zoom went from this free niche product that nobody in corporate America was using to a verb, to a syndrome in 18 months.

    00:06:39:22 - 00:06:40:11
    Marisa
    Right. Well.

    00:06:41:01 - 00:06:47:02
    Wayne
    People are already now people are already ditching Zoom for their internal things like Teams.

    00:06:47:13 - 00:06:47:22
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:06:48:06 - 00:07:00:14
    Wayne
    Slightly different things. So use your camera. Use your camera. Use your camera. Now, people are on meetings from morning till night and they're suffering Zoom fatigue. And that's a very real thing.

    00:07:00:21 - 00:07:01:11
    Marisa
    Of course.

    00:07:01:18 - 00:07:14:22
    Wayne
    So the message is still use your camera a lot because it's a really good idea and use your head. Right. If you're one of 17 people on a meeting, nobody needs to watch you eat your sandwich.

    00:07:15:06 - 00:07:17:23
    Marisa
    Right. But one on one, you'll definitely want to turn it on.

    00:07:18:02 - 00:07:37:02
    Wayne
    The more the communication needs to be rich, the more it adds value. And it's just it's like everything else. Use your head when it adds value to it. And, you know, I just got back from the gym is a pretty lame excuse. If it's just you and a coworker. Right?

    00:07:37:02 - 00:07:40:05
    Marisa
    Right. Yeah. But if it's a full team meeting, a little different.

    00:07:40:17 - 00:07:53:06
    Wayne
    Exactly. So, you know, the the kind of it went it's shot way past use your webcam, to is it okay if we don't use our webcam sometimes?

    00:07:53:14 - 00:07:54:02
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:07:54:09 - 00:08:16:02
    Wayne
    So that was one thing that certainly happened. The other thing and again, it's a matter of degree and intentionality is we were we in the book talk a lot about how you need to be connected and rich communication. And what happened was people just automatically defaulted to the Web meeting.

    00:08:17:01 - 00:08:17:20
    Marisa
    Okay. Yep.

    00:08:19:02 - 00:08:32:08
    Wayne
    And it used to be in the glorious before times. One of the reasons you went home is so you got left alone to do your work. Right now, I'm point is that I'm in meetings back to back to back to back?

    00:08:32:21 - 00:08:34:14
    Marisa
    Yeah. When am I supposed to get my work done?

    00:08:34:21 - 00:08:43:14
    Wayne
    Yeah. And people are struggling with this. And so they as the pendulum always does, it's swinging to, well, we're going to have no me, no meetings Fridays.

    00:08:43:21 - 00:08:46:15
    Marisa
    Right. Yeah. We've been seeing a lot of articles about that lately.

    00:08:46:16 - 00:08:48:08
    Wayne
    That's fabulous for Friday.

    00:08:49:12 - 00:08:51:01
    Marisa
    What about Monday through Thursday?

    00:08:51:01 - 00:08:57:05
    Wayne
    And all the meetings that were going to happen on Friday and how you're shoehorning them into Monday through Thursday.

    00:08:57:13 - 00:09:00:06
    Marisa
    So Friday suddenly gets very stressful.

    00:09:01:01 - 00:09:31:23
    Wayne
    Exactly. So I think we are both blessed and intentionally so because the book was intended to be evergreen and I think it holds up pretty well. There are a couple of things that maybe we should reword, things like use your webcam and when you meet the like that. But I think overall it stands up pretty well and that's certainly the feedback that we're getting.

    00:09:32:10 - 00:09:46:23
    Marisa
    Yeah, absolutely. One of the other things I wanted to talk about and so, you know, you called The Long-Distance Leader, The Long-Distance Teammate. We are The Long-Distance Worklife. Why 'long-distance' as opposed to some of the other terms we see in remote work?

    00:09:48:21 - 00:09:58:19
    Wayne
    Because the language changes really quickly. And so rather than hook on to whatever we're using in the zeitgeist at this moment, when we didn't just invent our own darn word.

    00:09:59:16 - 00:10:00:09
    Marisa
    That's fair.

    00:10:01:12 - 00:10:04:14
    Wayne
    It's like it won't go out of style because it's ours, darn it.

    00:10:06:15 - 00:10:28:02
    Wayne
    You know, if you look at, for example, in 2018, when The Long-Distance Leader came out, the government was investing a buttload of money and still are. And people can say what they want about government work. But there were a lot of people giving thought to this even before the pandemic. But it was called telework or tele, right?

    00:10:29:02 - 00:10:47:14
    Wayne
    That was the word. And then suddenly nobody was using it. And then everybody was using remote. Well, you know, the whole idea of long distance is that it covers time, space and dimension. Right. It's not just physical separation. It's time zones. It's flexibility.

    00:10:48:08 - 00:10:48:17
    Marisa
    Yes.

    00:10:49:01 - 00:11:10:18
    Wayne
    Time flexing and and those types of things. So, I mean, it's it's a word we could brand around it. If you were being completely cynical and honest, you know, in the interest of full, transparent. See, to our viewers, these are the kind of decisions you make when you're writing a book. But it turned out to be a pretty good one.

    00:11:11:12 - 00:11:11:19
    Marisa
    Yeah.

    00:11:12:09 - 00:11:37:11
    Wayne
    As we move towards a more hybrid kind of thing, as we move towards a hybrid working arrangement, the point is that some of the people are going to be further away than others. And that might mean just far enough that you only come into the office a day or two a week. So the long commute doesn't really hurt as much to being on the other side of the planet.

    00:11:37:20 - 00:11:46:13
    Marisa
    Yeah, we're seeing a lot of digital nomads. I know there was even a digital nomad conference meet up something recently. I know those are happening all over the place.

    00:11:46:13 - 00:11:49:16
    Wayne
    Irony of that. The irony of that is lost on nobody.

    00:11:49:16 - 00:11:53:07
    Marisa
    I realize. But yeah, I mean, they.

    00:11:53:09 - 00:11:56:11
    Wayne
    Let's all get together to talk about how we can be anywhere and do this.

    00:11:56:22 - 00:12:12:08
    Marisa
    Well. And I can't think of the country right now, but I know there was a news story that came out recently about a country that's giving digital nomad visas. And I'm sure as more countries kind of hop onto that, there's probably going to be even more of these digital nomad long distance.

    00:12:13:00 - 00:12:27:14
    Wayne
    It's happening a lot depending on where you are in the world. Costa Rica, some of the smaller countries in Europe, like Luxembourg and Andorra are doing this. You know, it kind of makes some sense.

    00:12:27:14 - 00:12:35:02
    Marisa
    Right. So what is one takeaway that you hope that everyone gets by reading this book?

    00:12:37:03 - 00:13:00:06
    Wayne
    Okay. You have to be careful what you wish for. Okay. In this world, when you put a book out, it gets reviewed and people come back. And we were very intentional that one of the most important rules that you had to bear in mind and it was, you know, we have these 19 rules, which is really 18, because rule number 19 is, remember, rule number one.

    00:13:00:16 - 00:13:01:00
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:13:02:02 - 00:13:06:23
    Wayne
    And rule number one was think leadership first, location second.

    00:13:07:08 - 00:13:07:18
    Marisa
    Yes.

    00:13:09:00 - 00:13:45:22
    Wayne
    And the whole point of that is, yes, it's different. And yes, you need to be very much more mindful about how you communicate and when you communicate how technology plays a role in that. But at the end of the day, good leaders demonstrate good leadership behaviors, and that makes it easier to cross these these barriers. And one of actually really the only major criticism of the book was, well, this is just the leadership.

    00:13:46:02 - 00:13:49:03
    Wayne
    We know all this stuff.

    00:13:49:03 - 00:13:49:15
    Marisa
    Okay.

    00:13:50:05 - 00:14:19:05
    Wayne
    And that's actually fair. I mean, Kevin and I had a fair amount of discussion about how much of this general leadership thought do we put into this book that is specifically about remote. And by the way, we have the same conversation about The Long-Distance Teammate and the new book, which is coming out in February. The Long-Distance Team is a lot of it is just team building, being part of a team one on one.

    00:14:19:22 - 00:14:33:15
    Wayne
    But what's I think what's important is that it is easy to get hung up on the differences. It's easy to get hung up on what's changed and forget what's really important.

    00:14:34:21 - 00:14:38:05
    Marisa
    Yeah, forget that some of those leadership principles don't change.

    00:14:38:19 - 00:15:00:21
    Wayne
    Yeah. And, you know, that is really critical. I mean, there are three things and we don't talk about this in the books specifically, but there are three things that make a remote team work. Number one is there needs to be a mission. We need to follow the mission. Right. Number two is that there needs to be accountability.

    00:15:01:04 - 00:15:01:11
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:15:01:20 - 00:15:06:12
    Wayne
    And number three is you need to leverage the technology at your disposal.

    00:15:07:08 - 00:15:08:00
    Marisa
    Absolutely.

    00:15:08:06 - 00:15:16:11
    Wayne
    And those things need to happen. But it all starts with what's the vision? Well, that's all leadership stuff.

    00:15:16:13 - 00:15:24:06
    Marisa
    Yeah. I was going to say a lot of what you're saying, I mean, even leverage the technology, like even that could be said about people who stay in the office. Right.

    00:15:24:06 - 00:15:35:10
    Wayne
    But accountability is management stuff. There's leadership type stuff. There's management stuff because all managers are leaders, but not all leaders are managers.

    00:15:35:12 - 00:15:35:23
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:15:36:19 - 00:15:52:17
    Wayne
    Or at least should be. And then there's the technology piece. Right. And there are teams that run very low tech and are highly successful. There are teams with all of the tools in the world that can't find her, but with both hands.

    00:15:53:04 - 00:15:53:11
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:15:55:01 - 00:16:15:01
    Wayne
    That's the highly technical, professional way of explaining it. And so I think that the criticism that there's a lot of general leadership stuff in the book and, you know, I think a lot of people who read books like this or read a lot of books like this, of course.

    00:16:16:07 - 00:16:19:10
    Marisa
    Yeah. You don't just read one and say, oh, I know everything about this topic. Now.

    00:16:19:17 - 00:16:23:21
    Wayne
    And generally, leadership nerds tend to read leadership books.

    00:16:24:04 - 00:16:24:13
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:16:25:04 - 00:16:32:15
    Wayne
    And so, yes, you have heard a lot of this before. Now, if you look around the world and say, are people doing it?

    00:16:33:17 - 00:16:34:07
    Marisa
    Yeah. So my.

    00:16:34:07 - 00:16:36:02
    Wayne
    Dialog. Different conversation.

    00:16:37:06 - 00:16:37:16
    Marisa
    Yes.

    00:16:38:19 - 00:17:09:01
    Wayne
    But yeah. So I think that is the and that's the thing about the book is that it's going to help stay evergreen because those leadership behaviors don't change. And yes, you know, the book was written presold. I mean, Zoom literally isn't in the book. Right. When we wrote Long-Distance Teammate, the first draft was in before the pandemic.

    00:17:09:11 - 00:17:13:20
    Wayne
    But the second draft the world had already shut down.

    00:17:14:05 - 00:17:17:07
    Marisa
    Oh, wow. I'm not sure I realized that.

    00:17:17:07 - 00:17:22:10
    Wayne
    Well, the first draft was finished first in January of 2020.

    00:17:22:15 - 00:17:23:08
    Marisa
    Yeah.

    00:17:23:08 - 00:17:30:12
    Wayne
    And then we send it out and we get the notes and we come back and we have to do the second draft that happened in March.

    00:17:31:04 - 00:17:32:14
    Marisa
    Oh, my gosh.

    00:17:32:23 - 00:17:52:18
    Wayne
    Well, in between it's like, okay, do we talk about the pandemic? Do we reference it? Zoom is suddenly a thing. There was no mention of Zoom. We intentionally tried to avoid brand names and specific technologies. We talk about meeting platforms. Right. To this tool or that tool.

    00:17:53:00 - 00:17:53:09
    Marisa
    Right.

    00:17:54:23 - 00:18:09:03
    Wayne
    And so because we made those decisions, generally speaking, it holds up pretty well, as evidenced by the fact that the last two years the book has sold almost identical number of copies year over year.

    00:18:09:03 - 00:18:11:15
    Marisa
    Yeah. People still need that stuff.

    00:18:11:15 - 00:18:29:07
    Wayne
    Which in any book is a rare and beautiful thing. So we are extremely grateful. Absolutely. And now, of course, there's Long-Distance Teammate which is from the teammates point of view, because one of the big questions is how do we form relationships and how do we.

    00:18:29:22 - 00:18:32:08
    Marisa
    Yeah, I'm not a leader, but how do I do things?

    00:18:32:14 - 00:18:55:12
    Wayne
    So that's what Long-Distance Teammate is. And now that we are coming out of the pandemic to some degree and everybody's going, what's next? We literally on Friday submitted the final manuscript for the Long-Distance Team, which is about taking a step back and saying, if we were building this team from scratch, what would it look like?

    00:18:55:20 - 00:19:00:05
    Marisa
    Right. And reminds me, I know it's coming out next year, but when as a.

    00:19:00:05 - 00:19:02:18
    Wayne
    Contract, February 28th, give or take.

    00:19:03:01 - 00:19:26:07
    Marisa
    Perfect. So put that on your calendar, folks. Wayne, I wanted to thank you so much for this conversation. I mean, I know that Long-Distance Leader has changed a bunch of lives, a bunch of companies as people read it and and do the practices in it. I also wanted to thank you, audience members, for listening to the Long-Distance Worklife. For show notes, transcripts and other resources.

    00:19:26:07 - 00:19:42:06
    Marisa
    Make sure to visit longdistanceworklife.com if you haven't yet. Subscribe to the podcast so you won't miss any future episodes while you're there. Be sure to like and review that helps our show reach more teammates and leaders just like you. Feel free to contact us via email or LinkedIn with the links in our show notes.

    00:19:42:11 - 00:20:13:15
    Marisa
    Let us know you listen to this episode or even suggest a topic for Wayne and I to attack on a future episode. Lastly, if you're interested in purchasing The Long-Distance Leader, you can check out our website at longdistanceworklife.com/books for more information and links to purchase. Thanks for joining us. And as Wayne likes to say, don't let the weasels get you down.


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    01:09 The Unexpected Evolution of Remote Work
    02:21 Stealth Remote Work: Before It Was Mainstream
    05:05 The Impact of the Pandemic on Remote Work
    06:56 Best Practices: What’s Changed and What Hasn’t
    09:32 The Evergreen Nature of Leadership Principles
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    16:38 Key Takeaway: Leadership First, Location Second

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    Cracking the Code of Workplace Culture with Dr. Jessica Kriegel

    In this episode of The Long-Distance Worklife, Wayne Turmel sits down with Dr. Jessica Kriegel, Chief Scientist of Workplace Culture at Culture Partners, to explore the true essence of workplace culture. Dr. Kriegel challenges the common misconceptions that culture is all about perks like ping-pong tables, explaining instead how an adaptive culture—one that evolves with changing circumstances—is crucial for driving results. They discuss the pitfalls of trying to return to pre-pandemic office norms and why forward-thinking leadership that embraces the new realities of remote and hybrid work is essential for organizational success.

    Key Takeaways

    1. Understanding Culture: It’s not just “how we do things here” but a strategic tool to achieve organizational goals.
    2. Adaptive Culture: The most successful organizations are those that can adapt to change, as demonstrated by research.
    3. Post-Pandemic Work: The idea of “returning” to the office is flawed; instead, companies should focus on evolving.
    4. Creating Impactful Experiences: Culture is shaped by the experiences we create, whether in-person or virtual.

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    00;00;08;03 - 00;00;34;01
    Wayne Turmel
    Hello, everybody. Welcome. Welcome to the long distance work life. My name is Wayne Trammell. I am thrilled to be with you. This is the podcast to help you thrive. Survive, generally. Keep the weasels at bay in the crazy and constantly evolving world of remote and hybrid work. we have a really, really good show today. We are going.

    00;00;34;04 - 00;00;58;09
    Wayne Turmel
    We sadly do not have Marissa with us, but what that means is we get to meet somebody else. Really cool. And in this case, that person, I say bringing her into the room is Jessica Kriegel, who is the brains behind Culture Partners and Jessica. who are you and what does culture Partners do? And then we'll get into our conversation.

    00;00;58;12 - 00;01;19;18
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Well, thank you for having me. I am Doctor Jessica Kriegel. I'm the chief scientist of workplace culture at Culture Partners and Culture Partners. As a workplace culture consulting firm that is focused on helping organizations drive results. That's what we do. We help companies get the results that they're trying to achieve. And the way that we go about doing that is through activating their culture.

    00;01;19;20 - 00;01;44;23
    Wayne Turmel
    Okay, so there are about four things that you said there that worthy of diving in. And I'm going to start with the one that kind of catches people off guard, which is the idea that you are the culture scientist. Yes. Other than working for Dannon yogurt, I do not know that I have ever met a culture scientist before, so what the heck you want?

    00;01;44;24 - 00;01;51;18
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    I have not heard the yogurt metaphor or analogy to my title before. That's a good one.

    00;01;51;21 - 00;01;54;10
    Wayne Turmel
    so what the heck does a culture scientist do?

    00;01;54;11 - 00;02;20;06
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    He asks. Yeah. I mean, my job is to research best practices in what gets results and culture is, you know, let's start there. Because so many people view culture as something that's touchy feely or woowoo and ultimately it's deeply misunderstood because people are trying to solve culture issues with ping pong tables and virtual pizza parties, and those things are fun.

    00;02;20;06 - 00;02;43;02
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Maybe if you like those things, but they're not culture. We view culture as the way that people think and act to get results. So as a scientist of culture, my job is to understand how do we get people to think and act in the way that we need them to think and act in order to get results? That works for them and works for the company over the long term.

    00;02;43;05 - 00;02;57;27
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah. I mean, there are a lot of definitions of culture. The one that I usually work with is this is how we do it here, right? Right. And how we do it somewhere else, which is different than somebody else does it. But what is the it.

    00;02;58;00 - 00;03;18;21
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Right. The reason this is how we do it here is I don't know how to scale. This is how we do it here or how to shift. This is how we do it here. That gets us pretty stuck into one kind of culture. And we did research last year with Stanford University to help finish answering that question about how do we actually do the research?

    00;03;18;25 - 00;03;49;10
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    We partner with academic institutions and other organizations that are interested in this stuff. And last year with Stanford, we looked at what of all the different culture dimensions, which one actually wins to drive revenue growth? Just very simply, revenue growth is the focus in that particular study to show the results, orientation of this impact of this work. And what we found was an adaptive culture, was the kind of culture that always won the most for far above all other type of cultures.

    00;03;49;16 - 00;04;10;05
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    So an adaptive culture is not getting stuck in one culture. It's about being able to shift from one to the next and the next and pivoting when technology changes, when our circumstances change, when our competitive environment changes, that that is actually the skill is is not just choosing one and getting stuck in the way we do things around here.

    00;04;10;05 - 00;04;13;00
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    That can be a death knell for your culture.

    00;04;13;02 - 00;04;44;00
    Wayne Turmel
    Well, that, of course, leads us to the next thing, which is the big push back after Covid. Yeah, everybody got scattered to the winds and then they said, no, you're coming back in. And we're hearing more and more even from companies where you maybe don't expect it, like zoom, zoom, Google. In fact, the zoom is calling people into the office just drips with an irony that does not even begin to be described.

    00;04;44;03 - 00;05;06;24
    Wayne Turmel
    but the reason for that over and over and over again, we're told, is, well, we need to keep the company culture. And the only way to do that is to have people in the same building at the same time, at least part of the time. And I'm willing to bet that you probably view it differently.

    00;05;06;26 - 00;05;31;06
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Yeah. so think about the language that leaders are using to get people back to the office. Back right. Or we need to return to the office return. These are all backwards looking phrases that we need to use to go back to how it was before Covid. And for some organizations, they've been remote for a long time. I was an Oracle for ten years.

    00;05;31;06 - 00;05;55;13
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    I started in 2008 and I was working remotely. So this isn't just a Covid thing. This has been a slow transition that got accelerated due to Covid, but we cannot go back because to go back and to return to this way that it used to be inherent in that is the idea that Covid was simply a pause and that the pause has been unpause.

    00;05;55;18 - 00;06;19;12
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    And now we can go back to how it was before, as if Covid wasn't transformational to our social psychology, to the norms and behaviors of how we operate. We saw a different way. And you can't go back. You can't undo do this complete transformation of everything about the way that we work. Now. Some people will go back into the office because that's what they want to do, and they like it that way, and that's fine.

    00;06;19;14 - 00;06;38;13
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    But I think that those companies are failing to adapt. And I just told you that the culture that wins and gets the most results is the culture that can adapt and move forward. And if you're stuck and trying to go back, you're not working on that fundamental progress that needs to happen in any organization to innovate and grow.

    00;06;38;15 - 00;06;51;19
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah. I mean, it's so funny. People misquote Darwin all the time. They always say it's survival of the fittest and it's not. It's the creature that learns to adapt is what survives. Right?

    00;06;51;22 - 00;06;53;25
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Did he really not say survival of the fittest?

    00;06;53;25 - 00;06;56;10
    Wayne Turmel
    He did not. He never used that phrase.

    00;06;56;12 - 00;06;58;27
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Wow. Who said that? Was it the. Who's the other.

    00;06;58;27 - 00;07;00;25
    Wayne Turmel
    Somebody that read him in the market?

    00;07;00;25 - 00;07;06;05
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    It was that other guy that also did evolution. Anyway, we're on a tangent, but that's fascinating. I gotta go double check that.

    00;07;06;05 - 00;07;22;07
    Wayne Turmel
    If that's when you get a couple of geeks together. This is the kind of conversation that you wind up having. Ladies, we can't go back to the before times and we can't write clearly the big concern, the thing that we hear is we're worried about culture and and.

    00;07;22;10 - 00;07;25;27
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Losing, you know, losing our culture. Have you heard.

    00;07;25;28 - 00;07;33;22
    Wayne Turmel
    Losing our culture like the before times was some glorious time where there were no problems and everything worked just fine?

    00;07;33;24 - 00;07;35;02
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Yeah.

    00;07;35;05 - 00;07;36;03
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah.

    00;07;36;05 - 00;07;57;12
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    I mean, like, where did the culture go? If we're losing it? I would love to know the island of lost cultures, you know? I mean, that doesn't even make any sense. So yes, the, the, the saying goes that if we don't get back to our together, we're going to lose our culture. What makes us who we are. And the reality is of cultures, the way that people think and act to get results.

    00;07;57;17 - 00;08;18;22
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Well, we're still thinking virtually and we're still acting virtually. So let me break down what we think culture really comes down to where it emerges and what it results in. So, you know, every company is trying to get results. Where do results come from? They come from our actions. We do stuff and that stuff produces a result right?

    00;08;18;24 - 00;08;42;07
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Our actions come from our beliefs. We have beliefs about the nature of the work we're doing, about what drives meaning in our lives, about whether it's worth it about each other. Right? Those beliefs are what drive our actions, and that is how we think. And so if you want to change how people think, their beliefs and their actions, then you have to create experiences for them.

    00;08;42;07 - 00;09;01;22
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Because all of our beliefs come from experiences that we've had. Why do I believe that you're a nice guy? It's because of the experience we had in our email exchanges and in the conversations we've had. Those experiences led me to a belief that took me to take an action, which is to join you today, and that's going to get you a result, which is an episode that people will listen to right now.

    00;09;01;29 - 00;09;22;17
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    And the episode that result is an experience, too, that they're having that will lead them to a belief about the nature and power of working from home and culture or not. Right. And that's going to lead them to take an action and that's going to get a result. And so it's the cycle. That's culture. So it really if you want to influence culture, you start at the experience level.

    00;09;22;17 - 00;09;42;09
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    What experiences can I create for people. And virtually getting an email is an experience. Getting a text message is an experience. Having a zoom call is an experience. Just like bumping into someone in the hallway was an experience. Having lunch at the cafeteria was an experience. But the experiences don't stop just because we're doing it in a different format.

    00;09;42;12 - 00;10;02;11
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    And the kindness that you show me in those virtual experiences lead to a belief, or the bitterness, or the short nature of your emails or texts or whatever, all of that. We just have to be intentional of the experiences we create, no matter what the delivery mechanism of that experience is.

    00;10;02;13 - 00;10;26;25
    Wayne Turmel
    Okay, so before you continue, because I know we pulled the string in your back and and you're off and that's great. We dig that. But you said something that I think we need to highlight and that is this notion of experience. And there are two parts to this. The first is if your experience with somebody is purely transactional.

    00;10;26;27 - 00;10;40;03
    Wayne Turmel
    Hey, can you send me that file? Here it is. If their experience is purely transactional, it's not going to create a bond, a relationship, a psychological emotional connection.

    00;10;40;05 - 00;10;40;24
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Exactly.

    00;10;40;25 - 00;11;11;03
    Wayne Turmel
    They have with people. Right. So we need to crank that up and have different types of experiences. But let's talk about the word experi sense. what do we need to be aware of? What kind of experiences? Virtually do we need to do that maybe used to happen organically, or at least unconsciously, when we were all in the same mosh pit.

    00;11;11;05 - 00;11;38;13
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    It's all about coming from the heart in the experiences that you create and doing it, doing it intentionally. So some examples of experiences that happen virtually is me calling you and recognizing you for something that you've done, giving you feedback, either positive feedback or constructive feedback about some thing that happened. Telling you a story about something that you weren't even involved in that someone else did that was really wonderful.

    00;11;38;19 - 00;12;01;06
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    That's an experience. Last night, you know, I got this big interview this week for my show, and I was really proud of it, and I did a lot of work to make it go well. And last night my boss called me he that the show got released yesterday and he called me and said, I just listened to the interview and I took notes and I want to share them with you.

    00;12;01;06 - 00;12;25;24
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    And he spent 20 minutes basically reading me his notes about all of his favorite parts and why that was powerful and what he thought was a good question. And it was all positive feedback. And at the end he was like, so that's what I thought the the time and attention and thoughtfulness that he took to give me that feedback was so impactful because it was an experience that like, wow, he really cares about the work that I do.

    00;12;25;27 - 00;12;44;25
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    He could have just as easily sent a text that said, great interview, exclamation point, exclamation point, and I would have felt good, but it didn't go the extra mile that he took. Both of them were virtual, right? But it's about coming from the heart and giving someone an experience in the way you communicate with them.

    00;12;44;28 - 00;13;00;25
    Wayne Turmel
    And you said something again, you know, there are micro cultures and macro cultures. There's micro culture of your specific team. There's the macro culture of your organization. This simple way to kind of divide it.

    00;13;00;27 - 00;13;01;07
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Yeah.

    00;13;01;14 - 00;13;34;00
    Wayne Turmel
    My experience and maybe you can speak to this. My experience is it is fairly easy for an individual team to intentionally form a culture. The nuclear team is very much like the nuclear family, right? There's mom, dad and the kids. Yeah, and they're a tight unit. But inside the larger organization, the interactions don't always happen virtually. They don't experience each other the way they do when they share an office space and they're bumping into people.

    00;13;34;02 - 00;13;50;12
    Wayne Turmel
    So can you. We'll just step aside from the micro culture for a moment. How do you intentionally or what kind of experiences can you create to help influence the macro culture, as opposed to just your particular team?

    00;13;50;14 - 00;14;19;17
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Yeah, that's a great question. And that's really what we do with our clients. So, you know, most culture consultants, they go into a company and they start by digging up all of the dirt. So they interview people and they do focus groups and they do surveys. And they're asking what's broken here, what doesn't work? And then they come up with a list of 20 things that they found, and then they present this list to the executives and say, well, here's everything that's broken that needs to be fixed, and we can do that for you for the low, low price of $5 million or whatever it is.

    00;14;19;17 - 00;14;42;26
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Right. And so we don't do that. We start with, what result do you want to achieve? What is the goal? Give me a key result. We call them, which is a meaningful, measurable, memorable number that you want to achieve. And then let's reverse engineer that number to figure out what beliefs people need to hold in order to take the right action to get that result.

    00;14;42;29 - 00;15;12;25
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    And once you understand those beliefs and you're really explicit about them, you label them and you identify what they mean. Then you intentionally create experiences across all levels of the organization to drive those beliefs. So, for example, at Culture Partners, we have a cultural belief of taking accountability. That's one belief we know needs to be held in order for people to take the right action for us to get our result, which is we want to impact 5 million lives in 2025.

    00;15;12;25 - 00;15;40;01
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    It's a measurable number. It's meaningful and it's memorable 5 in 25. So we know people need to take accountability. So we recognize when people do take accountability and we give feedback to people when they're not taking accountability. And we tell stories about taking accountability and always tying what the action was that they did to that belief of taking accountability and reinforcing that that's going to help us get to five and 25.

    00;15;40;04 - 00;16;05;21
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    So we're being explicit in our language about the things that are usually implicit. Whereas usually feedback looks like great job on that presentation here. He says. In this presentation you did x, y, and Z. By doing that, you demonstrated the belief of take accountability, and that's going to help us get to five and 25. And so it's a self reinforcing system that we help organizations implement at the macro level.

    00;16;05;27 - 00;16;15;05
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    And everyone owns culture in that way because everyone is responsible to use the tools to reinforce the explicit cultural beliefs to get the results.

    00;16;15;07 - 00;16;35;19
    Wayne Turmel
    Okay. Can you give me a I'm sure you can. Will you give me a specific example of something that an organization did to kind of expand that across divisions, across functions, something very specific?

    00;16;35;22 - 00;17;00;26
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Yes. We are working with a medical institution. And this, the client was the director of the emergency department. And there we said, what's the result? You want it? We always start with results. Right? And they said, we only gather next of kin information for incoming patients 42% of the time. We need to collect it every time. So we looked at the action was people were not filling out the form.

    00;17;00;26 - 00;17;24;13
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    So she had tried already to fix that number. Through a bunch of actions, she would try translating the form, simplifying the form, training people on the form. She'd actually spent six months on this, and after six months, she was able to increase the gathering of the form to 47%, which is like 5% growth barely moved the needle. Six months of effort shifting the shift schedule to get people out of work to do the training.

    00;17;24;13 - 00;17;42;01
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    It was a laborious project and it cost money and it barely worked. So the belief we were like, what's the belief getting in the way? She's like the belief that these people have is that it's a waste of their time. They're trying to save lives. People come in in emergency situations and I'm trying to get them to stop and do paperwork.

    00;17;42;01 - 00;18;12;07
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    Like it just doesn't feel important. Right. And the experience that they were having was nag, nag, nag, do the paperwork. And there is generally tension in the health care community around patient experience and data entry. Right? That's not an uncommon issue. So we helped her identify stories in this case where the experience that she could use to create a new belief, and she told two true stories from that emergency department of patients that had come in.

    00;18;12;07 - 00;18;32;04
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    One was a woman. She was, in an emergency situation came in. They did not gather her next of kin information. They treated her when she fell unconscious, but she died. They later found out that she had had a, a condition that if they had known about by calling the next of kin, they might have adjusted the protocol and been able to save her.

    00;18;32;07 - 00;18;55;23
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    The second patient, different time, same hospital came in. They did gather as next of kin information. He fell unconscious. They called the daughter. The daughter informed them about his medications, and they adjusted protocol and they saved his life. She told those two stories for three weeks, and in three weeks they started gathering next of kin information. 97% of the time the belief changed.

    00;18;55;25 - 00;19;08;01
    Dr. Jessica Kriegel
    This is important. This is part of the process of saving lives. It's not just paperwork. And they started taking a new action. That's culture creation in action at scale.

    00;19;08;03 - 00;19;35;29
    Wayne Turmel
    That is fabulous. doctor Jessica Kriegel, thank you so, so much for being with us on the long distance work life. If you are interested, ladies and gentlemen, in contacting Jessica culture. partners. Partners, listening to the Culture Leader podcast, we will have links to all of that good stuff in our show notes at Long distance work life.

    00;19;35;29 - 00;20;01;29
    Wayne Turmel
    Dot com. Jessica, thank you so much for being with us. And ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, thank you. If you enjoyed today's conversation. And I can't believe, frankly, that you didn't, you know, like and subscribe. You know how podcasts work. We're trying to grow our listenership. You we want to find more smart people like you who want to, learn how to do this better.

    00;20;02;02 - 00;20;28;24
    Wayne Turmel
    Also, on the subject of doing it better, shameless plug time. September 17th is the publication date for the new edition of The Long Distance Leader Revised Rules for Remarkable Remote and Hybrid Leadership. the original came out in 2018. The world has changed since then. Our book is new. It's exciting. We talk about culture. We talk about hybrid teams.

    00;20;28;29 - 00;20;58;13
    Wayne Turmel
    Please, please, please, wherever you get your books from. And of course, there is, a place you can find all of this. Our, long distance leadership series of classes. We have a new one that begins in late September. You can find that at Kevin eikenberry.com/lds, LDS, less LDS is a very different thing. no judgment. It's just a different thing.

    00;20;58;13 - 00;21;25;09
    Wayne Turmel
    Darn it. if you want to reach out to myself or to Marissa, show ideas, guest ideas, questions, pet peeves, things you'd like us to, talk about and discuss on the show. We are easy to find. Thank you, thank you, thank you for joining us. We will be back next week with another episode. This time, Marissa and I will be there.

    00;21;25;11 - 00;21;30;19
    Wayne Turmel
    Thanks for joining us on the long distance work life. Don't let the weasels get you down. Hey.


    Featured Guest

    Name: Dr. Jessica Kriegel

    Bio: Jessica Kriegel is the Chief Scientist of Workplace Culture for Culture Partners, leading research and strategy in best practices for driving results through culture. For 15+ years, Jessica has been guiding global, national, Fortune 100, and other organizations across finance, technology, real estate, and healthcare industries on the path to creating intentional cultures that accelerate performance. As a keynote speaker, Jessica leverages her current research and 15+ years of global organizational culture innovation, providing leaders with the map and tools for how to build cultures that deliver results.


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    0:00 Introduction to Dr. Jessica Kriegel and Culture Partners
    3:00 What Does a Culture Scientist Do?
    6:45 The Importance of Adaptive Culture Post-COVID
    10:20 Debunking the Myths of Company Culture
    14:10 The Power of Intentional Experiences
    18:30 Case Study: How Culture Change Saved Lives
    21:00 Closing Remarks

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    How Remote Leadership Has Transformed Since 2018

    In this episode of The Long-Distance Worklife, hosts Wayne Turmel and Marisa Eikenberry dive into the evolving landscape of remote and hybrid leadership. With the upcoming release of the second edition of The Long-Distance Leader, Wayne shares insights on how leadership has transformed since the book's original publication in 2018. From the disappearance of the "Remote Leadership Institute" brand to the emergence of hybrid teams as the new standard, the discussion highlights crucial changes in the way we work and lead. Tune in to learn about the key updates in the book, the importance of ongoing learning for leaders, and practical strategies for thriving in today's remote work environment.

    Key Topics

    1. How Remote Leadership Has Changed Since 2018
    2. The Rise of Hybrid Teams
    3. First Order vs. Second Order Changes in Leadership
    4. The Shift to Written Communication
    5. Preparing for Ongoing Changes in Work and Technology

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    00;00;08;02 - 00;00;20;06
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Welcome back to the long-distance worklife. We help you lead, work and thrive in remote and hybrid teams. I'm Marisa Eikenberry, a fellow remote worker and joining me is my co-host and remote work expert, Wayne Turmel. Hi, Wayne.

    00;00;20;08 - 00;00;25;21
    Wayne Turmel
    Hello, Marissa. Hello, listeners, wherever you may be. Hi. How are you?

    00;00;25;24 - 00;00;28;23
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Great. How are you?

    00;00;28;25 - 00;00;34;18
    Wayne Turmel
    I am, I'm fine. I'm excited. We have a new book coming out. Kind of. Sorta.

    00;00;34;25 - 00;00;39;19
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yes. So do you want to introduce that a little bit before we get into our questions today?

    00;00;39;22 - 00;01;22;09
    Wayne Turmel
    Well, I'm excited. We are coming up, in 2018. Of course, Kevin Eikenberry and I wrote The Long Distance Leader Rules for Remarkable Remote Leadership, which, you know, came out before Covid, and it it's in seven languages, and lots of people have read it and that's wonderful. but it was 2018 and the world has changed. So we now have the long distance leader revised rules for remarkable remote and hybrid leadership, which is the second edition and the updated edition of the original long distance leader.

    00;01;22;09 - 00;01;28;06
    Wayne Turmel
    There's about 2,025% updated content in the book.

    00;01;28;08 - 00;01;50;22
    Marisa Eikenberry
    That's incredible. And we're actually going to talk about some of that today. specifically, we're going to dive into what is now chapter two of the revised one, about how remote leadership has changed and, that kind of thing. So I guess I want to start off with, how has the perception of remote leadership changed from, you know, 2018 to now?

    00;01;50;25 - 00;02;24;09
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah, it's changed. And I will give you a very concrete example of how it's changed. When I joined the Kevin Eikenberry Group and Kevin hired me. We actually formed a subdivision called the Remote Leadership Institute because people didn't know how to lead remote teams, and they hadn't done it. And it was this weird kind of thing. And over the last year or so, the brand of Remote Leadership Institute has actually gone away.

    00;02;24;09 - 00;02;36;01
    Wayne Turmel
    It's been folded into the Kevin Eikenberry Group because it's no longer its own unique thing that nobody knows what the heck to do with. It's part of the water we swim in.

    00;02;36;03 - 00;02;44;27
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah, I remember when it was still a big deal about what we were going to call it because, well, some people call it telework and some people are calling it telecommuting, and these people are calling it remote.

    00;02;44;27 - 00;03;10;09
    Wayne Turmel
    And when was the last time somebody used the word telework? Right. So, so much has changed. I mean, in since 2018, when we wrote the book, zoom literally did not exist. It was a free service that had no corporate penetration. And suddenly it went from what? Zoom to a verb.

    00;03;10;11 - 00;03;12;05
    Marisa Eikenberry
    In like two months.

    00;03;12;07 - 00;03;16;07
    Wayne Turmel
    To a syndrome where suddenly people had zoom fatigue.

    00;03;16;09 - 00;03;17;05
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah.

    00;03;17;07 - 00;03;36;03
    Wayne Turmel
    And so things have changed. It is the short answer. Now, what really has changed? Well, a couple of things. Number one is more people have experienced remote work. more people have been successful doing remote work than anybody, especially their bosses thought they could.

    00;03;36;05 - 00;03;37;20
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yes.

    00;03;37;22 - 00;03;55;27
    Wayne Turmel
    so the genie is out of the bottle. the other thing that's happened, and this is why we've added the word hybrid to the title, and a lot of the new content is about hybrid teams, because even though a lot of organizations are returning to the office, are they really?

    00;03;56;00 - 00;03;57;07
    Marisa Eikenberry
    You're right.

    00;03;57;09 - 00;04;08;27
    Wayne Turmel
    You know, so many organizations have come to the situation where, well, you know, we're going to be in the office 2 or 3 days a week.

    00;04;08;29 - 00;04;35;23
    Wayne Turmel
    And that's great. It's a compromise. Everybody's kind of doing the best they can. But as I like to say, that's not a strategy. That's a hostage negotiation. Right. You know how how much can we make them come back to the office before they quit? How much can we whine about going into the office before they fire us? And so they kind of reach this compromise, that sort of kind of works?

    00;04;35;27 - 00;05;05;25
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah. Real hybrid work is a very different thing. And what we urge in the book is to take a look at whatever it looks like. Right? Whether it's you've got full time, some people remote full time, some people in the office, people are in a couple of days a week. That's still a remote team. If you have one member of your team who isn't where everybody else is, you have a remote team and don't forget that.

    00;05;05;28 - 00;05;19;07
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah, absolutely. So one of the things that you talk about in this new chapter, the book, is this concept of first order versus second order changes. Can you explain what that is?

    00;05;19;10 - 00;05;45;02
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah. It's kind of like, a first degree burn is how a third degree burn has you in the hospital. All right. The same is true when you are talking about change. A first order of change is we need to do this differently. We need to do it better, faster, smarter, whatever a second order change is, what we're doing isn't working.

    00;05;45;02 - 00;05;47;23
    Wayne Turmel
    We need to do something else.

    00;05;47;25 - 00;05;48;22
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Gotcha.

    00;05;48;24 - 00;06;23;11
    Wayne Turmel
    So a first order change is we need to use our webcams more often. Yeah, a second order change is we need to make sure that we meet once a quarter as a team, regardless of where people are. It is worth coming together to do that so that our team is connected, engaged, gets to know each other. All that good stuff.

    00;06;23;13 - 00;06;36;09
    Wayne Turmel
    And those kind of changes, those kinds of changes are bigger than we think. I mean, the thing about remote work is the first order change is great and come in a couple of days a week.

    00;06;36;11 - 00;06;38;11
    Marisa Eikenberry


    00;06;38;13 - 00;06;57;18
    Wayne Turmel
    A much bigger change is we don't expect you to come in and try to get your tasks done that day. We're going to do all our meetings on the days when we're together and allow people to not have to join meetings on the days that they're working from home, right.

    00;06;57;19 - 00;07;03;00
    Marisa Eikenberry
    That's a huge shift in mindset in how you work during the week and everything. Well.

    00;07;03;03 - 00;07;12;19
    Wayne Turmel
    This isn't in the book, but it's core to, I think, how we think about hybrid work. And it's kind of mentioned, but.

    00;07;12;21 - 00;07;14;24
    Marisa Eikenberry
    So you're getting an inside scoop, listeners, are.

    00;07;14;25 - 00;07;43;23
    Wayne Turmel
    You getting an inside scoop? Here's the thing. Most of what we call hybrid work is not it's a blend. It's a compromise, a true hybrid takes two things, puts them together and creates a whole new entity. So the most obvious example is a mule. Yes, one parent is a donkey and one parent is a horse. But if you've ever dealt with mules, you know that they are their own unique animal.

    00;07;43;25 - 00;08;05;00
    Wayne Turmel
    They have traits of both. But a mule is a mule and it is not a horse. And it is sure not a donkey. That's the thing about hybrid work. For hybrid work to really take the next level, to really be strategic, we need to realize that it's not just some people are in the office and some people aren't.

    00;08;05;02 - 00;08;14;27
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah, it's not just what work gets done where, but what work gets done where, when?

    00;08;15;00 - 00;08;15;23
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Right.

    00;08;15;26 - 00;08;36;25
    Wayne Turmel
    It takes time into account. And so that's going to require a little bit of different thinking. But just as remote leadership was look do the leadership stuff and you'll probably be okay. Right. What we do as leaders hasn't changed. How we do it is a little bit different.

    00;08;36;27 - 00;08;38;23
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah. But the basic concept is the same.

    00;08;38;26 - 00;08;51;19
    Wayne Turmel
    Basic concepts are the same. The same is true of hybrid, except you're building time into the equation in ways that weren't when it was just like, okay, work wherever you want.

    00;08;51;21 - 00;09;09;29
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Well, and speaking of the idea of, you know, the leadership concepts haven't changed, but how we do them does. So one of the things that we've seen happen with this remote and hybrid shift is the shift of written communication, more than, you know, oral communication. You're not going down the hall and telling Suzy Q that something has changed.

    00;09;10;05 - 00;09;17;13
    Marisa Eikenberry
    So because of now the shift to written communication and the prevalence of email, like, how is that impacted leadership styles?

    00;09;17;15 - 00;09;45;15
    Wayne Turmel
    Well, it's not just the prevalence of email. Email is in fact becoming less prevalent than than it was because things like teams and slack and text messaging and all of that stuff. But what that does is it changes the way we communicate. Written communication, by its nature, is less rich than spoken communication.

    00;09;45;17 - 00;09;46;22
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Right?

    00;09;46;25 - 00;10;10;00
    Wayne Turmel
    Right. I can send you a message. I can't see your face. I have no idea if you've even read it. I don't know whether you're going to take action or not. If you have a question, it's going to take time for that question to get back to me. Whereas if we're sitting face to face and I say something, you don't understand, I can see on your face because I want to play poker with you someday.

    00;10;10;03 - 00;10;11;14
    Wayne Turmel
    Oh, I can see, oh.

    00;10;11;14 - 00;10;12;24
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah, I replace lose.

    00;10;12;24 - 00;10;44;28
    Wayne Turmel
    So that there's confusion and. Yes. And whatever. Right. And and on a hybrid team, that can be a challenge because the people that are physically together get a different level of communication. Sometimes than the people who are remote. And at best that can lead to kind of quickness. And at worst it becomes a proximity bias issue. Right. Which excludes the more remote members of the team.

    00;10;45;00 - 00;11;11;05
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah, we've talked about that in some other episodes, and I'll link those in the show notes. And so, you know, with this, like we're constantly learning and we're constantly changing how we're doing things to adapt to this remote and hybrid environment. So, you know, why is it so crucial for leaders to accept it, that, you know, they are going to require ongoing learning and they are going to require adaptation that maybe they weren't doing prior to the remote shift?

    00;11;11;08 - 00;11;38;05
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah, I think there's a couple of things. one is that when Covid hit and there was the explosion in remote work, everybody was just dog paddling as fast as they could to get through it. And the good news is that they got through it. Yeah. Productivity did not drop the way people thought it would. Employee engagement did not drop the way that they thought it would.

    00;11;38;08 - 00;12;01;21
    Wayne Turmel
    more people quit after Covid than quit during it, quite frankly. so the we can do it. And we got through it and we kind of burst our way through it, and we did the best we could. And some people had the good sense to buy the long distance. Later or, you know, have us teach our long distance leadership series.

    00;12;01;23 - 00;12;07;28
    Wayne Turmel
    and that's certainly still available. But the nuances.

    00;12;08;00 - 00;12;08;24
    Marisa Eikenberry


    00;12;08;26 - 00;12;33;23
    Wayne Turmel
    Of how do we do this in a remote environment? There was kind of a tendency to think, oh, we can go back to the before times. We can go back to the way things were. But for the first time, leaders over frontline supervisor are now likely to have at least one member of their team who is remote.

    00;12;33;25 - 00;12;56;15
    Wayne Turmel
    So kind of relying on the way we did it in the before times creates some issues with employee engagement with communication that don't often turn into burning fires, but they are problems that could be believed and situations that could be better than they are.

    00;12;56;17 - 00;12;57;13
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Right.

    00;12;57;15 - 00;13;26;00
    Wayne Turmel
    And so with this notion that, well, we're all back in the office now. Well, no you're not. On any given day, 50% of your desks are empty. So it's easy to kind of fall into that. Remote's over. We're back to normal. Well, no, the new norm is that you are going to have these things. You're going to have to figure out how to include your remote employees in the discussion in a meaningful ways.

    00;13;26;07 - 00;14;06;17
    Wayne Turmel
    You're more importantly, for the first time, organizations cannot just put their succession planning and their employee development kind of default to the people in the office. If you want to keep your best people and statistics say that your mid-level and junior senior, you know, not C-suite, but, director level folks are most prone to want to work remotely at least some of the time if you do not as an organization, adjust to that, develop succession plans, develop personal development plans.

    00;14;06;19 - 00;14;40;28
    Wayne Turmel
    It's going to be very hard to keep good people. It's going to be very hard to attract people, and it's going to make onboarding a real pain unless you systematize, systemize, systematize. I'm not quite sure what the word is, but you know what? if we don't somehow create a system that acknowledges the differences amongst the team and builds those into creating one team, it'll work, but it won't work.

    00;14;40;28 - 00;14;50;18
    Wayne Turmel
    Great, right? And none of us are listening to this podcast because we want it to just work. We want it to work great.

    00;14;50;21 - 00;15;07;24
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Right? So, you know, how can leaders kind of prepare themselves and their teams for, you know, more inevitable changes in work expectations and technology advancements? I mean, we've already discussed this is the new normal. We're going to have new stuff coming in all the time.

    00;15;08;01 - 00;15;25;24
    Wayne Turmel
    But well, and it's normal this week, the exactly I mean, one as of 1048, July, whatever the heck it is. this is the normal. By the time we talk next week, it will be something else.

    00;15;25;26 - 00;15;26;22
    Marisa Eikenberry


    00;15;26;24 - 00;15;57;04
    Wayne Turmel
    So the first thing as leaders is don't panic but don't get comfortable. Understand that change is inevitable. Things are going to change. Keep an eye on it. Right. Don't just keep an eye out. You don't have to know every new thing. You. I guarantee you have someone on your team who is the first one to say, hey, there's this new thing we should use, and nobody likes them and nobody listens to them.

    00;15;57;06 - 00;16;02;26
    Marisa Eikenberry
    And you know, we do. We can.

    00;16;02;29 - 00;16;23;21
    Wayne Turmel
    You're early adopters are lovely human beings, and frequently a bit of a pain. but as leaders, you need to be aware of not so much what tools are out there, but what problems might a new tool address?

    00;16;23;24 - 00;16;24;14
    Marisa Eikenberry


    00;16;24;16 - 00;16;28;08
    Wayne Turmel
    That's how to look at new technology, right?

    00;16;28;08 - 00;16;31;27
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Because not every new solution is going to work for every team too.

    00;16;31;29 - 00;16;48;19
    Wayne Turmel
    And those of us who survived the Betamax, VHS, TiVo DVR comes with my cable system. Oh, look, I can fit it all on my phone who have survived that understands you can't get too comfortable with technology.

    00;16;48;24 - 00;16;55;29
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Right about the time that you think this is going to be the thing it's not. And then, you know, vinyl comes back.

    00;16;56;01 - 00;17;25;28
    Wayne Turmel
    Well, I mean, as we said before, Covid, Microsoft Teams did not exist, right? It was slack for business or Skype for business. Skype for business no longer exists. Now we have teams, right. Because organizations were looking for not having 17 different tools. They wanted one ring to rule them. All right. And whether that rather.

    00;17;25;28 - 00;17;27;26
    Marisa Eikenberry
    That ring should be Microsoft is a whole different.

    00;17;27;26 - 00;17;48;02
    Wayne Turmel
    Ballgame. It's a totally different question. But they will take the convenience of having one thing and the less and cost and the ease of not having to get 17 licenses for every single tool. Absolutely right. As we've said so many times on this show, every decision gets made for a reason.

    00;17;48;05 - 00;17;52;00
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Right? It makes sense to somebody. It just might not be, you know.

    00;17;52;03 - 00;18;18;19
    Wayne Turmel
    So and we're not going to go down the Microsoft rabbit hole. But you know, your question was what do leaders need to think? We just need to keep listening. you know, exclusion on remote teams is the biggest, most corrosive thing. When people feel they are not included, when they feel they're being actively excluded, which is frequently not the case.

    00;18;18;21 - 00;18;30;10
    Wayne Turmel
    I'm not being mean to you. I am not promoting you because I don't like you. I literally don't think about you because I got somebody right here in front of me.

    00;18;30;13 - 00;18;38;10
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah. You need we, as one of our coworkers says a lot. Guy Harris, he says, assume benign intent. They didn't intentionally do this to hurt you.

    00;18;38;15 - 00;19;07;01
    Wayne Turmel
    Right. And we need to know. You need to keep taking the pulse. You need to have rich conversations. You need to give people the chance to engage. Engagement comes from within. I can't think I can engage with you, but you will not necessarily engage with me unless you choose to. Yeah, but I have to give you that opportunity, and I have to avoid the things that will make you disengage.

    00;19;07;04 - 00;19;22;29
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yes, it's a give and take right. So, you know, we've discussed that like things are always changing, they're always adapting. And we need to be doing that. So what are some effective ways for leaders to stay updated and continuously improve their leadership skills.

    00;19;23;01 - 00;19;49;16
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah. And I mean, this sounds self-serving because look what we do for a living here at the Kevin Eikenberry Group. But there are plenty of including our own. And we're happy to share those with you ongoing newsletters and updates. And there's no shortage of stuff out there. If you're on LinkedIn, find the gurus that speak to you and just subscribe to them on LinkedIn.

    00;19;49;18 - 00;20;00;15
    Wayne Turmel
    Kevin and I are on LinkedIn. We post new information all the time so that you at least have some sense of what's happening out in the landscape.

    00;20;00;18 - 00;20;02;04
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Absolutely.

    00;20;02;06 - 00;20;25;19
    Wayne Turmel
    There are ways to develop your skills. There is e-learning, there is shortcuts, and there are actual training. Whether your organization provides it or you come to someone like us and our long distance leadership series. and oh, by the way, not for nothing. There's books out there, right?

    00;20;25;22 - 00;20;33;28
    Marisa Eikenberry
    There's there's learning for everyone. So speaking of that, and because we're coming up on our time, I do want to.

    00;20;34;04 - 00;20;36;05
    Wayne Turmel
    See the subtle way I let us.

    00;20;36;07 - 00;20;59;01
    Marisa Eikenberry
    To. I did I did, so, as you know, those of you who are watching just saw Wayne hold up a lovely book. And so we have a special announcement and that is that the second edition of the Long-Distance leader is available for preorder and will be launching on September 17th, and this updated guide is perfect for navigating today's remote and hybrid work environments with new principles and proven strategies.

    00;20;59;02 - 00;21;21;00
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Kevin, I can very Wayne Trammell show you how to lead effectively no matter where your team is located. So don't miss out on the latest insights and exercises designed to boost productivity and morale. Preorder your copy today at Long distance Work life.com/l d l and strengthen your leadership skills today. And Wayne, thank you so much for this conversation.

    00;21;21;00 - 00;21;30;08
    Marisa Eikenberry
    I hope that people are really excited about the new book. it's you've changed so much, and I think it's really going to be helpful for the people who are reading it.

    00;21;30;11 - 00;21;42;16
    Wayne Turmel
    So it's it's, it's a blast. And, you know, it's funny, we say all the time here at the cabinet Kingsbury group training as an event, learning as a process. And that includes for us.

    00;21;42;22 - 00;22;09;26
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Yeah, absolutely. We are also learning all the time and, you know, early adopting, but anyway, thank you so much for listening to the long distance work life for Shownotes transcripts and other resources. Don't forget to go to long distance work life.com. And if you haven't yet, subscribe to the podcast so you won't miss any future episodes. And if you're on Apple or Spotify, please give us a rating and review.

    00;22;10;01 - 00;22;25;19
    Marisa Eikenberry
    Your feedback helps us improve and reach more listeners just like you. Feel free to contact us via email or LinkedIn with the links in our show notes, and let us know you listen to this episode, or suggest a topic for Wayne and I to tackle in a future episode. We would love to hear from you. Thank you for joining us.

    00;22;25;19 - 00;22;28;12
    Marisa Eikenberry
    And as Wayne likes to say, don't let the weasels get you down.

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    Timestamps

    00:00 Introduction to Today's Episode
    01:50 How Remote Leadership Has Changed Since 2018
    03:36 Understanding Hybrid Teams and Their Impact
    05:05 First Order vs. Second Order Changes in Leadership
    09:09 The Shift to Written Communication in Remote Teams
    15:07 Preparing for Continuous Change in Work and Technology
    20:34 Special Announcement: Preorder the Revised Long-Distance Leader
    21:21 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

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    2. Embrace Remote Work Benefits: Expand your talent pool by considering remote work options and accessing a wider range of candidates.

    3. Decide on Work Models: Choose between fully remote, in-office, or hybrid models based on your company's goals rather than defaulting to a compromise.

    4. Be Transparent with Candidates: Clearly communicate your company's remote or hybrid policies to potential hires to ensure mutual understanding and alignment.

    5. Support CEO Decision-Making: Encourage leaders to make strategic decisions based on company culture and goals, despite external pressures.

    6. Enhance Recruitment Strategies: Focus on recruiting strategies that align with your chosen work model and organizational objectives.

    7. Promote Clear Communication: Foster open communication and feedback within your team to maintain a strong and cohesive remote or hybrid work environment.

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    00;00;07;28 - 00;00;34;03
    Wayne Turmel
    Hi, everybody. Welcome to another episode of The Long Distance Worklife where we help you thrive. Survive, generally, keep the weasels at bay in the crazy world of remote and hybrid work. I am Wayne Turmel your humble servant. My, normal co-host. Marissa is not here this week, which means it's an interview episode, which is always so much fun.

    00;00;34;05 - 00;01;03;23
    Wayne Turmel
    Today we are going to talk about, employment, talent stagnation and how people think about remote work and searching for talent with the very, very talented Khaled Hussein from Betterleap. So far, I've remembered the name and I've remembered the company. We're off to a great start. And talent. Who who has just moved to my city of Las Vegas.

    00;01;03;23 - 00;01;04;28
    Wayne Turmel
    So welcome.

    00;01;05;01 - 00;01;14;24
    Khaled Hussein
    Yes. Thank you so much for having me. And I was like, all right, you nailed the name. And then the company and everything that's like, great, I'm in. Great to be here.

    00;01;14;27 - 00;01;40;24
    Wayne Turmel
    At this hour of the morning. That is no small feat. So when you're talking about talent stagnant, we've been through the great Resignation and we went through the Great Compromise and we've been through a thousand little jargon d'azur waves over the last few years. When you talk about the great stagnation, what are you talking about?

    00;01;40;24 - 00;02;08;13
    Khaled Hussein
    Yeah, I'm really glad you you know, it's kind of setting the stage of what that is. And I think, you know, we're very, we're we're really good at coming up with terms that describe what, you know, what the current employment market is kind of going through right now. We are entering a very interesting stage where, you know, the talent stagnation is it's really, the way I define it is it's a mismatch between the skilled workers and the employers.

    00;02;08;15 - 00;02;29;25
    Khaled Hussein
    expectation and employers demand, growth, demand and so on one hand, you find that, you know, employers that we have the phase of, it was it was really a talent market. And you get to choose who you want to work with. And employers are willing to overpay for the talent and really consider the need for remote and work life balance and all that.

    00;02;29;25 - 00;02;50;20
    Khaled Hussein
    And I think we're going to move to, you know, the other end of the the spectrum right now in different sectors. By the way, this is a very nuanced, you know, element work is is a very nuanced, industry. And so it really, it depends on what sectors. But we kind of move to the other end of the spectrum where we it's pretty much an employer market right now.

    00;02;50;20 - 00;03;23;08
    Khaled Hussein
    And you have talent that is, you know, looking for employment. And a lot of employers are trying to reduce their talent, force their genre, find more efficient ways to, supplement their, their needs and work needs and so forth. And, and, increase their overall productivity or reduce their cost. and, and the talent is kind of starting to look for hey, this was a really good phase where we found, you know, companies that were accommodating and and so forth.

    00;03;23;08 - 00;03;27;08
    Khaled Hussein
    And I think now it's a bit more challenging for, for the talent to find that.

    00;03;27;08 - 00;04;00;24
    Wayne Turmel
    I think it is. And I think that some of this, especially around remote and hybrid work, is that working remotely or the flexibility to work hybrid has been about the only perk available. You know, the money is what it is. you know, and so when when companies think about, well, we're going to be hybrid or we're going to be remote for it's not so much a strategy as a hostage negotiation, right?

    00;04;00;27 - 00;04;15;14
    Wayne Turmel
    How much can we make them come into the office before they quit. And the workers are saying, how much can I not go into the office before they fire me? And that's not terribly strategic or good thinking.

    00;04;15;16 - 00;04;16;05
    Khaled Hussein
    Yeah.

    00;04;16;05 - 00;04;37;09
    Wayne Turmel
    So what I like to do is start at the top with the CEOs and is their their thinking about their their work strategy. And they're thinking about how are we going to be remote or we get it. You know, a lot of times, well, we want the best talent. And what they really mean is we want the best talent that lives within 20 miles of where we are.

    00;04;37;13 - 00;04;51;19
    Wayne Turmel
    Yeah. so what are the CEOs? Those the kind of C-suite. What are they thinking? And what are the the things that are keeping them up night when it comes to recruiting talent?

    00;04;51;21 - 00;05;16;10
    Khaled Hussein
    You know what? When I, I have an answer that I'll share with you. But there is also another thing that I don't think I ever share, that I'm just kind of feeling this right now, so. Oh, cool. I yeah, I literally don't think I ever said that on any other, kind of media, but one thing CEOs think a lot about right now, and I think when we talk about CEOs, you know, there is, you know, fortune 500 CEOs, but there is also the, you know, that that everybody else.

    00;05;16;10 - 00;05;37;25
    Khaled Hussein
    And so, I do think, you know, so this answer is a little bit nuanced, but I do think it applies to both to a degree. I think a big part, big kind of point that CEOs think a lot about is am I doing what everybody else also is doing? So if you get the top ten CEOs, they're starting to bring people back to the office.

    00;05;37;25 - 00;05;56;26
    Khaled Hussein
    And there is some pressure from shareholders and investors to say, hey, it looks like, you know, the CEO of this massive conglomerate is bringing people back to the office. And he's citing all these stacks of, you know, things that are going to be better if you bring people back to the office. Then as a CEO, you kind of feel a little bit of a pressure to follow suit.

    00;05;56;29 - 00;05;59;13
    Wayne Turmel
    And I imagine that's completely true.

    00;05;59;16 - 00;06;23;28
    Khaled Hussein
    And I yeah, there is there is definitely that. And I think even if a lot of CEOs are not, you know, going out there publicly saying that, that they're feeling that pressure, there is definitely an internal pressure that they're, they're, facing. And you see this and the way I know that is, I am I'm very fortunate to have been an investor in many different startups and many different work with many different CEOs, mentor for a lot.

    00;06;23;28 - 00;06;40;19
    Khaled Hussein
    And we have these discussions. We have the discussion of like, I really like my set up being either in office or being for remote or whatever, but then all of my investors are telling me their whole portfolio is going to the other way, and I feel like maybe I should. What do you think? And so there is an element of that.

    00;06;40;19 - 00;06;57;25
    Khaled Hussein
    Is there is that external pressure on CEOs to follow what kind of the new thing is? There was a phase where the new thing is everything is remote and hey, remote is great and you save costs and office space and all that and every CEO all of a sudden move the company to being remote. And then there is the wave is kind of going back to return to office.

    00;06;57;25 - 00;07;19;28
    Khaled Hussein
    And then there is a lot of CEOs coming back too. So there is an element of really just what's happening out there. you don't want to stand out too much. but the other thing is the funny and the irony in that is standing out is actually the advantage. And so being the on the other side is what's going to give you the advantage to attract the talent that like that side.

    00;07;20;01 - 00;07;36;15
    Khaled Hussein
    And so this is kind of, you know, like sticking and it's an identity company culture, identity and all of that is if we are remote, we're sticking to remote. If everybody going back to the office, that's even better for us, because we're going to get the talent that's interested in being remote easier and it's, you know, more accessible for us.

    00;07;36;17 - 00;08;01;11
    Wayne Turmel
    you know, you just said something that's kind of interesting and it's a little bit of a rabbit hole, but it's my show. And if I want to go down the rabbit hole, I can do that. I love it. you said that, you know, CEOs are kind of struggling with this. How comfortable are they on average? And I know it's nuanced and I know it's by industry and all kinds of things, but have they become more comfortable with the whole concept of remote?

    00;08;01;11 - 00;08;05;28
    Wayne Turmel
    You know, before Covid, they were the they were the ones that were convinced this was never going to work.

    00;08;05;29 - 00;08;09;09
    Khaled Hussein
    Yep. So what I see in the market today. Yeah.

    00;08;09;10 - 00;08;12;10
    Wayne Turmel
    And have they gotten more comfortable with it.

    00;08;12;12 - 00;08;43;22
    Khaled Hussein
    Yeah I see a lot of, I see it at different stages. I see a lot of times in the early stage, you know, you have two co-founders and maybe 2 or 3, you know, team members. They are actually comfortable either way. They're comfortable being everybody is in the same room. And they tend to be, you know, friends that got together and they have, you know, and new concept or a new startup and they want to start it or I see that, hey, you know, two co-founders and then they found two other, you know, or three other team members that are remote.

    00;08;43;22 - 00;09;02;23
    Khaled Hussein
    And everybody just pants on. And they're really kind of very efficient. And I, I see, you know, I see both sides 5050. And I think this is really great. As the company continues to grow and you add more and more people and there's more processes and there's a middle management layer and there is, you know, you start to really scale your business.

    00;09;02;25 - 00;09;32;21
    Khaled Hussein
    I see a lot of them become pretty uncomfortable with remote, because they have this little bit of fear. And I think, you know, it's not completely irrational, but they do have this fear of, hey, we can be more efficient and more productive if we bring people to the office, because there's a lot of, you know, the, the hallway conversations that are happening, the information sharing as a CEO, your number one thing is, you know, besides recruiting is making sure everybody has all the right information they need.

    00;09;32;23 - 00;10;01;08
    Khaled Hussein
    And so information entropy happens a lot better if everybody is obviously in, in the office. So I think they're not totally, wrong in that. But the flip side of that is there is also while you share the information, there is actually in a way, depending on the company, there is a little bit of, efficiency loss in the hallway communication, because this is not heads down.

    00;10;01;08 - 00;10;24;11
    Khaled Hussein
    I'm doing my work. And, you know, we're having a chat. and so there is, you know, pros and cons for either, and I think it really goes back to you as founders and as going to C-suite, what type of company we want to build. And I think just remove all other distractions and remove media as saying, you know, employees are the vacations, remote vacations and things of that nature.

    00;10;24;11 - 00;10;31;26
    Khaled Hussein
    You just need to ignore all the noise and focus on kind of building the right company that you want to build and, and was the right, and you stick to that identity.

    00;10;31;26 - 00;10;49;07
    Wayne Turmel
    So what are three things? Let's say if I've decided that I want, at the very least a hybrid culture, right, that people aren't going to be in the office all day, every day, what are three things that we need to think about if we're going to go out and recruit people?

    00;10;49;07 - 00;11;10;27
    Khaled Hussein
    Yeah. So hybrid is interesting. Hybrid is so interesting to me. And I'm having a little bit of, you know, some some thoughts on hybrid. Hybrid is interesting because if it's going to be hybrid then you have to hire people that are within your 20 miles, right. Or 30 miles. So you kind of limited your talent pool. And I have to hire within this.

    00;11;11;00 - 00;11;36;03
    Wayne Turmel
    Although I have heard I have a great example, the federal government and I will not name the agency because I don't want to throw anybody under a bus. But there's one federal agency. The rule is you have to be in the office two days every pay period. So somebody I know actually commutes from Florida to Washington DC to fulfill those two dates.

    00;11;36;05 - 00;11;52;23
    Khaled Hussein
    Wow. Okay. Yeah. And and, you know, interesting to know also how long the pay period. But, yeah, this is this this makes sense. But you know, for the majority of the time you end up if you're thinking of a hybrid, you're kind of thinking of people that are more or less in your city or kind of, you know, easy commute.

    00;11;52;23 - 00;12;16;11
    Khaled Hussein
    And so it limits the talent pool. Personally, I've been kind of telling people, you, you know, it's better to choose one or the other and create more frequency. And so, of getting together. So if you are remote and you're, you know, you get together every quarter making every month, you know, you can make that happen. And so but that way just opens up the talent pool for you.

    00;12;16;14 - 00;12;33;07
    Khaled Hussein
    and, you know, we are we are a remote company. we had an office, and we, we meet in the office every single day for a very long time. And then we ended up kind of hiring. We wanted to expand our talent pool, and we didn't want to restrict the specific job. So we turned the company into remote.

    00;12;33;10 - 00;12;50;07
    Khaled Hussein
    And so, I, you know, doing the hybrid, it felt like work kind of, in many ways, you know, we'll see that there's a lot of, research being done on that. But in many ways, I feel like hybrid misses that the benefits of both sides. It's a you and I.

    00;12;50;08 - 00;13;13;27
    Wayne Turmel
    I completely agree, and I think it goes back to what I said a little bit earlier, which is for most organizations, hybrid is a compromise. It's not a strategy. Right. It's like we want really you. Yeah, one way or the other. And so we'll call ourselves hybrid. But that kind of timid make a decision already you morons. thing.

    00;13;13;29 - 00;13;28;20
    Khaled Hussein
    Exactly. I'm trying to beat around the bush, but you're exactly right, I think. I think he can. I get the worst of both sides here. It's like two is one and just going to stick to it. And there is tooling and systems and processes for each one. Like we know how to work in office. And there is, you know, playbooks for that.

    00;13;28;25 - 00;13;39;24
    Khaled Hussein
    We've also learned how to work remote in the last few years. And that is playbooks for that and tooling and everything down there. We don't really have anything for that thing in the middle. Like, you know, which one is it.

    00;13;39;27 - 00;13;50;17
    Wayne Turmel
    And so and it's so easy for companies to if they are hybrid, they default to the rules that made sense when everybody was in the office.

    00;13;50;20 - 00;13;52;00
    Khaled Hussein
    That's right. That's right.

    00;13;52;03 - 00;14;16;25
    Wayne Turmel
    Okay. So that's on the so make a decision already is what we're trying to say. so now let's talk about the talent pool of folks. Right. What are they finding out there is I I've heard that there's a lot of bait and switch around remote work that, you know, people are kind of promising a degree of flexibility that doesn't really exist.

    00;14;16;27 - 00;14;33;02
    Wayne Turmel
    so, first of all, if I'm out there looking for a job which thankfully, knock on wood, I am not. But if I were out there looking for a job, what am I looking for? What's legit? What are the things that maybe I need to watch out for?

    00;14;33;05 - 00;14;56;27
    Khaled Hussein
    Yeah, you know, I kind of following the thread from before choosing a hybrid company, you know, has its own challenges also because, you know, the different, pros and cons for either side of very well defined. But that middle layer is and honestly there are we do even, you know, for better link when we're hiring. We do talk to a lot of talent that, hey, I like to be around people.

    00;14;56;27 - 00;15;13;29
    Khaled Hussein
    I like to meet people I like. So, you know, that frequency of getting together is really important. I think we're social beings, and I get that there's nothing, wrong about us. Not crazy or anything, but there is also the. Hey, I'd like to be heads down. I like to find talent, and I like to be able to travel.

    00;15;13;29 - 00;15;35;18
    Khaled Hussein
    I like to take care of my family. I like to do this and this and this and that and and I get my work done. And I think that could be done anywhere. I'm fortunate, you know, within tech and all that kind of stuff. And that could be done, anywhere. So I do think talent now are definitely starting to run into CEOs and companies making decision for either hybrid or coming back to office.

    00;15;35;18 - 00;16;09;27
    Khaled Hussein
    So now they have to choose not just the company that they're passionate about, their mission and their product, but they have to choose a company that's within a location that they're willing to via. And so it makes it even harder for them to really find, you know, the right job and the right opportunity. But also on top of that is, you have to you have to think, if I'm going to be remote, then the pool of company is now that is willing to be remote, that will continue that you kind of when you're talking to that C-suite, that that company and you see that they will continue to be because you don't want to

    00;16;09;27 - 00;16;28;20
    Khaled Hussein
    work at a company that six months later they're going to change that policy. And so, you know, you have to kind of test that as a candidate and you have to find a company that. But the pool of those companies have shrunk a lot. right now there is definitely a lot more, a lot less companies that are willing to be fully remote.

    00;16;28;20 - 00;16;34;06
    Khaled Hussein
    And there is a lot more towards coming back to office or some sort of, of a hybrid.

    00;16;34;07 - 00;16;55;10
    Wayne Turmel
    Is the coming back to the office thing. Is that just, you know, the pendulum is going to keep swinging. We're going to all go back to the office and then people are going to get fed up and start working from home again and working remotely. And then somebody in three years is going to get a bug in their hat and they're going to bring everybody back to the office.

    00;16;55;17 - 00;17;03;07
    Wayne Turmel
    I get the sense that it's just this pendulum that keeps swinging more so than conscious decisions being made.

    00;17;03;10 - 00;17;22;12
    Khaled Hussein
    See, I actually feel, this one, you know, I kind of have a slightly different opinion there. I do think we were forced to do remote. I think we had, you know, the external event that kind of forced everybody to be remote. So I don't think it was, you know, somebody that came up with this idea. And then we swung.

    00;17;22;12 - 00;17;38;02
    Khaled Hussein
    So I actually think it was the initial kind of change was an external factor and we had to adapt. Human beings are great at that. And now we realize, well, okay, we ran into all kinds of things here that we kind of maybe let's go back to what we were used to. But I don't think there's a swing here.

    00;17;38;02 - 00;17;58;29
    Khaled Hussein
    I actually think we're just kind of going back to what we're used to. This was just a forced thing. And what I think will happen is not that we kind of go back to being normal, but what I think will happen is different stages. I think we're going to see early stage companies are more open to being remote, and that will continue to be the case.

    00;17;58;29 - 00;18;19;14
    Khaled Hussein
    So I don't think there is a swing yet. I think it will continue to be the case because that the different stages of companies were remote really worked so well. I think those or just will recognize that and will continue to do that. And you'll find the investors even pushing for this. Refine CEOs and founders and playbooks are being decimated about like how do you do that?

    00;18;19;16 - 00;18;41;28
    Khaled Hussein
    And and I think, you know, larger stages, I think, you know, we're seeing right now with, you know, the apples of the world and Amazon that were not there kind of bringing, you know, people back to the office. And I think that will likely can I continue to be that. And then, so I think it's going to depend on which stage you're going to be part of.

    00;18;42;01 - 00;18;49;06
    Wayne Turmel
    So if I want remote to be part of my work, I should be looking at startups as opposed to legacy companies.

    00;18;49;08 - 00;18;57;23
    Khaled Hussein
    I think you will have higher chances of finding the right company with the right culture that is open to remote as you go a little bit earlier stage.

    00;18;57;25 - 00;19;28;24
    Wayne Turmel
    Dang well, this conversation went all kinds of places and I am not mad at that, actually. thank you, Khalid, for, you know, putting us in the C-suite mindset set and letting us know what's going on. if you want to know more about Khalid and about Better Leap and all that good stuff, we will have the, links in the show notes, which I will talk about in a second.

    00;19;28;27 - 00;19;31;04
    Wayne Turmel
    Khalid, anything you want to leave us with?

    00;19;31;06 - 00;19;59;03
    Khaled Hussein
    first of all, thank you so much for having me. You really. I really enjoyed this conversation, and I think, the one thing I'll say is, hey, recruiting is. And kind of the labor force is, is core to our culture and core to our economy. And I think we go through the ups and downs of that. And I think, you know, just, in a time where markets are tough and people are getting laid off and people are getting you know, try to find work life balance and try to find the right job opportunities, things can get tough.

    00;19;59;03 - 00;20;17;07
    Khaled Hussein
    But I want to I want to say that we've been here before and we survived this and and I know we will again. And I think I don't want people to lose hope. There's a lot of opportunities out there. And there is, we just have to be more clever in our approach. And, there is there there's hope.

    00;20;17;13 - 00;20;42;23
    Wayne Turmel
    There is hope. We will take that as our final words. Again, if you are interested in the transcript for this, conversation or learning more about Khalid and better Lee, we will have all of that stuff at long distance work life.com. we are really, really proud of the fact that our numbers are growing. People are listening to us.

    00;20;42;24 - 00;21;08;05
    Wayne Turmel
    You can decide why you decided to do that. but like and subscribe and tell others about the show. We are very excited. We also love to hear from you. We get a lot of show ideas from our listeners. pet peeves, things you want to vent about, things that you want to know that we should look and find good guests like Khalid.

    00;21;08;07 - 00;21;32;05
    Wayne Turmel
    Drop a line to either Marissa. Right. You can find that, you can find us on LinkedIn. You can just email us either Wayne or Marissa at Kevin eikenberry.com. And if you are interested in learning the skills necessary to be a leader in the hybrid remote, ever changing world of work, check out our long distance leadership series.

    00;21;32;11 - 00;21;53;01
    Wayne Turmel
    We do those several times a year. Or if you're interested in bringing that in-house to your company, do that. Darn it, I am done. That's another week of our lives. Khaled, thank you so much for being with us. And, for those of you listening, have a great week. Don't let the weasels get you down.

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    Featured Guest

    Name: Khaled Hussein

    Bio: Khaled Hussein is an expert in talent acquisition and remote work strategies, currently leading at Betterleap. He is renowned for his insights into the modern employment market and innovative recruitment approaches, bridging the gap between skilled professionals and forward-thinking employers.


    Timestamps

    00:00 Introduction
    01:03 Defining Talent Stagnation
    03:23 Remote Work as a Perk
    05:37 CEO Pressures and Decisions
    10:49 Hybrid Work Challenges
    14:33 Recruiting in a Hybrid Environment
    16:34 Advice for Job Seekers
    17:03 The Future of Remote Work
    19:28 Conclusion

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