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Project Management Unplugged: Kory Kogon on Leading Without Limits

Wayne Turmel sits down with Kory Kogon, co-author of "Project Management for the Unofficial Project Manager" and VP of Content Development at Franklin Covey. They delve into the vital skills and strategies needed for effective project management, particularly in remote and hybrid work environments. Whether you're organizing dinner or a high-profile event, Kory discusses the universal principles of project management and the critical role of informal authority and people skills in achieving project success.

Key Takeaways

1. Recognize the Scope of Project Management: Understand that project management skills apply to both small daily tasks and large-scale operations, and can enhance productivity in both personal and professional settings.
2. Embrace Informal Authority: Develop skills to manage teams effectively without formal authority. This includes building trust, demonstrating respect, and ensuring clear communication.
3. Utilize Simple Tools: Start with basic tools like Excel for project management to maintain visibility and coordination. Don’t be intimidated by complex software; focus on tools that help clarify and track project progress.
4. Focus on People Management: Acknowledge that the success of a project largely depends on the people involved. Practice leadership skills such as setting clear expectations, listening actively, and extending trust to empower your team.
5. Adapt to Remote and Hybrid Environments: Leverage technology to create a visual dashboard for your projects, ensuring that every team member understands their roles and responsibilities, regardless of their physical location.

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00;00;08;01 - 00;00;50;02
Wayne Turmel
Hi, everybody. Welcome back to the Long Distance It's Work Life podcast where we try to make sense of the crazy emerging, constantly changing world of remote and hybrid work. And today I'm really excited. This is an important topic and we haven't really addressed it before. But one of the most important things in anyone's career is the ability to manage projects and and you don't have to be an official PMI blast project manager because there's all kinds of projects and we have an excellent, excellent guest today we are going to introduce you to.

00;00;50;05 - 00;01;07;14
Wayne Turmel
And here she is now, Cory Cogan, who is the coauthor along with Suzette Blakemore of Program Manager, Project management for the unofficial project manager. Tara Corey, who are you in? What the heck is the book about?

00;01;07;16 - 00;01;37;03
Kory Kogon
High range. First of all, thanks for having me. And I serve as a vice president of content development for Franklin Covey is familiar with God organization, hailing from the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People as the where it all started. And I am the lead author on our work around project management. I tend to be what they call the subject matter expert, although I'm not an expert on many things productivity and leadership.

00;01;37;03 - 00;01;49;02
Kory Kogon
So having run many projects in my life as an unofficial project manager on the scarred, unofficial project manager and just delighted that this book is so popular for people like me and others.

00;01;49;04 - 00;01;59;26
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, I think a lot of us did our first project management before we knew that's what we were doing.

00;01;59;28 - 00;02;32;06
Wayne Turmel
I kind of explained it to somebody. Once the projects run the range from cooking dinner for your spouse to, you know, putting on a high society wedding and there while they are essentially the same thing, there are levels of complexity and craziness that go along with it. Why do you think people find themselves in unofficial project management? How does that how does one find oneself in that space?

00;02;32;08 - 00;03;08;23
Kory Kogon
Well, first of all, you're exactly right. So since the beginning of time, if you were cooking dinner at the hearth for your family or having a family reunion or whatever, everything that has a beginning and an end, you know, is a project personally and professionally. So it's always been that way. But in the work force in particular, over the years as we've moved from, you know, sort of the factory, the the assembly line process kind of work and we slipped into the roles of being knowledge workers where we're paid to think in a very create and execute.

00;03;08;25 - 00;03;37;02
Kory Kogon
We are tasked today with working on things that have a beginning and an end. And I think the pandemic really helped solidify that as we had to be very innovative very quickly and create new things to be able to adjust to the new world. And whether you are creating a marketing campaign, a learning program, a new system, whatever it all is projects and we think about them, we innovate them.

00;03;37;02 - 00;03;55;21
Kory Kogon
And so like you said, when we've been doing it for a long time and I said, I'm scarred. Everybody's very good at what they do, but never had the benefit of, you know, real training or learning around processes and systems. And we just pushed our way through to the best of our ability.

00;03;55;23 - 00;04;36;29
Wayne Turmel
I think a lot of people, when they hear project management, their brain immediately goes to the very complex, you know, project management, institute, PMI, Gantt charts and stuff, and there's, you know, software and things that I need to know. What are the things that you I don't think you've ever been asked this question this way before. When you start doing projects, what are the things that you absolutely need to know and what are the things that especially early on, you shouldn't worry your pretty little head about?

00;04;37;02 - 00;05;06;23
Kory Kogon
Well, that's an interesting question. I'm going to reverse it on you because I think the first thing you need to look at is some of the trends around why projects fail and the things that we hear. And I you know, data shows this. Whenever I ask an audience, I could be in the UK, in Africa, anywhere, and I get the same list that is, you know, a lack of clear goals or outcomes, lack of communication.

00;05;06;23 - 00;05;40;17
Kory Kogon
People are in the wrong roles, you know, all of those kinds of things. And when you hear that, what comes clear and cutting through the noise, like you said, and you know, PMI certainly has they've done some amazing work out there as well, particularly with their new additions of the pimp office, their new standard. But what's really required upfront is to get a good scope on the project that everybody really understands what the project is and the value that it's providing, whether to your family or the organization.

00;05;40;20 - 00;06;02;24
Kory Kogon
And this comes out of the Agile movement that is so popular now where we had to be a little more flexible about things and get feedback and build value because a lot of projects end up getting done and learned don't even look like what they were to start with. So scoping the project is really important. Planning is next.

00;06;03;02 - 00;06;39;25
Kory Kogon
You mentioned the end chart. Yes, it gets complicated, but honestly and you know, with us we said, you know, you don't have to become an expert. It again chart. But understanding some project management principles like dependencies duration is really helpful to take some of the pressure off of somebody that's managing six or seven different projects. But I'll tell you that the most important part of project management, whether you're official or unofficial, I mentioned value and it's people management and leadership.

00;06;40;01 - 00;06;48;11
Kory Kogon
And the interesting thing is that there are many project managers out there that never wanted to be people leaders.

00;06;48;13 - 00;07;06;03
Wayne Turmel
If like you, how many? I can't tell you how many PMI meetings I've been to where people say, Well, all these soft skills are great, Wayne, but I, I'm not a people manager and I want to grab them by the lapels and go, You better be.

00;07;06;05 - 00;07;31;04
Kory Kogon
Yeah, yeah, yeah. And because really, I mean, if you think about it, you know, I mentioned the failure list before, so you see this list of lack of communication, lack of clear goals, lack of, you know, whatever feedback. And then you're like, Hey, we're going to do this project, let's go get them. And so the people, because of these trends, go into most projects pretty darn disengaged to start.

00;07;31;04 - 00;07;49;09
Kory Kogon
So that's one problem. But again, a lot of people never planned on being people, leaders. And so it's really important that they learn a little bit about informal authority and the principles around You're not going to get this project done well without people. And so the.

00;07;49;09 - 00;08;11;21
Wayne Turmel
Informal, the informal authority, I think is is so critical because I know that most of the projects I've worked on are ad hoc teams, right? They've been put together with a person from this group and a person from this group, and more than once as a project manager, I've had somebody look at me and go, You're not my real boss.

00;08;11;24 - 00;08;18;14
Kory Kogon
Right? Right. Sorry. Did you want to finish that? I interrupted you.

00;08;18;17 - 00;08;35;03
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, well, no, I mean, you just. You know exactly what I'm talking about. This idea of responsibility without formal authority is one of the hardest things when organizing a project.

00;08;35;06 - 00;08;59;23
Kory Kogon
Right? And it is interesting because people know what informal authority you know really is, because, you know, a lot of people it's like, I wish I could report, you know, to that manager, to that person. They're not even a leader, but they're so, you know, good at what they do and they respect people and all that kind of stuff.

00;08;59;23 - 00;09;34;00
Kory Kogon
So that's what informal leadership really is about. It's, you know, do people want to play on your team and do they want to win with you? And if you can do that, that's great. And you know, you know this better than most. There's a million leadership courses out there that people can take and leadership development. And honestly, what we say is that if we can just master five, you know, behaviors, leadership behaviors, you know, and they're your parents probably taught you this, but it's hard when you're under pressure.

00;09;34;03 - 00;10;03;02
Kory Kogon
But if people could manage, project managers can really demonstrate, demonstrate respect. They listen to people, they clarify expectations for the people on the team and really important they extend trust to the team versus I can do it all myself or I don't trust them. And finally, practice accountability both of themselves. First, am I accountable to this and their people?

00;10;03;02 - 00;10;26;11
Kory Kogon
And I think you know this. I'll tell you. I mean, it's tough because first of all, demonstrating respect under pressure can be I'm from New York City originally, not to brand New Yorkers, but I know, you know, I've got a New York kind of way. And when I'm under pressure, it's like, let's just get it done. And I have to remember, I need to just remember that not everybody moves the way I move or thinks the way I do.

00;10;26;13 - 00;10;35;08
Kory Kogon
So what does respect look like? So these five behaviors are really helpful to help people become informal leaders.

00;10;35;10 - 00;11;06;23
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, they absolutely are. And and that's that's a mindset kind of thing, right? As a leader, this is the mindset that we need. But let's talk about let's take that mindset now and move it to the world that we're in where a lot of us cut our teeth on our first project, but we were safely in the womb of the office or the headquarters, and the boss was there to help run under us with a net if we needed it and that kind of thing.

00;11;06;23 - 00;11;23;24
Wayne Turmel
And now we are working in a dispersed workplace, like maybe some of your folks are in one place, maybe not. I mean, whether it's hybrid or completely remote, how does that complicate the situation?

00;11;23;26 - 00;11;32;12
Kory Kogon
I don't know if complicated is the right word in our organization. First of all, I've been remote for a long time, really before I was even.

00;11;32;14 - 00;11;35;03
Wayne Turmel
Neither of us needs to do the math.

00;11;35;05 - 00;12;05;06
Kory Kogon
Right. Right. And our organization has also for the last probably decade now has been mostly remote, I guess we call it hybrid today. And I said, I don't know if the word is is complicated, but again, the experience of some of these people that are managing projects, they don't have you know, they don't they don't come ready with the skills.

00;12;05;09 - 00;12;35;01
Kory Kogon
Well, I can't see them, so how do I manage them? And the principles behind unofficial project management and people management and value management are sound or are correct. And I will use the word complicated. I think it does get you know, it is more complicated because these leaders obviously need to do this when people aren't around them having said that, I'll go back to what I said.

00;12;35;04 - 00;13;08;27
Kory Kogon
Even if we're doing this by Zoom or teams or whatever, really key, if you are if you are scoping, planning the project, using some tools in a way that is real clarity for everybody on the project team to know what's going on. And with that in mind, when you have like a visual scoreboard, we call it of the project and you're able to sort and help and with your team together assign resources appropriately.

00;13;09;00 - 00;13;40;11
Kory Kogon
And so to use a sports analogy, but even create a cadence of team meetings, that's not about the leader telling people what to do, but everybody having visibility into what's going on with the project and people stepping up and saying, you know what, we're crazy busy this week, but here's the one thing I'm going to get done this week that's going to make sure that the project is in play and the leader steps back and only does what we call clear the path, meaning I'm just going to get Wayne's going to do this thing.

00;13;40;13 - 00;14;02;22
Kory Kogon
Facilities isn't responding to him. I'm going to make sure that they respond so he can continue that task. The last thing I'll say on that, So if the team is engaged in that kind of way and you're leading in that kind of way, all of this is around extending trust to the team. So if I've got the right team together and by the way, we don't always get to choose that as we know.

00;14;02;25 - 00;14;27;21
Kory Kogon
But if I generally have the right team and I'm inspiring them to want to play on the team and when I extend trust to them and I make sure I'm practicing accountability with myself as the model, then even, you know, you can cut through remote and hybrid. Yeah, and nothing's perfect. So you're going to have issues along the way, but it shouldn't be that complicated.

00;14;27;24 - 00;14;55;26
Wayne Turmel
One of the things that I that you said, and I want to drill down in it to the very practical level because a lot of people listening to this, maybe, you know, they think that they need Microsoft teams and they need Basecamp and all these fabulous tools. But you said you need a visual dashboard, that people need to be able to see where they are at any given time.

00;14;55;28 - 00;15;08;17
Wayne Turmel
What are the kind of absolute basic tools that will enable a new unofficial project manager to do that?

00;15;08;19 - 00;15;31;03
Kory Kogon
Really whatever you want. But I mean, so in all of our research and every time we, you know, we do polls on this and we say, you know what you go to? And the answer is Excel. Excel always comes out, number one. And again, I want to be careful about the can chart if you don't want to use it, don't you know, I'm not about telling people what tools you have to use.

00;15;31;06 - 00;15;53;06
Kory Kogon
If Excel works for you, fine. You can organize it and then you can put that up. People can see that. I do think that using some of the other programs out there like and there's a lot of new ones out there, but that has Gantt chart capabilities in it and really very simplified. I call it demystifying the game chart.

00;15;53;06 - 00;16;06;02
Kory Kogon
In just a couple of minutes. This idea of tying dependance these together, I think, and and duration, those two things are modern life time management principles.

00;16;06;04 - 00;16;29;16
Wayne Turmel
That I can share with you. What what solve this for me because I use it. I heard the word Gantt chart and I thought this was incredibly complicated and I suddenly realized we use one almost every day of our lives, which is the TV guide. You look at the TV guide and though this show runs till 7:00, but this one starts at 630, that how do I do this?

00;16;29;21 - 00;16;32;16
Wayne Turmel
And you look at that and that's a Gantt chart.

00;16;32;18 - 00;16;38;04
Kory Kogon
That's again, I'm going to take I'm going to steal that one away from my next conversation. That was great.

00;16;38;05 - 00;16;39;13
Wayne Turmel
My gift to you.

00;16;39;16 - 00;17;05;29
Kory Kogon
Thank you. But that's exactly right that we are that a lot of these are principles that we do in real life that are just being raised up to institutionalize, to be able to have repeatable success. So, you know, giving it a shot. And then, like you said, having this visible scoreboard and it's easier than ever, particularly in a hybrid environment because people can just go on the cloud and pull it up and we're all looking at it.

00;17;06;02 - 00;17;33;05
Wayne Turmel
Absolutely as I knew we would. I mean, we have filled lots of our time with really good stuff. If you are about to undertake your first project and this is a critical thing for a lot of people because this is how we make our bones as leaders, right? Is we very often before we are actually managers, we head up a project or we head up a team.

00;17;33;07 - 00;17;57;18
Wayne Turmel
And this is our first kind of foray into leadership. So if somebody is about to undertake their first unofficial project, what are other than take a deep breath and know it's going to be okay, what are a couple of key things that they need to do to arm themselves to get really prepared.

00;17;57;21 - 00;18;02;16
Kory Kogon
For leading a project? We people both.

00;18;02;18 - 00;18;06;12
Wayne Turmel
Well, the one's a subset of the other, right?

00;18;06;14 - 00;18;43;03
Kory Kogon
So I think, you know what what I said earlier that you do have to realize that it's the people that are going to get the project done, not you, not the I mean, you know, we have a great process scoping and planning and engaging and tracking and adapting and closing a project. The process is fine, but it means nothing unless they realize that people are the ones that are going to get this done for you.

00;18;43;05 - 00;19;17;01
Kory Kogon
So as a leader, are you prepared back to informal leadership to help inspire your team to do that and I'm going to go back to what I said before about the failure list. You have to be prepared to help yourself and the team scope this project in a way. I mean, there's so many things to talk about. Scope this project in a way that people have a clear line of sight because of all the things we can talk about from failure.

00;19;17;03 - 00;19;42;20
Kory Kogon
Once somebody says, Well, I don't know, maybe we'll go this way, or maybe we'll go that way, I'm in the middle of this right now with one of my own things, and it's like, you know what? We're not moving on until somebody comes clear on what the outcome is. And so I think for a leader, just knowing you got to get two clear outcomes and not having anything wishy washy in the project but know where we're going because for you that's satisfying.

00;19;42;20 - 00;19;51;03
Kory Kogon
And few people, they'll be totally frustrated if you don't. So people first scoping clarity on end in mind.

00;19;51;05 - 00;20;20;11
Wayne Turmel
Sam Absolutely terrific. Thank you so much. Corey. That's great stuff. If you are interested in learning more, First of all, the transcript from this conversation is available on Long Work Life dot com. We will have links to Corey and Suzanne's book and to their work and all of that good stuff, as we always do. Corey, thank you so much for being with us.

00;20;20;11 - 00;20;25;10
Wayne Turmel
This has been really terrific and thanks for being with us on the long distance work life.

00;20;25;13 - 00;20;28;01
Kory Kogon
Thanks for having me, Wayne. It's been a pleasure.

00;20;28;04 - 00;20;58;17
Wayne Turmel
Well, as always, thank you for being head and for those of you who are listening, thank you for being here as well. This was a merciless episode. She will be with us in future episodes if you want to contact my self or her questions, comments. Vicious personal attacks, ideas for episodes, by all means, reach out to us. We are available at long distance work life dot com.

00;20;58;19 - 00;21;25;18
Wayne Turmel
You know the drill. You listen to podcasts. If you enjoy this and want others to find us, please like and subscribe. We enjoy the heck out of hearing from you. And if you are interested in learning a little bit more about leading at a distance, check out our open enrollment public programs for Long Distance Leadership series. The U.

00;21;25;18 - 00;21;50;02
Wayne Turmel
R L is here and it will also be in the show notes. Thank you so, so much. Again, my name is Wayne Turmel. Thank you for being with us on the long distance work life. Don't let the weasels get you down, do you?


Featured Guest

Name: Kory Kogon

About: Kory Kogon is the Vice President of Content Development at Franklin Covey and co-author of "Project Management for the Unofficial Project Manager." Renowned for her expertise in productivity and leadership, she offers valuable insights into managing projects effectively, regardless of formal training.


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
01:37 The Evolution of Project Roles
04:37 Core Project Management Skills
07:06 Leadership Without Authority
11:06 Adapting to Remote Environments
14:55 Practical Tools for Beginners
17:33 Advice for New Project Leaders
20:20 Conclusion

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00;00;08;02 - 00;00;18;28
Marisa Eikenberry
Welcome back to Long-Distance Worklife. Where we help you lead, work and thrive in remote and hybrid teams. I'm Marisa Eikenberry, a fellow remote worker. And joining me is remote work expert, my co-host, Wayne Turmel. Hi.

00;00;19;00 - 00;00;20;19
Wayne Turmel
Hello, Marisa. How are you?

00;00;20;21 - 00;00;22;07
Marisa Eikenberry
I'm great. How are you.

00;00;22;09 - 00;00;25;11
Wayne Turmel
Feeling? My mortality.

00;00;25;14 - 00;00;28;10
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, that should be great.

00;00;28;13 - 00;00;51;18
Wayne Turmel
Generally, I generally think of myself as, you know, open to the world and still open to new experiences. And there are days when I realize that I am a grumpy old white guy who has been far more institutionalized in the traditional workplace than I thought I was.

00;00;51;20 - 00;00;54;09
Marisa Eikenberry
And then you've got me. I'm an old soul, so.

00;00;54;11 - 00;01;26;24
Wayne Turmel
Well, yes. And you still walk around in that 32 year old body interacting with 32 year olds, doing 32 year old things and the reason for this venting, dear listener, is we have been having conversations offline about some of the different meeting platforms out there. And I don't care if you zoom routines or WebEx or Joe's virtual meeting, I or whatever you use, I don't care.

00;01;26;26 - 00;02;00;28
Wayne Turmel
But there is a trend to more of a virtual reality video game style, and it makes me break out in a rash. And I have been told I am wrong and wrong necessarily. I am firmly prepared to believe that it is generational right. This is just one of those things. I don't play video games unless you count Frogger on a, you know, bar tabletop, I guess.

00;02;00;28 - 00;02;24;24
Wayne Turmel
Right. But that was like the last cool game that I played. So Marisa has actually tested out a number of these platforms. And we're going to talk about what they bring to the table, what she likes, what she doesn't like. And she's going to try to convince me at least somewhat that the dark side is not completely dark.

00;02;24;26 - 00;02;40;18
Wayne Turmel
So we're going to talk about the gamification, the virtual reality kind of approach to some of these meetings and are they going to make a difference in how we do our work. So, Marisa, why don't you start with what have you been up to?

00;02;40;20 - 00;03;14;26
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, So we actually got an email from somebody about a program called SoWork, and I looked into it because I think the tagline on the for the subject line was something about, you know, start your work guild here or something. I'm like, That's gamer language. Like, I need to open up this email, right? So I was checking it out because basically that whole idea so work is that it was built by gamers to have a virtual office and to be able to intermingle in all the good office stuff remotely.

00;03;14;29 - 00;03;23;24
Marisa Eikenberry
I'm a gamer myself, so I reached out to you and I was like, Pick me, choose me. I volunteer as a tribute. Let me test this out.

00;03;23;27 - 00;03;34;13
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. As opposed to me who? And I would rather poke a red hot iron in my eye than do this. So bless your heart for. For doing.

00;03;34;18 - 00;03;47;00
Marisa Eikenberry
And with that, too, like, as I was, you know, having this moment of, okay, I really want to test this out. It was also an instant art will not test this with me. I need to go find other people who will. And that's okay.

00;03;47;01 - 00;03;49;14
Wayne Turmel
You need to go find your tribe. Go in, do.

00;03;49;16 - 00;04;14;03
Marisa Eikenberry
And that's okay. So I volunteer with a the world's first online church for gamers. Yes, that is a phrase I just said. But anyway, I knew that these are people who they're online all the time. Gaming is their thing. Like they're more likely to test this with me. So I posted it in the media team that I volunteer with, and I was like, Hey, I'm testing this out for work.

00;04;14;03 - 00;04;21;06
Marisa Eikenberry
You guys are under no obligation to check this out, but it would be really cool if you did. And they loved it.

00;04;21;08 - 00;04;22;10
Wayne Turmel
Of course they did.

00;04;22;17 - 00;04;30;18
Marisa Eikenberry
Loved it. At first they were just testing out some stuff that I was, you know, testing in a test server. How many times they tested. Okay.

00;04;30;19 - 00;04;38;03
Wayne Turmel
Now, first of all, my first thought is, of course, they loved it. These are people who can't be bothered to get out of their pajamas to go worship.

00;04;38;04 - 00;05;03;17
Marisa Eikenberry
That's a whole different We are meeting the people where they are. But that is that is a different discussion. But, you know, and the people that that I was testing with, you know, there are people that we were on a team together. We're volunteering together. We work together all the time. So I started testing it with them. The director of media team was like, This is awesome, shared it with staff, and now the church created a server.

00;05;03;19 - 00;05;12;10
Marisa Eikenberry
We're still testing out how it works, but it's pretty much staff and media team and we've had a blast with it. It's just it's been incredible.

00;05;12;14 - 00;05;23;02
Wayne Turmel
Okay, now for those of you watching, Marisa will have screenshots and things. The rest of you just have to play along. Use radio of the mind.

00;05;23;05 - 00;05;24;09
Marisa Eikenberry
Or check out the YouTube video.

00;05;24;14 - 00;05;42;28
Wayne Turmel
Or check out the bay and we will have links to all of the stuff in the show notes. So, okay, so you're creating a guild, you're doing a meeting. What does that start with? What it looks like? Yeah. And then talk to me about the impact and how it actually works.

00;05;43;01 - 00;06;05;28
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. So they have a couple different maps, I guess you could say to start out with. But we actually created one from scratch. But it looks like an office building and it's very top down kind of look. And so you can make a room over here and this is the kitchen and this is your office and these are cubicles over here, and this is a meeting space and a co-working space.

00;06;05;28 - 00;06;28;03
Marisa Eikenberry
And you can kind of make whatever you want, but it does look a lot like an office. If you had no ceiling on it. And you're looking right and everybody has a little avatar that you can customize, you know, hair outfit, whatever, change it as much as you want to. And and you walk around.

00;06;28;06 - 00;06;38;02
Wayne Turmel
Yeah I, I avatars freak me out in general. I'm not sure I'm ready to have a performance evaluation with an art book.

00;06;38;04 - 00;07;07;11
Marisa Eikenberry
Thankfully, they're not like that. All of them are human. I mean, you can, you know, change your hair color to be something different or whatever. You can have different types of costumes, and some of those are premium features. And so we were just on a free server. But yeah, I mean, you can, you know, throw a guitar on your back, throw, you know, I think they have like swords, so you can't get a little goofy with that.

00;07;07;13 - 00;07;10;01
Marisa Eikenberry
But no, no orcs this time.

00;07;10;03 - 00;07;14;29
Wayne Turmel
Okay, So at least we're talking human to human contact. Well.

00;07;15;02 - 00;07;35;28
Marisa Eikenberry
But it's interesting that you say that, though, because from my understanding, the people who created this part of the whole thing was that they had a team. I think they were Harvard creating like a business and 2020 happened. So suddenly their team became remote and they couldn't figure out how to get this culture piece and this connection piece to happen.

00;07;35;28 - 00;07;59;00
Marisa Eikenberry
And they were like, okay, we we play World of Warcraft. We know that this is possible to do online and it's in that piece is something I've been saying on LinkedIn for a long time for people who follow me there. But you know, gamers know how to connect online with people that they've never met. And so they were trying to figure out how how do we bring that into the remote work space?

00;07;59;00 - 00;08;14;29
Marisa Eikenberry
And so work was born. I'm pretty sure that it launched the public last year. So there's still a lot of beta stuff that's happening. There's still some glitchy stuff that's happening occasionally, too, and they're changing stuff all the time. Even in the months that I've been testing it, they've had so many different updates.

00;08;15;02 - 00;08;22;22
Wayne Turmel
This is voice to voice. So when you and I are having a meeting, our avatars are sitting in chairs, but we're talking.

00;08;22;24 - 00;08;38;16
Marisa Eikenberry
Yes. And you can't have cameras up. So you still can have a webcam up and be talking and you can actually like click a button and like not see any of the office space. If you didn't watch it, you just really wanted to focus on the meeting and then it would look like it looks like right now to us, you can't do that.

00;08;38;16 - 00;08;55;04
Marisa Eikenberry
But yes, you're correct. Like, you know, you go sit in chairs in the meeting room or they have proximity chat so people can actually like walk by your office. And as long as they're close to you and you don't have your do not disturb on, it'll automatically connect and start a conversation.

00;08;55;06 - 00;09;29;17
Wayne Turmel
Now, that's interesting to me because one of the big complaints about remote work or hybrid work is and I just had a flash on how this applies to hybrid work, but you don't have the incidental somebody walking by your desk and your brain goes, I need to talk to them. What you're telling me is this is running in the background all the time and you get some form of alert that says Marisa is walking past your office or Marisa is around and you go, Do I need to talk to Marisa?

00;09;29;17 - 00;09;33;05
Wayne Turmel
No, I can continue to ignore her or. Yeah, right.

00;09;33;08 - 00;09;54;27
Marisa Eikenberry
So physical, different ways that it can happen. So like, I have it minimized right now, like I'm in do not disturb mode because obviously we're podcasting, but if somebody walked by my desk and, like, got close enough to me to actually trigger that proximity chat, I actually get like a window that pops up in front of me that says, you know, somebody, whoever their name is, is connecting to you.

00;09;55;00 - 00;10;04;21
Marisa Eikenberry
And so that way I know to go back into that platform and I can actually see what's going on. But I mean, it is a very automatic connection.

00;10;04;23 - 00;10;26;25
Wayne Turmel
But where I had the flash about hybrid work is the big thing is we're out of sight, out of mind for each other. Right? Like, if I'm in the office today and you're not, I look around and I'm generally talking to the people. And if I have a question, I go to the people in the office and go, Hey, before I start typing and chatting and Marisa's around.

00;10;26;28 - 00;10;47;10
Wayne Turmel
Theoretically, if this is running in the background while a team's working, you can still get the proximity notices and you can still see that so-and-so is working and available even if they're not in your physical space. Right? That is kind of intriguing, I guess.

00;10;47;13 - 00;11;06;12
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, because since you could see the whole office at once. So they have like a WhatsApp opening menu basically. So you can see who's all online. If they have a status up, you can see what that status is. There is a chat feature. So right now it's kind of like Slack. They're about to update it. I haven't seen what the update looks like yet.

00;11;06;12 - 00;11;22;19
Marisa Eikenberry
I'm very excited to see that. So you can say like a message notification or something if you needed to that way, but you could see who's online and if you zoom out, you could actually see where they are in the map. So you could just like go over to them if you needed to get a hold of them or something.

00;11;22;26 - 00;11;48;18
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, I, I get that. I mean, I get how that can work. And by the way, we're talking specifically about SoWork. There are a number of other similar platforms out there, Remo and some others that. So we're not advocating for one versus the other, but we will have links to a couple of these things so that if you're listening to this and you're intrigued, you can certainly check it out.

00;11;48;24 - 00;11;55;00
Wayne Turmel
So why does this whole idea creep me out?

00;11;55;02 - 00;11;58;03
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, that might be a whole separate discussion.

00;11;58;06 - 00;12;26;11
Wayne Turmel
Well, no, it's a very simple discussion, which is, as a 62 year old man, even one who is reasonably technology savvy. I don't interact a lot. I mean, Alexa sits beside us in the TV room, and the main function that Alexa serves for us is Alexa. How tall is Tom Cruise? And we get the answer and I say, Thank you, Alexa.

00;12;26;14 - 00;12;28;15
Wayne Turmel
And that's the end of that, right?

00;12;28;22 - 00;12;30;00
Marisa Eikenberry
Meanwhile, I have a staff.

00;12;30;07 - 00;12;48;18
Wayne Turmel
Of homes and lives. Yeah, right, exactly. And you know, the movie Demon Seed came out in 1975, and people with smart houses should see it before you get smug, is all I'm saying. And I was young enough to see it and be scarred by it.

00;12;48;20 - 00;12;53;09
Marisa Eikenberry
My mom was four, so.

00;12;53;11 - 00;12;58;10
Wayne Turmel
And this has been a blessing. Makes the last episode so much.

00;12;58;10 - 00;13;04;00
Marisa Eikenberry
My last episode. You don't know what my name is, what I.

00;13;04;02 - 00;13;47;09
Wayne Turmel
But all of this silliness and you know, there is while there is an element of fun to this, which is part of the point, right, is to add some fun and lessen the formality for all of this. But for people of a certain age, our relationship with technology and our willingness to interact using technology, to me, I can get on Zoom and I can talk to you and I can see you and I can talk to you if I need to push three buttons to get your avatar to show up and I'm still not talking to you, that seems like more work than the benefit is worth.

00;13;47;16 - 00;13;52;22
Marisa Eikenberry
It's actually pretty easy. I mean, I'm not going to like, sit here and be like, This is forever.

00;13;52;23 - 00;13;55;00
Wayne Turmel
No, no, no. I know you're not selling for anybody.

00;13;55;00 - 00;13;57;13
Marisa Eikenberry
But yeah, because. Because you are trying to talk.

00;13;57;14 - 00;13;58;21
Wayne Turmel
This man off the ledge.

00;13;58;27 - 00;14;16;24
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, because I don't think that this is good for every team. I really don't. I do think there's a certain level of some of it's generational. Some of it's just what you interact with normally. You know, if you're somebody who's a little bit more perpetually online, you're probably going to enjoy this a little bit more like that kind of thing.

00;14;16;27 - 00;14;37;08
Marisa Eikenberry
For the most part, getting on a video call or an audio call. With this platform, it's it's really easy. Not only can you just walk up to somebody and it starts something instantly, but you can also, you know, let's say I scheduled a meeting with you and I'm like, okay, you know, Wayne, we're going to have a meeting at 1 p.m., You know, we'll meet in the meeting room.

00;14;37;11 - 00;14;47;06
Marisa Eikenberry
All you have to do is walk your avatar over it in the meeting room, and the second you cross the threshold into that room, it automatically starts the meeting. You have to click nothing.

00;14;47;08 - 00;15;09;16
Wayne Turmel
You know, it's so funny because I am listening to you and my brain is processing the information and the idea of the proximity alert, Right? Marisa's walking by my desk. I'm thinking that's really intrusive and annoying. But then I think about being in the office and having Marisa walk by my desk and I go, That's really intrusive and annoying.

00;15;09;23 - 00;15;10;05
Wayne Turmel
Yeah.

00;15;10;07 - 00;15;15;08
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, and you have to be pretty close for that to trigger, right? Because I know that when they have to.

00;15;15;08 - 00;15;16;05
Wayne Turmel
Want to be there.

00;15;16;11 - 00;15;37;09
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. Because like we were the media team, like we were trying to figure out our desks and stuff and like, you can, you can add a bunch of furniture and you can add your computer and they have like gamer looking computers in there. And so as we were putting notes in, I know I tested with a friend of mine that's also in that team to be like, Hey, you sit down and I'm going to sit down and make sure that we don't trigger the proximity chat.

00;15;37;09 - 00;15;49;23
Marisa Eikenberry
Otherwise we may have to change where our computer sit. And thankfully it worked out the fine. But yeah, you have to be pretty close for that trigger. So it's not quite just, they walked right by your door. It's they're in your office.

00;15;49;26 - 00;15;51;04
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, they're in your space.

00;15;51;04 - 00;15;52;16
Marisa Eikenberry
Intentionally correct.

00;15;52;18 - 00;16;07;09
Wayne Turmel
Well, this is fascinating. And for those of you who are listening, I imagine some of you are horrified and appalled. And if so, your AARP card is in the mail for it.

00;16;07;11 - 00;16;27;22
Marisa Eikenberry
Can I get you one thing before we start to wrap up, though, that I think was really cool. And we talk about this concept all the time about when you're when you're remote, there's no cake in the breakroom. That's not a thing anymore. It's not cake. But one of the things cell work also allows you to do, and I'm sure some of these other platforms do as well.

00;16;27;24 - 00;16;36;10
Marisa Eikenberry
This is just the one that I've tested the most, is you can decorate somebody's office for their birthday or whatever. So I had to.

00;16;36;16 - 00;16;38;02
Wayne Turmel
Tell us the story. This is great.

00;16;38;07 - 00;16;58;28
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. So I had a birthday a couple weeks ago and I walked into the office and went over to my cubicle and I'm going to show a picture of it here on the screen. But I had balloons and cake and stuff everywhere, and I thought it was great, you know? I mean, I was able to move some stuff around and still get to my desk and I thought it was so cool.

00;16;58;28 - 00;17;31;05
Marisa Eikenberry
I kept it the whole day. And then we actually had another media team member that their birthday was the following day. So I basically moved everything in my office over to there the next day. And even while that was happening, like there was another person who they were on vacation. So we threw like a hammock and a sandcastle and a palm tree in their office because we just thought it was funny, but it was this other way of like showing culture and showing that you care about somebody else without necessarily hopping on a meeting or sending a message or, you know, taking up this extra time.

00;17;31;08 - 00;17;36;17
Marisa Eikenberry
But I saw that and felt so special and it probably took them 5 minutes to do.

00;17;36;20 - 00;17;42;15
Wayne Turmel
And they also just pulled a prank that backfired on them because you thought it was hysterical.

00;17;42;15 - 00;18;04;23
Marisa Eikenberry
That is true. And when we were first testing staff way before my birthday even happened, I walked into my testing office and had pumpkins everywhere. And apparently I was supposed to be annoyed by this. I thought it was so great. I took a screenshot and showed it as a LinkedIn lesson. No culture in a virtual space. Yeah. So.

00;18;04;25 - 00;18;06;07
Marisa Eikenberry


00;18;06;09 - 00;18;36;22
Wayne Turmel
Which is great if you live in a medieval farming village where swapping gourds is a symbol of affection. Anyway, we will have links to demos and stuff. We will have links to screenshots. Those of you watching on video will see the finished product with the screenshots built in. I am slightly less horrified than I was going in. I dare I say almost intrigued.

00;18;36;24 - 00;18;41;13
Marisa Eikenberry
But thank you. Let me know. I'll get on a meeting. I'll. I'll walk you around the office.

00;18;41;15 - 00;18;45;29
Wayne Turmel
Thank you for sharing that, Marisa. I really appreciate that.

00;18;46;01 - 00;18;47;08
Marisa Eikenberry
My taking it away.

00;18;47;11 - 00;18;48;24
Wayne Turmel
You're taking it home, lady.

00;18;48;24 - 00;18;50;28
Marisa Eikenberry
I'm okay.

00;18;51;00 - 00;18;54;01
Wayne Turmel
I'm old. I'm tired.

00;18;54;03 - 00;19;19;08
Marisa Eikenberry
Fair. Meanwhile, I'm parked in my virtual office. so while we don't talk about virtual offices in this way, we do talk a lot about remote work and how to work remotely well. And we do that with our Long Distance Leadership series, which you can learn more about at Kevin Eikenberry dot com forward slash LDLS. And thank you so much for listening to the long distance work life for shownotes transcripts and other resources.

00;19;19;09 - 00;19;39;11
Marisa Eikenberry
Make sure to visit long distance work dot com if you haven't yet, subscribe to the podcast so you won't miss any future episodes while you're there. Be sure to like and review. This helps us know what you love about our show and feel free to contact us via email or LinkedIn with the links in our show notes. Let us know you listen to this episode or suggest a topic for Wayne and I to tackle in a future episode.

00;19;39;14 - 00;19;44;16
Marisa Eikenberry
And if you have more things like this for me to test, let me know. Thank you for joining us.

00;19;44;23 - 00;19;46;25
Wayne Turmel
Guinea pig at the Kevin Eikenberry Group.

00;19;47;02 - 00;19;58;03
Marisa Eikenberry
I mean, I am nothing if not an eager beaver like I. But thank you so much, listeners, for joining us. And as we like to say, don't let the weasels get you down.


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
02:40 Exploring SoWork
06:05 Customization and Interaction
09:29 Hybrid Work Integration
16:07 Cultural Touches and Virtual Celebrations
18:36 Conclusion

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Weasel-Proofing Your Work: Navigating Digital Transformation in a Remote World with Jay Goldman

Wayne Turmel dives into the intricacies of digital transformation in remote and hybrid work environments. Joined by Jay Goldman from Sensei Labs, co-author of "The Decoded Company," they explore how companies can embrace change, optimize operational excellence, and tackle the challenges of digital adoption. Listen in for an enlightening conversation about leveraging technology, managing change, and enhancing team collaboration in a virtual workspace.

Key Takeaways

1. Embrace a mindset of constant transformation: Understand that digital transformation is not a one-time project but an ongoing process.
2. Develop digital proprioception: Familiarize yourself with new tools and data to navigate digital environments more effectively.
3. Start small with transformation initiatives: Focus on achievable goals within your team before tackling larger-scale transformations.

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00;00;07;26 - 00;00;36;19
Wayne Turmel
Hello, everybody. Greetings. Welcome once again to the Long Distance Work Life podcast, where we try to help you thrive, survive, generally make sense, and keep the weasels at bay in this crazy world of remote and hybrid work. My name is Wayne Turmel. I am very excited to be with you. Marisa is not here, alas. But don't go away, because we have a really, really excellent, very smart guest.

00;00;36;19 - 00;00;59;24
Wayne Turmel
And we're going to be talking about digital tram transformation inside companies and what that means and why you care as remote or hybrid worker. And so to do all that I bring into the room, Jay Goldman Jay's with Sensei Labs up in Toronto and he is the coauthor of The Decoded Company. Jay. How are you?

00;00;59;26 - 00;01;01;21
Jay Goldman
I'm great. How are you in?

00;01;01;24 - 00;01;07;26
Wayne Turmel
I I'm not claiming greatness, but I am just dandy. Thank you so much.

00;01;08;03 - 00;01;08;24
Jay Goldman
No weasels.

00;01;08;26 - 00;01;20;02
Wayne Turmel
You know, the weasels are firmly at bay today. So full question for you, man. The decoded company. Let's start there. What the heck are we talking about?

00;01;20;04 - 00;01;45;19
Jay Goldman
Code A company is a book that I wrote with three coauthors. It is almost at its 10th anniversary, which is a pretty amazing thing. It was our attempt to answer some questions both about what we were building at Click Health at the time, which is now in while it was founded in 1997. So, you know, it's quite a mature business at this point and has grown significantly.

00;01;45;19 - 00;02;06;02
Jay Goldman
Ten offices around the world, 1500 plus people, a few hundred million a year in revenue. So it's grown to be a pretty sizable business. And cricket click is really a pretty amazing growth engine. It has, for most of its history, sustained 30 to 40% year over year growth, and that is harder and harder thing to do as the numbers get bigger.

00;02;06;04 - 00;02;24;06
Jay Goldman
And so we would get asked a lot about how were we able to continue to sustain that kind of growth. It's pretty easy when you're a small company. It's much harder as you scale. And so we wanted to tell the story of how we were doing that, using a combination of technology and data to build a talent centric workplace.

00;02;24;08 - 00;02;51;08
Jay Goldman
And so we set out to tell that story. The book was written by myself, Lior Segal and Aaron Goldstein, who are two of clicks co-founders and a friend of mine. Roth Our Fish Roth is a world renowned expert on digital anthropology and on understanding how people use tools. At the time, she was working with the World Economic Forum in Switzerland, understanding the way that organizations were approaching digital tools.

00;02;51;08 - 00;03;02;03
Jay Goldman
And so she joined us to write the book and do a lot of research into companies other than click and how they had similar adventures with data and with talent.

00;03;02;06 - 00;03;33;05
Wayne Turmel
Now, so you I'm I'm going to stop there because you said something that is worth noting and this is where data and process and all this stuff come together. Right? A lot of organizations gather data or think they gather data. A lot of people, myself included, worry less about artificial intelligence and more about natural stupidity because all this data comes in contact with human beings at some point.

00;03;33;05 - 00;03;35;07
Wayne Turmel
And that's where things get messy, right?

00;03;35;09 - 00;04;06;19
Jay Goldman
Absolutely. And in in ways that we're not very good at predicting. And that's part of the problem. So with all kinds of mental biases, we might look at a training set of data and say, this seems like a complete set of data to me, and then train some AI on how to make use of that data and not identify the gaps in the training set that are now going to lead to carrying that same bias forward into the AI, which can have very serious consequences.

00;04;06;22 - 00;04;28;03
Jay Goldman
We are past the point here of AI might not generate the right image and into air, might not make the right funding decision on someone's mortgage application or make the right treatment decision in a health care context. Because the training set of data was incomplete in a way that the people who trained it didn't notice was missing from that data.

00;04;28;05 - 00;04;31;25
Jay Goldman
So we're getting into the potential for some scary situations.

00;04;31;27 - 00;04;57;09
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, and whether it's AI or data, the point is that what is going to make remote work work is people need access to information and they need access to the ability to make decisions and they need to be able to communicate with each other. Having the same baseline reality. And this is where I really want to talk to you about how organizations do this or not.

00;04;57;09 - 00;05;08;08
Wayne Turmel
This idea of digital transformation, taking what's been walking around in people's heads and kind of soaked into the paint of the office and turning it into something usable?

00;05;08;10 - 00;05;34;27
Jay Goldman
Yeah, Digital transformation is an interesting term because before the pandemic it was emerging well, emerging as a term, but in a lot of cases was not transformation. It was more so that I.T. departments and and PMOS had kind of figured out if I had a project that I've been trying to get funding for for a long time and I couldn't get funding for it, if I call it a transformation, I can get funding now.

00;05;35;00 - 00;05;58;24
Jay Goldman
And so that's not really transformative, could be digital. So in some cases that was things like we really need to migrate to a new ERP version and no one will fund this project, but if I call it a transformation, we'll get funding and now we can migrate to the new ERP version. And there's nothing transformative about that. And it was often viewed as sort of one time fixed duration project.

00;05;58;24 - 00;06;20;07
Jay Goldman
So we're going to start our ERP migration or whatever it is. It's going to take us ideally a year, probably two or three years, and then we'll be done. And then our transformation is finished and we take issue with that idea. That transformation is a one time project because you will potentially be transformed on the other side if it's a real transformation.

00;06;20;09 - 00;06;47;08
Jay Goldman
But if that project really does take you three years, everything around you will have changed as well. And so the real goal here ultimately and the term that is starting to emerge more often is operational excellence, which is we are going to go from a state of transformation to a state of constant transformation where we acknowledge that really to to execute operationally at the highest standard of excellence.

00;06;47;10 - 00;07;06;23
Jay Goldman
We have to be in that sort of constant transformation state in a kind of change is the only constant mentality and in a posture of agility that allows us to continuously take in those new market conditions, those new signals, those new other things, and be able to adapt to them and make those changes.

00;07;06;28 - 00;07;33;02
Wayne Turmel
So take me back a little bit. What is it that we're transforming? I mean, we have offices, we have people in them, we have remote employees. They're out there doing stuff. What are we transforming before we get to what we're forming? Do what is it that needs to be transformed in order for this new kind of work to take place and be excellent and all of those things?

00;07;33;06 - 00;07;55;09
Jay Goldman
The word transformation gets thrown around a lot to mean different kinds of programs. So let's first start off with what are we not talking about in this context of sort of work life? So we're not talking about a transformation at a cost transformation level. So this isn't an exercise in reducing cost of production or cost of goods delivered.

00;07;55;12 - 00;08;24;13
Jay Goldman
So we're not talking about sort of the procurement finance transformation piece here, a very valid type of transformation, but less sort of the topic at hand here. We also work with our customers and our partners on lots of transformative programs that are sort of large business processes that have happened, something like a post-merger integration on a M&A transaction is a good example of a very transformative program, but not the kind of transformation that we're talking about here.

00;08;24;16 - 00;08;47;21
Jay Goldman
Digital transformation, maybe this sort of shift. Often it is internal. So if we think about what really happened during the pandemic from a way we work perspective, we created forcing functions that we all collectively had no choice about at all. Everyone had to go home and work from home. And so it forced us to make probably a decade of technology adoption in a six month period.

00;08;47;21 - 00;09;09;22
Jay Goldman
We had no choice. We had to now all work from home and we had to figure out ways to do it. We saw new platforms emerge. We saw new ways of working emerge, and we saw rapid adoption because there was no option, which is kind of a forced digital transformation in a way. So that I would say very much in that sort of long distance work life balance question fits into that scope of that sort of transformation.

00;09;09;23 - 00;09;23;01
Jay Goldman
I had the opportunity to speak at an event about a week ago and we were talking about the four day workweek, which is something that we've adopted at Sun Labs, which is a very interesting topic. It's kind of a separate topic of happy to get into it if you'd like.

00;09;23;08 - 00;09;29;01
Wayne Turmel
But no, not a rabbit hole. We're going to go down a deep, very deep and very full of rabbits.

00;09;29;01 - 00;09;54;24
Jay Goldman
It is very happy rabbits, though, as it turns out. So and no weasels at all. So happy to talk about that at some point. But our our session at this event was about 40 week. But the broader event was all about the changing world of work and hybrid and remote and how we're adapting to those things. And the most consistent message from all of the speakers who were there was we all go to a tool mentality when this topic comes up.

00;09;54;27 - 00;10;19;05
Jay Goldman
So we start thinking about digital transformation. How do we enable our hybrid work teams to connect with each other, to collaborate, share files, video meetings, that kind of thing. And the reality is 80 to 90% of this is a change management question. It's not a tool question. The problem is the change management part is hard. It's the soft, squishy bits that relate to humans and emotion and fear of change.

00;10;19;08 - 00;10;41;04
Jay Goldman
And because it's those parts, we tend towards turning this into a tool conversation because it's much easier to make a tool based decision. Should we deploy teams or use Zoom or should we collaborate on SharePoint or Google Drive or whatever tooling decision we're making in there, Those feel more manageable, easier to assess. There's good vendor reviews out there.

00;10;41;08 - 00;10;58;21
Jay Goldman
You can make up very pragmatic buying decision about those things, but if you don't think about the change management impact when you deploy them, you're going to result in no adoption and a very turbulent time for your team members. Really, 80 to 90% of that effort should be in the change management impact.

00;10;58;24 - 00;11;15;00
Wayne Turmel
As a CEO, I want to run a theory by you right, because you're both in the space and you go to work every day leading your company. I have this theory that once you get past a certain basic set of tools, it really doesn't matter which one you use.

00;11;15;03 - 00;11;16;07
Jay Goldman
Well, I think that you're.

00;11;16;07 - 00;11;27;01
Wayne Turmel
Either going but use it, use it correctly, you know, have the right mindset and use it, or you're not. And if you're not, it doesn't matter which one you have.

00;11;27;03 - 00;12;00;16
Jay Goldman
Right? This has always been true for almost any form of tooling that exists. I think back to this sort of world of productivity. And it's so easy to fall into this trap of if I just figure out the right personal productivity system, I will unlock this state of bliss in which I am eternally productive. And the truth is, you will spend a good third of your time looking at productivity systems or not being productive, because the truth is it doesn't matter.

00;12;00;17 - 00;12;22;12
Jay Goldman
You find the one that works the best for you, whatever that thing is, whether it's GTD or whether it's, you know, some other system. And as long as you stick with the system, you'll get the output from it. It really the tool itself doesn't actually matter. And so that's absolutely true here from how we think about enabling remote work and hybrid work, there is a basic set of tools.

00;12;22;14 - 00;12;43;14
Jay Goldman
Some percentage of your organization will become power users of those tools. The vast majority of the people who work in your organization will not they are just not minded in that direction in terms of figuring out all of the intricate details of how something works and how to get the best value out of it, and they will probably use it wrong.

00;12;43;20 - 00;13;04;13
Jay Goldman
And that's just the reality of deploying tools. We find we're a microsoft based organization, so SharePoint and OneDrive and teams and that kind of thing, and I have yet to have anybody explain to me the difference between SharePoint and OneDrive in a way that makes any actual sense in terms of how I should use these and where I should put the file.

00;13;04;20 - 00;13;19;15
Jay Goldman
How our organization only operates out of our shared SharePoint volumes and the other half only operates out of their OneDrive. So all of the files are stored in their OneDrive and shared from there. No one will ever make this make any amount of sense outside of Microsoft. It doesn't matter.

00;13;19;17 - 00;13;45;01
Wayne Turmel
Now in terms of making sense in your book, in your and in the speaking that you and your coauthors do. I came across a concept that I love because we're talking about digital transformation. And it makes sense that in terms of work, you need information when you need it, you need to know where to get it. You need to be able to create context by it, and everybody has to share the same information.

00;13;45;03 - 00;14;08;25
Wayne Turmel
So all of that makes perfect sense. But you and your team talk about a concept called proprioception, which is from kinesiology. It has to do with our bodies. Can you explain how this fits into that idea? Because I thought this was the singular, coolest, most unique thing about what you guys are talking about.

00;14;08;27 - 00;14;26;24
Jay Goldman
Proprioception is your own sense of where your limbs are in relation to your body. So you don't need to be able to see where your hands are to know where they are. If you close your eyes, you can still reach out and touch your nose. That's proprioception. It's that awareness of where your limbs are in relation to yourself.

00;14;26;27 - 00;14;46;27
Jay Goldman
When we apply it in a digital context, we think of it as a similar level of awareness. Are you aware of the tools around you, the data that's around you, and how it relates back to what you're doing? Is it second nature in the same way as your awareness of your limbs are? Where do I need to go to find this thing and to retrieve it?

00;14;46;29 - 00;15;06;15
Jay Goldman
And that will it relate in many ways to the frequency of the thing that you do? So little kids, babies don't have great proprioception. They're new to this. They haven't spent that much time being aware of where their limbs are. They smack themselves in the face. They can't pick things up. We get that sense developed over time as we learn about those things.

00;15;06;15 - 00;15;29;03
Jay Goldman
And thankfully for humans, it develops fairly quickly because otherwise we would be quite useless much longer into our lives than we are. But if you think about how you learn a new tool, you're you're digital. Proprioception within that tool is pretty novice at the beginning. It all kind of feels like you have one hand tied behind your back, which relates obviously back to that sense of proprioception.

00;15;29;05 - 00;15;51;21
Jay Goldman
It feels like unnatural that you're using this, and depending on the type of person you are, it may remain at that level, especially if you don't have to use the tool that often. So as we deploy more and more digital tools, we create a category of users in those tools who will be perpetual novices. They know interact with the tool often enough to ever become anything close to a power user.

00;15;51;23 - 00;16;08;10
Jay Goldman
If you think about maybe a corporate reporting system, you might go in once a month and have to update a few numbers. Every time you go in there, you'll be at that novice level. Your proprioception is very low. You're learning it again every time you go back in there. So that tool will never really feel natural to you.

00;16;08;17 - 00;16;25;23
Jay Goldman
Someone else might use that tool on a daily basis. Maybe it's a member of the finance team or the PPMO. When they go in there, it feels like second nature to them. They know exactly where everything is. They know where to retrieve that from. And so they're able to go in there and be a power user where you're not able to necessarily do the same.

00;16;25;26 - 00;16;52;21
Jay Goldman
The other thing that's really relevant here is around how we develop an awareness of where things exist in that digital ecosystem. So less about a specific tool that I might go into, more about how do I get a question answered? And so I was just spending some time with one of our customers who is a vice president of transformation in a very large enterprise overseas, in this case, a whole bunch of post-merger integration projects that are coming together.

00;16;52;23 - 00;17;15;20
Jay Goldman
And he has a large team of project managers who report to him. One of the jobs as project managers have to do is on the strategic portfolio management side. So identifying business cases, putting them forward for review is this a project that we want to go ahead with? And writing those business cases is actually a very challenging thing to do because to do it properly and to get to a place where it's not garbage in, garbage out.

00;17;15;26 - 00;17;43;25
Jay Goldman
We had bad business cases, we made bad decisions, we ran that project. You need a fairly high degree of sophistication from a business modeling perspective, and you need a bunch of inputs into that. So this organization has a lot of field technicians. If you're doing a calculation about the cost of running a particular type of program, you might need to know what the hourly loaded cost is of a field technician in different regions in the U.S. in order to put a proper business case for it.

00;17;43;27 - 00;18;02;24
Jay Goldman
So one of the challenges they have is that process just takes too long. The PMS don't have that information for them to go and find. It is a really labor intensive exercise, low proprioception in terms of where that data exists in the organization, which results in shortcuts. So they end up just guessing at a number and plugging it in.

00;18;02;24 - 00;18;34;15
Jay Goldman
You make a bad decision and you can end up costing the organization millions of dollars in this case at the scale that they operate because a project gets greenlit with bad data that was in there or doesn't get greenlit and should have been. But you had the wrong numbers involved in that calculation. I think there's going to be an emerging category of tools here that are going to help with this because it is a thing that I, if you've adjusted it correctly to a low hallucination rate, because obviously you don't want to give people made up answers that are incorrect and are now going to get plugged into these.

00;18;34;18 - 00;18;35;13
Jay Goldman
But if you think about.

00;18;35;13 - 00;18;38;28
Wayne Turmel
The parable, some of us have made a career of that.

00;18;39;01 - 00;19;00;27
Jay Goldman
Sure, sure. But if we're building tools that do this, in our ideal state, we're playing into really the strengths of an AI system. So go out and take in a huge amount of data, far more than any individual person could do, internalize that data and understand the relationships between it and be able to answer questions for someone who can't go digging through all of that data.

00;19;00;29 - 00;19;23;21
Jay Goldman
So if deployed correctly in that way, and I love Microsoft's language of copilot as an assistant here, I should have a personal assistant that I can ask those questions to. They should be able to be questions about anything we do as an organization, and it should be able to either answer it or at least point me in the right direction as to who I could ask or where I can get an answer from.

00;19;23;23 - 00;19;31;02
Jay Goldman
And that to me might end up being one of the highest value categories of AI in an organization, especially in large enterprise.

00;19;31;07 - 00;19;54;10
Wayne Turmel
This is I could geek out about this for a while and we are out of time already, which is terrifying. I'm let me ask you this. If somebody isn't at your level of sophistication, which is 90% of humanity in terms of digital transformation, what are the one or two things that they absolutely have to know before they begin?

00;19;54;12 - 00;20;16;19
Jay Goldman
This is a big scary topic for people because we've turned it into a big, scary topic. But it doesn't have to be. It's the old thing about how do you eat an elephant one bite at a time, right? If you turn your transformation into a capital E enterprise level transformation, you have to create a transformation management office and hire people who are transformation leaders.

00;20;16;21 - 00;20;41;07
Jay Goldman
You can do that if it really is of that scale, but you're turning this into a much more complicated thing than it needs to be. If you are early in a transformation journey and a low level of maturity as an organization. And I would draw a clear distinction here between a traditional PMO who are very good at executing projects and a transformation team because it is really a different mentality and a different way of thinking.

00;20;41;14 - 00;21;08;08
Jay Goldman
We sometimes go back to a quote, which allegedly is an Einstein quote You can't solve today's problems with the same thinking that created them. And we think about transformation in the same way. If we were successful at executing all of the projects we needed to do and our operational excellence was high, we'd have no need for transformation. The fact that you have to run a transformation is in and of itself a failed state in the sense that things have gone wrong.

00;21;08;08 - 00;21;38;26
Jay Goldman
To get to this point, and we now have to correct for the things that have gone wrong by running a process which has to be different by definition than the processes that have come before. But if you're at a low level of maturity in doing that, don't try to do the entire thing in one shot. The best advice I can give is look for small opportunities to develop those transformation muscles by building out a small set of transformation projects that you're going to run that do have a finite time period and a real transformation outcome.

00;21;39;03 - 00;22;06;14
Jay Goldman
But it can be a really small one. You can start within your own team. What would be transformative for us as a team in increasing our operational excellence? Articulate a hypothesis that has a measurable outcome on it, and then run that as a transformation and start to build up that muscle of thinking differently, of running different practices, of measuring how you approach those things differently, and you'll start to level up that total transformation ability across those teams.

00;22;06;17 - 00;22;27;25
Wayne Turmel
Excellent. Thank you so much. I can't thank you enough. Ladies and gentlemen, You heard it. It's there's so much to talk about. And if you're trying to get your head around it, visit the transcript for this show. Long distance work dot com. We will have links to Sensei Labs and Jay's book and Jay and all that good stuff.

00;22;27;25 - 00;22;54;04
Wayne Turmel
Let this be the beginning of your journey into this. If you enjoy the show, if you have enjoyed the podcast, please, you know the drill. Like subscribe. I'm not going to get all YouTube and tell you to smash buttons, but you know the drill. We appreciate it. If you have questions, show ideas, guest ideas, pet peeves that you want us to tackle, reach out to Marisa or myself.

00;22;54;06 - 00;23;24;20
Wayne Turmel
Our emails are there on the screen. Wayne or Marisa at Kevin Eikenberry dot com. Find us on LinkedIn. We are happy to connect. And if you are looking at your team and thinking we need to fix this, a good place to start is Kevin Eikenberry and my new book, The Long Distance Team. You can visit long distance Team BBC.com and begin your journey there.

00;23;24;23 - 00;23;38;08
Wayne Turmel
Thank you so much for joining us, Marisa will be with us next week. And the world said yay. In the meantime, thank you for being with us. Check out past episodes of the show and don't let the weasels get you down.


Featured Guest

Jay Goldman

Name: Jay Goldman

About: Co-Founder and CEO of Sensei Labs, co-author of The Decoded Company


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
01:06 Understanding Digital Transformation
03:02 Data, Process, and Human Impact
04:57 Navigating Digital Transformation
13:45 Proprioception in Digital Contexts
19:31 Practical Approaches to Digital Transformation
22:27 Conclusion

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Digital Decorum: Navigating the Do’s and Don’ts of Online Meetings

Join us on the Long-Distance Worklife Podcast as we dive into the quirky and often unspoken rules of virtual meeting behaviors. This episode isn't about mute buttons or camera angles; it's about the nitty-gritty of what happens on camera - from fashion choices like donning hats to the presence of pets and snack etiquette. We explore whether sipping coffee or munching during a meeting is a faux pas or just fine. With a blend of humor and practical advice, we dissect these everyday scenarios to help you navigate the dos and don’ts of digital professionalism. Tune in for a lively discussion that promises to add a new perspective to your next online meeting!

Key Takeaways

1. Consider Your Headwear: Before joining a virtual meeting, think about the message your choice of hat or headwear sends. Is it aligned with the meeting's tone and formality?
2. Pet Policy: Decide if having your pet in view during the meeting is appropriate. Consider the nature of the meeting and if your furry friend might be a distraction or a delightful icebreaker.
3. Mindful Eating: If you need to eat during a meeting, assess the context. For formal or short meetings, it’s best to wait. In longer or casual settings, keep it unobtrusive and tidy.
4. Discreet Drinking: Having a beverage? Stick to non-alcoholic options and keep it professional. A simple mug or a water bottle is usually fine, but avoid anything that might cause distraction.
5. Background Check: Take a moment to evaluate your surroundings. Ensure your background is tidy and professional, reflecting the image you want to project in the meeting.
6. Tech Check: Before the meeting starts, test your tech! Ensure your internet is stable and familiarize yourself with the meeting platform’s features to avoid any technical hiccups.
7. Engage Actively: Plan to participate actively in the meeting. Think about points you want to raise or questions you might ask to show your engagement and interest.

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00;00;08;09 - 00;00;18;17
Marisa Eikenberry
Welcome back to Long-Distance Worklife, where we help you lead, work and thrive in remote and hybrid teams. I'm Marisa Eikenberry, a fellow remote worker. And joining me is my co-host and remote work expert, Wayne Turmel.

00;00;18;20 - 00;00;20;17
Wayne Turmel
That would be me. Hi. How are you?

00;00;20;23 - 00;00;22;07
Marisa Eikenberry
I'm great. How are you?

00;00;22;10 - 00;00;33;07
Wayne Turmel
I'm great. It feels like a million years since we have recorded one of these. So this could be fun. Or it could be a car wreck. This is the joy of recording live, right?

00;00;33;12 - 00;01;00;02
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. I was going to say, I mean, for those that are now scared, if you're first time listeners, do not shut this off, but that being said, today we're actually going to talk about acceptable meeting behaviors. So we actually got this survey sent to us by our boss, Kevin. And so it's a 2023 YouGov survey that was done of just different, acceptable or unacceptable leading behaviors.

00;01;00;02 - 00;01;04;27
Marisa Eikenberry
And they start off with just behaviors in general. And then we actually go into generational stuff.

00;01;04;29 - 00;01;25;10
Wayne Turmel
But now just to clarify, for the mere mortals out there who can't read our minds, YouGov is essentially this is a survey, internal survey of U.S. federal workers in all the branches, all the divisions, all the stuff right.

00;01;25;12 - 00;01;27;03
Marisa Eikenberry
Now, lots and lots of people.

00;01;27;05 - 00;01;27;27
Wayne Turmel
Context.

00;01;28;03 - 00;01;50;04
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, exactly. And one of the first things that they did talk about, which we've talked about before, you know, we mentioned remote work, is that while we would like to think that this is a majority of the population, the majority of the population is not remote working. But they talked about 32% of Americans participate in virtual meetings for work and 37% for like personal calls.

00;01;50;07 - 00;02;05;16
Marisa Eikenberry
So so that's where we're going with this. But Wayne, were there any that kind of stuck out to you from this first, you know, acceptable, not acceptable, graphic. And for those of you that are watching, I'm going to have this up on the screen.

00;02;05;18 - 00;02;23;23
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, I think if we look at the general numbers, we're not getting generational or granular on this, just in general. Certain things make sense, right? Having a TV on in the background, smoking, although that's interesting.

00;02;23;26 - 00;02;25;22
Marisa Eikenberry
Okay. So why is it interesting to you?

00;02;25;26 - 00;02;56;05
Wayne Turmel
Well, it says a whole lot more about where society is gone than where the meetings have gone. Because if we think about why smoking was banned in the workplace, second hand smoke being rude and blowing smoke in somebody's face, all of that good stuff. A lot of people take remote meetings in the privacy of their own home or a hotel room, wherever they happen to be.

00;02;56;08 - 00;03;01;21
Wayne Turmel
And secondhand smoke is not an issue. You cannot catch secondhand smoke.

00;03;01;23 - 00;03;03;16
Marisa Eikenberry
Right through.

00;03;03;16 - 00;03;05;03
Wayne Turmel
Zoom.

00;03;05;06 - 00;03;07;05
Marisa Eikenberry
That is true.

00;03;07;08 - 00;03;24;28
Wayne Turmel
So I think that says more about the fact that people just don't want anybody smoking at all. Whether or not it's rude on a meeting. Now, some of that is I come from the generation where I can remember people smoking in meetings.

00;03;25;00 - 00;03;32;07
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, See that? I can't remember. I was old enough to still remember smoking in restaurants and there being a section for both.

00;03;32;09 - 00;03;36;03
Wayne Turmel
And of course, I live in Las Vegas where you can still do that.

00;03;36;10 - 00;03;52;15
Marisa Eikenberry
All right. Well, and then for our audio listeners, so for smoking, they said, you know, 75% of those surveyed said it's not acceptable in any meeting, while 12% said it's acceptable in informal meetings. And five said it's, 5% said it's acceptable in any meeting.

00;03;52;17 - 00;04;27;27
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. One of the interesting things I found about this report is that there is an increasing, especially among people under older than dirt. There is an increasing gap between what it's okay to do in an informal meeting, you know teammates a teammate than in a formal meeting where you're doing a sales presentation or you have a customer on the line or whatever that works out to.

00;04;27;27 - 00;04;31;03
Wayne Turmel
I think that is interesting.

00;04;31;05 - 00;04;32;03
Marisa Eikenberry
yeah, for sure.

00;04;32;05 - 00;04;39;24
Wayne Turmel
And where you find that a lot is, is it okay to have a child or a pet in your lap?

00;04;39;26 - 00;04;41;05
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;04;41;07 - 00;04;51;25
Wayne Turmel
And interestingly, more people find it acceptable to have a pet in your lap than a kid in your lap, which in a strange way makes sense.

00;04;52;00 - 00;04;54;21
Marisa Eikenberry
It really does.

00;04;54;24 - 00;05;23;18
Wayne Turmel
But, you know, I can remember when remote work started to catch on. If you wanted to know whether or not somebody worked remotely on a regular basis or not, you'd be on a conference call and a dog would bark. And the people who worked remotely would say, say hi to Bailey for me. And the people who didn't work remotely were like, Is that a dog?

00;05;23;21 - 00;05;38;00
Wayne Turmel
Like they'd never heard a dog before? Right. And so I think that gap between formal and informal, if I'm just talking to you, you know, I don't care.

00;05;38;02 - 00;05;40;21
Marisa Eikenberry
Right, Right, Exactly. Like Max Barks. And it's fine.

00;05;40;28 - 00;05;46;26
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. Max barks Or he jumps in my lap and I hold him up and go say hi to Auntie Marisa. Right, right.

00;05;46;28 - 00;05;52;21
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Yeah. My husband drops in behind me, and I'm just like, my God, Go away.

00;05;52;23 - 00;06;00;02
Wayne Turmel
And I'm going, Hi, Parker. Right. Say hi to Uncle Ray.

00;06;00;04 - 00;06;11;20
Wayne Turmel
So I think some of those are really interesting where you start to see some gaps. Is. Is it okay to eat?

00;06;11;22 - 00;06;12;11
Marisa Eikenberry
Right? Right.

00;06;12;15 - 00;06;28;22
Wayne Turmel
Is it okay to drink? There is a percentage of humans and I'm looking for it. And I'm wondering who these evil people are. 3%. No, it's not 3%. It's. I'm looking for drinking and nonalcoholic drinks.

00;06;28;25 - 00;06;37;19
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. So 17% say it's not acceptable in any medium. 53% say it's acceptable in any meeting. And 22 say only informal meetings.

00;06;37;23 - 00;06;42;06
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. The Geneva Convention says people are allowed hydration. Right.

00;06;42;08 - 00;07;04;19
Marisa Eikenberry
Like I remember looking at this would be like, I don't think I have ever been bothered by somebody taking a drink ever. I can understand not wanting to be on a meeting and it's not a happy hour and like, they're clearly drinking a beer. Like, that's a problem. I get that. But like, I have a soda with me all the time and I drink it in meetings all the time.

00;07;04;19 - 00;07;08;04
Marisa Eikenberry
And I never thought about it being a problem until I saw that.

00;07;08;06 - 00;07;11;07
Wayne Turmel
Well, until we hold the intervention.

00;07;11;09 - 00;07;16;06
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, you know, it could be worse.

00;07;16;08 - 00;07;27;07
Wayne Turmel
So, you know, if we look at it, it's not really surprising what people think is acceptable and unacceptable. I suppose.

00;07;27;09 - 00;07;31;01
Wayne Turmel
It gets interesting around formal and informal meetings.

00;07;31;07 - 00;07;32;09
Marisa Eikenberry


00;07;32;11 - 00;08;06;19
Wayne Turmel
Right. And I have been on informal meetings. And again, everything is context, right? Right. I belong to a writer's group. We used to regularly have cocktails during our meetings. Yeah. If we're talking about it, work. I have had meetings with people overseas who, you know, are taking the meeting out of the kindness of their heart. But it's after dinner and they have a glass of wine or a beer with them as we're having it.

00;08;06;19 - 00;08;08;12
Wayne Turmel
And it doesn't bother me.

00;08;08;15 - 00;08;09;04
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;08;09;06 - 00;08;25;21
Wayne Turmel
First of all, they're the customer. What am I going to say? Okay. But also, it's an informal discussion. And I want I want a heightened level of informality because I think you communicate better that way.

00;08;25;27 - 00;08;41;11
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Yeah. I mean, I've been on some, you know, virtual happy hour stuff with sorority sorority meetings or webinars or whatever. And it's just like, yeah, like it's 9:00. If I have a cocktail, it's fine. If they have a cocktail, it's fine.

00;08;41;14 - 00;08;52;23
Wayne Turmel
Now, one of the ones which is very personal to me because and people who regularly view this don't know this, but I wear hats a lot.

00;08;52;25 - 00;08;54;22
Marisa Eikenberry
I thought about you when I saw the.

00;08;54;25 - 00;09;22;26
Wayne Turmel
Different types of hats, but you'll notice that nobody on this podcast has ever seen me wearing a hat because I differentiate between work Wayne and Wayne in the rest of my life. However, the one time I do wear a hat on a work call is because I live on the West Coast. My day starts way earlier than everybody else's.

00;09;23;03 - 00;09;52;20
Wayne Turmel
And if somebody's not necessarily a client, but if somebody on our team or somebody like that calls a meeting for 9:00 Eastern time, there is a pretty good chance I am not going to be showered and presentable. Right. And so I can throw on a shirt that's not a big deal, but all off and put on a baseball cap just so I don't look like Albert Einstein.

00;09;52;22 - 00;10;09;25
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, I thought it was interesting, too, when I was seeing that, because, you know, we had a team member that she wore hats frequently and that was just part of her style. That was just how she was. And I was never bothered by it. When I would see out, it was usually a wow, like that. That's cool hat.

00;10;09;25 - 00;10;18;29
Marisa Eikenberry
I hadn't seen or wear that one before or something like that. So I definitely found it interesting it being on this because it is an issue.

00;10;19;06 - 00;10;26;06
Wayne Turmel
Most people who wear hats do it as a cheap attempt at branding and difference. Yeah, it's just myself included.

00;10;26;13 - 00;10;27;21
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;10;27;23 - 00;10;32;06
Wayne Turmel
So that particular person that was part of her wacky.

00;10;32;09 - 00;10;32;26
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, That was her.

00;10;32;26 - 00;10;52;07
Wayne Turmel
Laid back style and it was great. One of the things that is important, if you're going to do that, though, and baseball caps are a problem for this, is they affect the lighting over your eyes and very often make it hard for people to see your eyes. And that can be a problem.

00;10;52;09 - 00;10;55;13
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. And I can totally see that right.

00;10;55;16 - 00;11;04;16
Wayne Turmel
Now where things get ugly as we look at that is generationally.

00;11;04;18 - 00;11;05;27
Marisa Eikenberry
Yes.

00;11;06;00 - 00;11;20;09
Wayne Turmel
What people find acceptable and what they don't. I used to think I was pretty cool. And and I do differentiate between formal and informal meetings.

00;11;20;11 - 00;11;21;10
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;11;21;13 - 00;11;36;12
Wayne Turmel
And since extremely formal has never been my style. I'm fairly relaxed about some things, sometimes more than I should be. And I am a child of my generation.

00;11;36;15 - 00;11;38;23
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Okay, So give us an example.

00;11;38;25 - 00;11;55;01
Wayne Turmel
I'm 62 years old, right? I'm looking at where there's a huge difference in what's acceptable and what's unacceptable. You know, walking around the room during the meeting.

00;11;55;03 - 00;11;56;17
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;11;56;19 - 00;12;19;18
Wayne Turmel
There is no reason not to do that. I'm when I'm in the conference room, I very often because my joints ache and stuff and I have the attention span of an Irish setter, so I have to burn off energy. So I'll stand and move to the back of the room. Right. Stand against the back wall or something while the meeting is going on.

00;12;19;21 - 00;12;29;17
Wayne Turmel
I tend not to do that on virtual meetings, but I think that's largely a function of my camera setup.

00;12;29;19 - 00;12;30;26
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;12;30;29 - 00;12;44;04
Wayne Turmel
I'm on camera most of the time. If it's a telephone call, I'll walk down. There are there are ruts in our carpet from where I pace and walk during a comp during a telephone call.

00;12;44;10 - 00;12;46;04
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;12;46;06 - 00;12;59;00
Wayne Turmel
But generally speaking, I'm a little more particularly if it's a camera meeting, I'm a little more traditional. Like now. I'll sit there like a good boy and do it.

00;12;59;02 - 00;13;15;04
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, I do it too. And I have been on meetings or even streams that I watch where like, people have gotten up. And I think for me the issue is less that they've gotten up. It's that their mic is set up for that. And so now they're talking, I can't hear you.

00;13;15;08 - 00;13;20;23
Wayne Turmel
You know what's worse? I just realized when I want to throttle the person.

00;13;20;25 - 00;13;21;26
Marisa Eikenberry
Okay.

00;13;21;28 - 00;13;23;29
Wayne Turmel
Not that I would.

00;13;24;01 - 00;13;25;04
Marisa Eikenberry
Because you're virtual, so you're.

00;13;25;04 - 00;14;01;15
Wayne Turmel
Actually laying hands on another human being is wrong. It's okay to want to just don't do it that way. But the big one for me and it's because I never do this, is I, I don't do face time or meetings, especially work meetings on my phone. When I'm having a conversation, a webcam conversation with they're on their phone and they're walking, and it's like being on the deck of the Titanic.

00;14;01;17 - 00;14;25;18
Marisa Eikenberry
Like, it's super distracting. Well, not only that, but, like, okay, I'm. Somebody gets motion sick, really easy. And still, I literally cannot watch people do that. Like, I know it's a thing. And we've we've had people on our own team that have done that occasionally. And I'm just like, I literally have to hide your camera because otherwise I'm a puke all over the.

00;14;25;20 - 00;14;26;14
Wayne Turmel
Yeah.

00;14;26;16 - 00;14;30;26
Marisa Eikenberry
I am surprised that that wasn't mentioned in this list.

00;14;30;28 - 00;14;40;13
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. I mean, it was I don't know, you know, the problem with surveys is they people answer the question that you ask.

00;14;40;15 - 00;14;41;18
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;14;41;20 - 00;14;59;24
Wayne Turmel
Right. Nobody says, by the way. Yeah. This drives me crazy, too. I think the biggest one and this is true of the workplace in general, which gets generational conflict is what you're wearing on your call.

00;14;59;26 - 00;15;04;10
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Yeah. So.

00;15;04;13 - 00;15;17;25
Wayne Turmel
So is it okay to wear your pajamas, you know? Do you wear what you sleep in on a zoom meeting? And, you know, I sleep naked, so the answer is no.

00;15;17;27 - 00;15;20;05
Marisa Eikenberry
Thank you.

00;15;20;07 - 00;15;23;24
Wayne Turmel
Welcome to another edition of too much information.

00;15;23;26 - 00;15;29;29
Marisa Eikenberry
Like, unplug my headphones about. Do not need to know.

00;15;30;01 - 00;15;38;24
Wayne Turmel
But. But it drives me crazy. My daughter wears pajamas. 24 seven. She goes to the grocery store in a onesie.

00;15;38;27 - 00;15;39;23
Marisa Eikenberry
No.

00;15;39;25 - 00;15;41;20
Wayne Turmel
It drives me insane.

00;15;41;22 - 00;15;43;13
Marisa Eikenberry
Well, she's about a year younger than me.

00;15;43;21 - 00;15;44;04
Wayne Turmel
Yes.

00;15;44;11 - 00;15;55;17
Marisa Eikenberry
Okay. See, I was also the weird person, and I will confess, I'm weird that I wouldn't go to college classes in pajamas, and I felt like it was very respectful or disrespectful When. Why would somebody.

00;15;55;17 - 00;16;01;22
Wayne Turmel
Go to college classes in pajamas? Why would you leave your dorm room?

00;16;01;25 - 00;16;06;02
Marisa Eikenberry
We had 8 a.m. classes and I was like the only one in jeans.

00;16;06;04 - 00;16;09;15
Wayne Turmel
I Yeah. But now you're an old soul.

00;16;09;18 - 00;16;10;06
Marisa Eikenberry
That is true.

00;16;10;08 - 00;16;20;01
Wayne Turmel
So, you know, I can appreciate that. That's. That's why I adore you. But it's not. But, Jim, is there, like, an obvious example?

00;16;20;03 - 00;16;20;25
Marisa Eikenberry
Correct.

00;16;20;27 - 00;16;21;09
Wayne Turmel
Right.

00;16;21;16 - 00;16;23;10
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;16;23;12 - 00;16;48;28
Wayne Turmel
But what do you wear on a call? And again, context matters. Right. Right. If I'm working from home and because I'm always working from home and you have a question and we have to get on a zoom or whatever, call real quick. If I'm in my gym shorts, you know, if I'm not dressed 100% professionally, it doesn't matter because it's you and me.

00;16;48;28 - 00;16;51;14
Wayne Turmel
It's going to be a five minute conversation and we're out.

00;16;51;20 - 00;16;53;12
Marisa Eikenberry
Yep.

00;16;53;15 - 00;16;56;02
Wayne Turmel
If I'm in front of a customer, a.

00;16;56;05 - 00;16;58;03
Marisa Eikenberry
Totally different ballgame.

00;16;58;06 - 00;17;03;15
Wayne Turmel
You know, from the hips up, I need to be dressed like an adult.

00;17;03;22 - 00;17;04;28
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;17;05;00 - 00;17;09;28
Wayne Turmel
I have worn a shirt, tie and cargo shorts. I have done that more than once.

00;17;10;00 - 00;17;11;06
Marisa Eikenberry
That's okay.

00;17;11;08 - 00;17;12;24
Wayne Turmel
The customer doesn't see it.

00;17;12;27 - 00;17;33;09
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah. I mean, I've occasionally done that where I've had yoga pants and, like, something really nice or there when it's really cold in my office. I have one of those like, Snuggie blanket things that, I mean, like I it's, it's Navy blue. I put on it. I look like Cookie Monster. Like it's a thing, but it's super warm.

00;17;33;12 - 00;17;46;03
Marisa Eikenberry
But you better believe if I'm sitting here and working with it on and you or Kevin or somebody else is like, Hey, we have a meeting real quick. It's Hey, can you give me a second? And I will remove that because I do have standards. Yeah.

00;17;46;03 - 00;17;57;14
Wayne Turmel
And I think that goes to a larger conversation which is worth having someday about formality or informality in the workplace.

00;17;57;16 - 00;17;58;14
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;17;58;16 - 00;18;24;17
Wayne Turmel
I was working with 45 h.r. People at a client yesterday, and we were talking about what are the things that they're dealing with and dress code and a appropriate and inappropriate clothing in the workplace has bloomed as a problem.

00;18;24;19 - 00;18;40;08
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, I've seen it in sorority meetings sometimes, too. And i'm like this is supposed to be business wear, and you have a denim skirt on. Like, we would have set them home if it was when I was in, but it was like, Well, we can't say that now.

00;18;40;10 - 00;18;51;04
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, it's interesting. I just go back to what somebody told me, just post-COVID when people were coming back and she goes, They've gone feral.

00;18;51;06 - 00;18;52;14
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;18;52;16 - 00;19;15;08
Wayne Turmel
Like there used to be because the workplace was I mean, it was largely homogenous. But even if it wasn't homogenous demographically, there were just codes and the way things were done and they were the way things have been done for 100 years. And you had work clothes and you had plain clothes. Right, Right. It's like going to school.

00;19;15;12 - 00;19;43;02
Wayne Turmel
I had school clothes and plain clothes. They weren't the same. And when we worked from home, the it wasn't just that you're home. You can wear whatever the heck you want, but the social pressure about what you wore went down. So even now, men who wear suits to the office rarely wear a tie. Yeah, like they'll wear a jacket, button down shirt.

00;19;43;02 - 00;19;43;21
Wayne Turmel
I mean, they'll look.

00;19;43;27 - 00;19;44;18
Marisa Eikenberry
They still look nice.

00;19;44;24 - 00;19;48;16
Wayne Turmel
But they're not wearing, you know, the double Windsor at their throat.

00;19;48;19 - 00;19;50;10
Marisa Eikenberry


00;19;50;13 - 00;20;14;23
Wayne Turmel
And I think that what that does and this gets back to the Spider-Man paradox, right? With great power comes great responsibility is just because you can dress a certain way or act a certain way or get away with doing something online that you can't or wouldn't do in the office doesn't mean you should.

00;20;14;25 - 00;20;20;16
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. I mean, there's still a level of respect, both for yourself and for whomever you're on the call with.

00;20;20;18 - 00;20;34;02
Wayne Turmel
And, you know, yes, you are a grown person. Yes. You can make your own choices. You know, it's the whole thing about do you get dressed in work, appropriate attire in the morning.

00;20;34;05 - 00;20;34;19
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;20;34;22 - 00;20;55;15
Wayne Turmel
Even when nobody's going to see you. Right. There is evidence psychologically that it affects how you think and how you work in your level of professionalism. And there are plenty of people who say, shut up, old man, my onesie is fine and it doesn't affect the outcome of my spreadsheet.

00;20;55;17 - 00;21;17;25
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Like, I know some people that they feel like even when they're working from home, I'm going to wear shoes because for them, like even just having, you know, whatever they're wearing, having shoes is the thing that helps them be productive. I am not one of those people. I will admit I'm barefoot right now and have a blanket on my lap, but I'm still appropriately dressed.

00;21;17;27 - 00;21;23;10
Wayne Turmel
And so senior notes. Send your notes to Wilma Flintstone here.

00;21;23;13 - 00;21;30;01
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. But like I would have been even without this podcast, because that's just I'm just a.

00;21;30;03 - 00;21;56;05
Wayne Turmel
From the house down. It's the Wild West. You could do whatever you want from the bellybutton up. You better look like you're working. A couple of things. We are way past time and we have had an inordinate amount of fun, and I think there are some important things to think about this right? Where do the generational differences? Right.

00;21;56;07 - 00;22;25;10
Wayne Turmel
If I'm going to coach somebody about their appearance or their demeanor. Am I doing it because it's a valid business reason? Am I doing it because I am an old man? Right? Right. That is a conversation worth having when it's you and I talking. The level of formality is much lower than when I'm talking to a client. And it should be right.

00;22;25;13 - 00;22;35;01
Wayne Turmel
Right. If you are inappropriately informal in a important business meeting. Right. The VP is on the call.

00;22;35;04 - 00;22;35;24
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah.

00;22;35;26 - 00;23;13;04
Wayne Turmel
Your AC DC T-shirt may not be the best choice, but again, it's incumbent on us. Yes, the rules are changing. Yes, they are more flexible than they ever were. And what is the minimum professional standard in your industry, on your team, in your organization? Absolutely. And those are the things we need to think about. Look at me wrapping all this up, trying real hard to sound like we've had a professional discussion instead of venting, which we've largely been discussed.

00;23;13;07 - 00;23;32;16
Marisa Eikenberry
And that being said, if you would like to know how to be more professional in your meetings and remote work, you can check out our long distance leadership series at Kevin Ikenberry, dot com slash LDL s. Thank you for listening to the long work life for shownotes transcripts and other resources. Make sure to visit long distance work dot com.

00;23;32;18 - 00;23;51;14
Marisa Eikenberry
If you haven't yet, subscribe to the podcast so you won't miss any future episodes. And while you're there, be sure to like in review. This helps us know what you love about our show. Feel free to contact us via email or LinkedIn with the links in our show notes and let us know you listen to this episode or even suggest topic for Wayne and I to tackle any future episodes we would love.

00;23;51;18 - 00;24;01;28
Wayne Turmel
And tell us. Tell us your meeting. Yes. Are we right? Are we wrong? Am I a grungy, grumpy old man yelling at clouds, or do I have a point?

00;24;02;01 - 00;24;06;12
Marisa Eikenberry
Am I just an old soul? Don't know how to act at 32 inches your shoes.

00;24;06;13 - 00;24;07;28
Wayne Turmel
Darn it.

00;24;08;00 - 00;24;16;26
Marisa Eikenberry
I might slip. Or sometimes when my feet are cool, thick you for joining us, everybody. And as Wayne likes to say, don't let the weasels get you down.


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
01:30 Hat Etiquette
04:20 Pets in the Picture
07:15 Eating on Camera
10:05 Drinking Beverages
13:50 Background and Environment
17:40 Technical Preparedness
19:45 Generational Differences
21:30 Meeting Participation
24:50 Conclusion

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Deciphering the Dynamics of Hybrid Work with Henry O’Loughlin

Wayne Turmel engages with Henry O'Loughlin from Buildremote, delving into the nuanced world of remote and hybrid work. Henry, with his rich experience in managing a fully remote marketing agency, brings to the table a treasure trove of learnings and reflections on what it really takes to operate successfully in a remote setup. From redefining communication norms on Slack to addressing the misconceptions about remote work, this episode is a deep dive into the transformational journey of workplace dynamics. The discussion pivots around the intriguing concept of 'peak hybrid' and explores the trajectory of remote work in the future, including its impact on talent pool expansion and office space utilization. 

Key Takeaways

1. Embrace the Learning Curve in Remote Work: Reflect on your own remote work practices and be open to evolving them through trial and error, just as Henry did with his marketing agency.
2. Evaluate Your Communication Tools: Assess how your team uses communication tools like Slack. Set clear guidelines to ensure these tools support, rather than dictate, your work culture.
3. Consider the Benefits of a Fully Remote Team: Think about expanding your team beyond geographic boundaries to tap into a wider talent pool, enhancing diversity and skill availability.
4. Reevaluate Your Need for Physical Office Space: If you're in a leadership position, consider the necessity and efficiency of your current office space in light of increased remote work trends.
5. Plan for a Future with More Remote Work: Strategize for a work environment where remote work might become the norm. Consider how this shift could affect your business model, team dynamics, and operational strategies.
6. Understand the Hybrid Work Model as a Transitional Phase: Recognize that the current hybrid work model may be a stepping stone towards more flexible work arrangements. Use this understanding to guide your long-term planning and policy development.
7. Stay Informed on Evolving Work Trends: Regularly update yourself on trends and best practices in remote and hybrid work to ensure your strategies remain relevant and effective.

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00;00;08;02 - 00;00;39;29
Wayne Turmel
Greetings, everybody. Welcome to the Long-Distance Work Life Podcast. My name is Wayne Trammell. I am your host today. We are without Marissa, but that means we have another cool guest joining us and we will try to stir the pot a little bit with Henry O'Loughlin in just a moment. This is the podcast. For those of us trying to thrive, survive, generally make sense and keep the weasels at bay in the world of remote and hybrid work.

00;00;40;02 - 00;00;48;20
Wayne Turmel
Welcome. Welcome. I am going to bring in our guests now Henry O'Loughlin is with Build Remote. Hey, Henry, How are you?

00;00;48;22 - 00;00;50;24
Henry O'Loughlin
I'm doing great. Thanks for having me, Wayne.

00;00;50;26 - 00;01;09;20
Wayne Turmel
Well, thank you, man. We are going to have, I suspect, a very fun discussion about whether or not we have, in fact, reached peak hybrid. And I'm going to leave that there as a teaser for the audience. While you tell us a little bit about you and build a remote. Yeah.

00;01;09;20 - 00;01;28;12
Henry O'Loughlin
So I ran a fully remote marketing agency for six years. I worked there for eight years. So this is going back way before the pandemic. And we in my mind, we tried something and then always it was a mistake. And then we'd try something new and it was like that second or third try was the right way to do it.

00;01;28;13 - 00;01;52;22
Henry O'Loughlin
So we learned a lot about how to run a remote company for years before 2020. 2020 came around and I saw a lot of bad advice about how to operate remotely, how to work from home. So I started building remote just as a way to talk about that. And now that's my full time work and company. And what I do is I help small businesses operate remotely.

00;01;52;24 - 00;02;18;06
Wayne Turmel
I want to talk before we get into the subject that we supposedly are talking about. I want to talk a little bit about the early days, because you said something very unashamedly that most people don't want to cop to, which is this notion of we're going to change the way we do business and we're absolutely going to get it right the first time and everything everybody tells us is going to work.

00;02;18;08 - 00;02;25;10
Wayne Turmel
And you said that didn't happen. Give us tell us where you bumped your nose so we don't feel so bad.

00;02;25;12 - 00;02;50;17
Henry O'Loughlin
Yeah, I think the you're not physically together. So if you come from an office and everyone is used to working that way, then you go to remote. You sort of want to. The instinct is to build back the way of working in an office, but over the internet. So your instinct is to meet more, to be more available online, on Slack or email, to show that you're there at your desk working.

00;02;50;19 - 00;03;11;08
Henry O'Loughlin
So you want to respond to emails quickly. You want to respond to Slack quickly, you want to have more one on ones. You want to have more stand up meetings. And we did all of that stuff as well. And all of that actually is sort of the opposite of what you want to do remotely in my mind. You don't want to fill a day with Zoom meetings.

00;03;11;08 - 00;03;20;14
Henry O'Loughlin
That's miserable. I'm a huge advocate for remote work. Sitting on Zoom for six out of eight or 9 hours a day is not fulfilling.

00;03;20;16 - 00;03;41;27
Wayne Turmel
Okay, so let me stop you There, because this is a really it's a vital point. And I agree with you in most ways, because the problems come when we're trying to replicate the office environment and we're not. Right. But what did you learn, given that you had to onboard people and hire people and do all the stuff the companies have to do right.

00;03;42;00 - 00;03;51;08
Wayne Turmel
What were one or two key things that you went, this isn't what we thought it was going to be, either for good or evil.

00;03;51;08 - 00;04;14;06
Henry O'Loughlin
One big one would be Slack. So we implemented that without any rules or guidelines in the way. The way I talk about Slack is that it will set your culture for you if you don't put guidelines on it and you may not like the culture. And that's what we went through. So. So for the example of Slack, it can turn into like a digital punch clock, which is not what we were looking for at all.

00;04;14;06 - 00;04;39;16
Henry O'Loughlin
We don't care at the time we're running this business. When people are online, we just care about them doing their jobs well and providing value to the company through their jobs. If that means they're not online from 1 to 2 p.m., that's fine. But Slack. Basically you have the green, yellow, red buttons. People want to be green just innately to show that they're there.

00;04;39;18 - 00;05;05;24
Henry O'Loughlin
They want to respond and quickly to show that they're there, which in my mind that switches the priority from important work or deep work to shallow, urgent work. And so if someone's just receiving Slack messages and responding, they're perceived as super helpful and a great teammate, whereas really they're just interrupting their their more important work throughout the day.

00;05;05;27 - 00;05;26;05
Henry O'Loughlin
So we had to like reverse our communication expectations on Slack rather than saying we started out like, That's great. Everyone comes on and says hello. Then we had to switch it to, You can do that if you'd like, but you don't have to. And then if somebody is online and responding quickly, it would be we actually encourage you to get off of Slack.

00;05;26;07 - 00;05;35;02
Henry O'Loughlin
It's a distraction. So we had to basically still use Slack, but switched the communication expectations completely. That's the one that stands out the most in my mind.

00;05;35;06 - 00;05;57;22
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. And, you know, for the record and, you know, in case anybody's a shareholder, we're not saying that Slack is inherently evil and don't use it. It's like everything else. It's it's Are you conscious and intentional about how you're using it and how you use it to form the culture, not the other way around. I love the way you said that.

00;05;57;25 - 00;06;21;28
Wayne Turmel
So let's get to the topic that we're discussing today, which the title is intentionally. I don't want to use the word, but the word disturbing is in the sentence. You know, you are stirring things up a bit when you say we have reached peak hybrid. There is a lot of discussion about this. Why are we at peak hybrid and why?

00;06;21;28 - 00;06;27;06
Wayne Turmel
Or is this kind of as much as it's going to get and be? Yeah.

00;06;27;09 - 00;06;47;09
Henry O'Loughlin
First, I probably want to start defining hybrid because that could mean a ton of different things. So when I say that, I mean in the current form or current definition of hybrid work, which in my mind is people are near the most people are near an office, they go in two or three days a week and they work from home two or three days a week.

00;06;47;11 - 00;06;55;20
Henry O'Loughlin
That's sort of how I would define hybrid work right now. That's what I'm saying has peaked out. That will only decline from here.

00;06;55;22 - 00;07;20;28
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, And and that makes sense because what you're talking about is not a conscious way of working. It's we've reached some sort of agreement where we'll bring people into the office as much as we can without them quitting and yeah, and give people the illusion of control over their time while still insisting they come into the office. And that is what a lot of people are calling hybrid.

00;07;21;04 - 00;07;23;14
Wayne Turmel
But it's not really hybrid work.

00;07;23;17 - 00;07;28;07
Henry O'Loughlin
Yeah, well, how would you define hybrid work when how?

00;07;28;15 - 00;07;55;20
Wayne Turmel
man, this isn't supposed to be my interview. I think hybrid work does have components of you meet and get together on occasion. And what's different is right now we're kind of who works where is kind of where hybrid sits. And I think true hybrid also includes the factor of time, which is who does what, where, but also when it happens.

00;07;55;22 - 00;08;04;17
Wayne Turmel
And that creates the flexibility and a different mindset to me. Yeah, you're the one who started this with the title, You tell me.

00;08;04;20 - 00;08;24;06
Henry O'Loughlin
Yeah. Yeah. So I mean, I would just say it's currently three days in the office, two days at home. Everyone essentially is supposed to live near an office and you work partly remotely, partly in the office that that's the one that is peaking. And I can kind of take you through my thoughts on why. But yeah, please.

00;08;24;08 - 00;08;25;14
Wayne Turmel
If there are three.

00;08;25;14 - 00;08;48;20
Henry O'Loughlin
Basic work models, remote hybrid or office based hybrid to me has the the most issues of all of them. One is that it's it's essentially remote but with an office so it's it's not quite its own model it because everything has to have a digital component since some people might be there on a monday and some might not.

00;08;48;20 - 00;09;18;24
Henry O'Loughlin
So you're essentially remote anyhow. You're just calling it something different. That's that's the first. The second problem is it's the hardest on communication, internal communication to me, because if everyone's remote, you know how to communicate. It's zoom for meetings, it's slack for quick messages, it's Gmail for for longer messages. If you have if you're hybrid, you don't know if the meeting should be in person, should be on Slack or should be a combination, which is the hardest.

00;09;18;24 - 00;09;38;27
Henry O'Loughlin
You don't know if decisions should be made over a project management board on the Internet or they should be made in a boardroom, then recorded somehow and moved to the Internet. Three You're inherently running two systems at once, which is hard. So you're you're having to operate both ways and you better be good at both or neither works.

00;09;38;29 - 00;10;03;11
Henry O'Loughlin
The biggest one of all to me is it it reduces your talent pool greatly versus remote work. That's probably the biggest thing about going fully remote is your talent pool switches from We can hire within a 50 mile radius of our city that's office to we can hire anywhere in the country or the world. That's that's the huge promise of remote work.

00;10;03;17 - 00;10;34;20
Henry O'Loughlin
When you say you're hybrid, you still want to hire near an office, but you don't want to use the office as much, so you're greatly reducing your talent pool essentially. Then finally, I think I'd say is that another way to define hybrid work in its current state is unused office space. So if people come in three days a week, that means you're 40% unused office space, two days a week, 60% unused office space, and that just companies don't sit on expenses.

00;10;34;20 - 00;10;47;24
Henry O'Loughlin
They don't need long term to compete. You have to essentially drive out the waste of your operations, and that will inherently push people to reduce office space, pushing them closer to remote.

00;10;47;26 - 00;11;16;18
Wayne Turmel
That's so I mean, your points are all really well taken. I don't disagree at the core with any of them. So why do you think we've settled on hybrid right now? Is it purely a matter of we don't know what the alternatives look like? Is it purely this is a gateway drug to more remote work? Yeah. What what's going on?

00;11;16;21 - 00;11;31;09
Wayne Turmel
That we are in this hybrid state? Because I think there is particularly on the part of business owners and and bosses, just a big sense of we have no freaking idea what's going on.

00;11;31;11 - 00;11;54;17
Henry O'Loughlin
That's what it seems like to me too. Yeah. So I think the reason is it's been like one great concession. If you were to paint with broad brushes, most of the people want to work remotely. Most of the time, and most of the managers that have some sort of sunk cost into office space want people to come in and we sort of end up in the middle.

00;11;54;20 - 00;12;00;06
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, most of what we call hybrid work is in fact just kind of an uneasy compromise.

00;12;00;06 - 00;12;02;02
Henry O'Loughlin
That compromise. There you go.

00;12;02;05 - 00;12;31;22
Wayne Turmel
That is true. Yeah. Is it true that everybody wants to work remotely? I mean, right now I think the number is about 25% Do it. I know plenty of people who never mind whether the bosses forget the bosses for a moment. There's the individual workers. Not everybody wants to work from home. I think that's an assumption that the remote work kind of advocates zealots like to throw out there.

00;12;31;25 - 00;12;33;18
Wayne Turmel
How true is that?

00;12;33;21 - 00;12;53;09
Henry O'Loughlin
No, it's not true. So I was just painting with a broad brush, trying to say the surveys that say like 65% or 80% would like to work from home. Part of the time or, you know, those like big numbers, which most of the people most of the time. No, not everyone wants to work right now. Everyone wants to work from home all the time.

00;12;53;09 - 00;13;17;07
Henry O'Loughlin
That's absolutely true. And there's a lot about it. But it could depend on your phase of life. Right. So I've said it before where I moved to a new city when I was 23, and I was glad I worked in an office with 600 people. I made friends, I met my wife. It was great, right? I wouldn't want to work from home 23 with three roommates sitting in my bedroom the whole day.

00;13;17;07 - 00;13;41;02
Henry O'Loughlin
That's that doesn't sound fun. So there's absolutely scenarios where remote workers or working from home or specifically isn't right for people, but generally with like the compromise of two or three days a week in the office, you can kind of see that most of the people would like either the flexibility or the option to just not be coming in the office all five days anymore.

00;13;41;03 - 00;13;43;14
Henry O'Loughlin
That seems to summarize it pretty well.

00;13;43;17 - 00;14;12;19
Wayne Turmel
I think the word that and and this is why I added the concept of time, but that's Wayne's definition of it. I think it's the flexibility. Yeah, that makes hybrid kind of the middle option. Yeah, I've talked to me if I'm the business owner now, I mean, you're the business owner. I probably have very real concerns about hiring people who aren't in the office all the time.

00;14;12;25 - 00;14;32;01
Wayne Turmel
Some of them are, you know, plantation mentality. You got to keep an eye on them or they'll slack off. Some of it is legitimately. That's how I grew up. That's how I learned business was done. I can't imagine it being any other way. How do you have conversations with business owners about this?

00;14;32;03 - 00;14;49;24
Henry O'Loughlin
Yeah, well, I would I would want to add one thing that I think is a key point that I don't I don't think a lot of people talk about. So you have two, two ways of operating in the office work and remote work. And let's say your company and you do operate a business. Your company was fully in the office.

00;14;49;26 - 00;14;50;10
Wayne Turmel
You've.

00;14;50;12 - 00;15;18;26
Henry O'Loughlin
Built all of your processes, systems, communication around physically being together, and you're good at that system. 2020 comes around and you are forced to switch to remote work. You haven't selected it proactively, right? And you're bad at that system. So you're you're good in the office and you're bad at remote. So essentially there's a big conflation going on that the office is good and remote is bad.

00;15;18;26 - 00;15;40;26
Henry O'Loughlin
But really it's I'm good at the office and I'm bad at remote. And that's a huge distinction that we're not talking about right now, is that you're bad at the new system and you're good at the old system. So your inherent bias would be to go back to what you're good at. So I understand that completely. And it doesn't mean remote work can't be done for a company.

00;15;40;26 - 00;15;46;10
Henry O'Loughlin
It just means that your skills have been and processes have been developed for the office.

00;15;46;12 - 00;16;01;20
Wayne Turmel
So what do we need to learn or unlearn if that's not going to be the sticking point? Right. If we're going to make conscious decisions about where we work and when we work, how we work, what do we need to learn or unlearn that makes us currently bad at remote?

00;16;01;23 - 00;16;05;05
Henry O'Loughlin
Yeah, it's a it's a great question. I think the.

00;16;05;07 - 00;16;06;06
Wayne Turmel
Big, big.

00;16;06;06 - 00;16;43;28
Henry O'Loughlin
Difference is that is that part you said if I'm the biggest judge of people's performance is just like seeing they're seeing them, they're at their desk for a certain amount of time and having quick conversations that seem to move something forward. All that has to go away with the remote. Unfortunately, it the way you operate your company remotely, if it's if it's going well in my mind, is that you understand what each role is supposed to bring in value and what sort of output it's supposed to do, and you sort of get out of the way and the people need to do the work and do the work well.

00;16;43;28 - 00;17;04;04
Henry O'Loughlin
Companies that are switching from the office to remote need to think about understanding what value each role needs to bring a lot more than just watching people do the work that that's the big shift. And it's it's really hard. It took us years to make that shift.

00;17;04;08 - 00;17;29;02
Wayne Turmel
Okay. So we're nearing the end of our time and the premise here is that right now hybrid work is kind of the catch all, and it's where everybody's settled while we figure out what we want to be when we grow up. You what do you think ultimately the balance is going to be between fully remote work and fully co-located?

00;17;29;06 - 00;17;52;02
Henry O'Loughlin
I think for all desk jobs, knowledge workers, whatever you want. Anyone who can work this way, I think most of them will be most remote, all or most of the time. At some point, I think. I think the niche will become 50 to 200 people all in one city working on the same project from one office. I think.

00;17;52;02 - 00;18;20;02
Henry O'Loughlin
I think it basically flips from where it was in 2019. Let's say. And I think in that transition you're going to see this massive commercial real estate crash because the value of real of office space is so much less than we thought it was. I think what happens is that price plummets, leases run off, companies reduce space or get rid of space altogether.

00;18;20;04 - 00;18;43;10
Henry O'Loughlin
The cost to lease these split offices goes way down and companies start to scoop it up again as a place for people to work outside of the home. But it's not their operating model anymore. It's essentially like a co-working space for your people in certain cities. That's that's where I think all of this is is going.

00;18;43;12 - 00;19;17;14
Wayne Turmel
There is a three bear conversation I would love to have, though. I'm sure active on cities, on right, countries on all kinds of things. I don't think we've figured this out yet. But your premise that what we're calling hybrid, which may or may not really be hybrid, but what we're calling hybrid is really a placeholder until we figure all this out and I don't really think you're wrong on that, which makes lousy podcasting, but lovely conversation.

00;19;17;16 - 00;19;40;13
Wayne Turmel
So thank you so much. Henry LOFLAND We build remote. Thank you for being with us. For those of you who are listening, you know how podcasts work. If you enjoyed this conversation and I can't believe you didn't, please like and subscribe. Tell your friends word of mouth matters unless you didn't like it. In which case it's just a little secret.

00;19;40;15 - 00;20;12;29
Wayne Turmel
You can find links to Henry's company. You can find links to Henry, all kinds of good stuff on our website. Long distance work life dot com. You can find transcripts and recordings of past episodes. And if you are confused about how do we lead in this new world of remote and hybrid and whatever the heck you want to call it, I urge you to take a look at our Long Distance Leadership series.

00;20;13;02 - 00;20;41;12
Wayne Turmel
It's available for organizations, but it's also available as open enrollment. Anybody from anywhere can join these live virtual instructor led training sessions. The link is below my face. It's also on the website and we urge you to join us. Thank you so much, Henry. Thanks for being with us. Man. I really enjoyed this conversation and I trust our listeners did too.

00;20;41;15 - 00;20;43;09
Wayne Turmel
Got to do it again sometime.

00;20;43;11 - 00;20;45;17
Henry O'Loughlin
Sounds good. Thanks a lot, Wayne.

00;20;45;20 - 00;21;00;02
Wayne Turmel
And remember, every week we have new episodes. Marissa will be back next week. I think we are doing pet peeves, which is always amusing. Have a great week. Don't let the weasels get you down.


Featured Guest

Name: Henry O'Loughlin

About: Founder at Buildremote. Helps teams implement the Remote Operating System, which is a system he's built to maximize productivity, employee happiness, and profit for distributed teams. 


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
01:09 The Evolution of Remote Work
02:25 Challenges in Transitioning to Remote Work
04:14 Redefining Communication
06:21 Hybrid Work: A Middle Ground or a Compromise?
10:03 Remote Work: Reshaping Talent Pool and Office Dynamics
17:29 The Future of Work: Office, Remote, or Hybrid?
19:17 Conclusion

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Beyond the Office Walls: Mastering Remote Work with Jeanna Barrett

Wayne Turmel engages in a captivating discussion with Jeanna Barrett, the founder and Chief Remote Officer of First Page Strategy. This episode delves into the intricacies of building a successful, fully distributed company. Jeanna shares her journey from the early days of remote work, pre-pandemic, to the current global landscape, offering invaluable insights into effective remote work strategies, the importance of tech-savviness, and the transformational role of project management platforms in remote operations.

Key Takeaways

1. Prioritize Project Management Platforms: Emphasize using project management tools over traditional communication methods like email for better transparency and organization in remote work settings.
2. Adopt a Remote-First Mindset: Understand that remote work is not just working from home; it requires a shift in operations, prioritizing asynchronous communication and reducing unnecessary meetings.
3. Tech Savviness in Remote Teams: Recognize the importance of being comfortable with technology. Successful remote work depends on the team's ability to adapt to and efficiently use various digital tools.
4. Effective Hiring for Remote Culture: Focus on hiring individuals who are not only skilled in their field but also comfortable with remote work and technology. This ensures a smoother integration into remote-first operations.
5. Rethink Meetings and Asynchronous Work: Challenge the norm of scheduling meetings for every discussion. Utilize asynchronous communication methods to enhance productivity and reduce meeting fatigue, allowing for more focused and deep work.

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00;00;08;28 - 00;00;40;15
Wayne Turmel
Hello, everybody. Welcome once again to the Long-Distance Work Life podcast, the show where we aim to help you work, thrive, survive, get through, keep the weasels at bay in the constantly changing world of remote and hybrid work. My name is Wayne Turmel. Marissa is not with us today, which means that we are joined by a very, very smart person who's going to talk to us about some factor of their business.

00;00;40;18 - 00;01;00;12
Wayne Turmel
And I am particularly happy today to welcome. Here she comes. Jan Barrett, who is the founder and chief remote officer of a company called First Paid Strategy. All her information will be on the show notes, as you would expect. Jana. How are you?

00;01;00;14 - 00;01;03;06
Jeanna Barrett
I'm great, Wayne. Thanks for having me.

00;01;03;09 - 00;01;12;15
Wayne Turmel
Thank you for being had. What what should people know about you and first page before we jump into.

00;01;12;18 - 00;01;33;10
Jeanna Barrett
Yeah. So I started first page eight years ago, 2016, before the pandemic, because I wanted to travel and work and build a company that fit how I wanted to work. And I wasn't finding those companies any more when I was living in San Francisco. So I left. I've been building this growth marketing agency for the last eight years.

00;01;33;10 - 00;01;44;12
Jeanna Barrett
We are fully distributed. We had 30 to 40 teammates across the globe and we're constantly perfecting being a remote first company.

00;01;44;15 - 00;01;51;13
Wayne Turmel
And I know you walk it like you talk it because you are in Yucatan today.

00;01;51;15 - 00;01;53;03
Jeanna Barrett
Yeah.

00;01;53;06 - 00;01;57;07
Wayne Turmel
And yet you live on a little island in Honduras.

00;01;57;10 - 00;01;57;21
Jeanna Barrett
Yes.

00;01;57;21 - 00;01;59;23
Wayne Turmel
And I am insanely jealous.

00;01;59;25 - 00;02;28;13
Jeanna Barrett
Yeah. I actually started my company right when I left San Francisco. I moved to build these islands in Ambergris Quay, an island in Belize for six years. And then the last two years, I relocated to Roatan, Honduras, which is another Caribbean island on the west coast of the Caribbean. And yeah, and I often travel. I mean, I've shared with people that I've worked remote from a sailboat, from an RV, from a golf cart, like we drove golf carts on Fergus Quay.

00;02;28;15 - 00;02;36;02
Jeanna Barrett
So I definitely walk the walk and am a big proponent of like how you do remote work, right?

00;02;36;04 - 00;03;07;17
Wayne Turmel
Well, that's what I want to talk about, because as we talked about before, the cameras started rolling. I mean, companies have to thrive and they have to work. And, you know, people have to make money in order to be employed. But what I'm really fascinated by is you started creating your company intending to be fully remote pre-pandemic. And I'm curious as to let's start with what you knew had to happen and what you set up.

00;03;07;19 - 00;03;10;15
Wayne Turmel
Right. In order for that to.

00;03;10;17 - 00;03;11;05
Jeanna Barrett
You.

00;03;11;10 - 00;03;12;05
Wayne Turmel
Start.

00;03;12;07 - 00;03;35;11
Jeanna Barrett
So the biggest thing that for a company is I don't have offices. You still have to have an office and that is your tech stock. So how people come together, how people communicate, how you get jobs done, all happen now in tech, in technology, instead of in an office. So it was really important for us to really choose the right tech sector.

00;03;35;11 - 00;03;59;00
Jeanna Barrett
You want to have all the right tools, not too many tools, and that is was also like an interesting experience for me as a founder, because it's not so easy as just like setting up these remote tools. It now has become a full time job. You have to have an operations person running these tools to keep up with renewals and access and training.

00;03;59;00 - 00;04;07;23
Jeanna Barrett
And it's basically it's not the price of an office, but it does require some investment to make sure that you're getting your tech stack right as a remote company.

00;04;07;25 - 00;04;27;05
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. And so what was your what did you need like in your head? Okay, you need an email and you got to have some kind of chat function and some kind of web meeting function like. How did you go about? Let's start with what you started with and then we'll figure out where you are now. Right.

00;04;27;08 - 00;04;54;04
Jeanna Barrett
Yeah. Actually, the most important thing is a project management platform. So we actually believe that like email is dead in some ways, like not in a marketing way. People still read their emails, but in terms of collaborating, email is not a good tool for that. There's siloed conversations. You can't find anything they live in die only in the inbox that whoever was copied on the email, people get to forget to copy people in the email.

00;04;54;07 - 00;05;20;15
Jeanna Barrett
So a lot of companies now are working in these massive project management tools. Are this click up. We first started out in a sauna, there's a sauna click up Monday kind of tend to be the three that most companies are deciding between and that we we implemented that, I believe, in year two or three. And that really transformed our business because that is like one place where every conversation can be searched and seen.

00;05;20;15 - 00;05;44;03
Jeanna Barrett
There's transparency across all projects and people. You can search for conversations no matter who you are. It really breaks down silos and barriers, which is what you need in remote work, right for it, really, in any work, you don't have to be remote to need to get rid of barriers. But yeah, so project management platform access and collaboration is the big key pillars of remote work, right?

00;05;44;03 - 00;06;04;16
Jeanna Barrett
So you got to make sure everybody has access in a versioning control place. So like Google Docs is usually what everybody uses. Google Drive, making sure you have shared drives, everybody can open and access them at the right time. You can see different versions. There's not like old school versions of an old Excel that someone emailed each other and then chat function.

00;06;04;17 - 00;06;21;03
Jeanna Barrett
Slack is like the best in class choice at this point. So and then yeah, Zoom. So that's a lot of our core tech stack right there. But then there's just there's a lot there's probably 5 to 10 more tools that we have that are important as well, but those are the core ones.

00;06;21;05 - 00;06;36;12
Wayne Turmel
Where did you bump your nose when you were starting? I mean, we always start with assumptions about this is what this is going to look like and this is how it's going to work. And then, you know, yeah, it's yeah, everybody has a plan until they get punched in the face. Right?

00;06;36;14 - 00;06;57;28
Jeanna Barrett
Right, exactly. Well, the tech stock has been like a stumble, right? It's it's taken us a long time to perfect it in terms of like what I didn't realize because I've always been tech savvy. I mean, someone that just loves technology, I buy everything that comes out. I was a native working in tech scene in my early twenties in Seattle, in San Francisco.

00;06;58;00 - 00;07;19;11
Jeanna Barrett
So what I didn't realize is like how complicated this way of working actually is. And we hire people that have wonderful resumes, but they come into our company and they just struggle with the tech stock. They're not comfortable. They don't you know, they're not comfortable figuring it out on their own. They're overwhelmed by it. They push it away.

00;07;19;11 - 00;07;39;23
Jeanna Barrett
And those people ultimately are not going to be successful at our company. So it requires a lot of tech savviness to work async and remote first, and you have to really be willing to be an expert in these tools. You have to have someone within your company that's an expert at these tools. And so that was one stumble.

00;07;39;26 - 00;08;01;08
Wayne Turmel
Let me ask again, let me ask you a question about that before you go any further, because as somebody who knows technology but doesn't particularly love it, my problem is less which button do I push and why should I bother? So when people are coming in and they don't have your tech background, is it just they don't know which button to push?

00;08;01;12 - 00;08;10;07
Wayne Turmel
Or is it a mindset that you need to either inculcate or hire for?

00;08;10;10 - 00;08;27;14
Jeanna Barrett
It's both. It requires you to like take ownership in terms of how are you training your team, or if you're a manager or a founder, like what are the tool sets and how are you setting people up for success? So that's a lot of stuff we didn't have in place at first because I kind of just always had figured things out on my own.

00;08;27;14 - 00;09;00;04
Jeanna Barrett
So I didn't realize that we needed to have really in-depth video training and modules and stuff for our tech stock that can close some gaps. But ultimately, like if you don't hire the right person, that's going to be comfortable really digging in. We've had people that have avoided it. They're really uncomfortable. These tools can be super complicated and then speaking to that, how you specifically work in these tools is very prescribed, like how you tag each other, exactly What you do when a task is over, do like how you figure out what your start date and and dates are like.

00;09;00;04 - 00;09;29;13
Jeanna Barrett
There's an ecosystem to it. And so if you're not willing to teach your self something new, then you're not going to succeed no matter how many trainings we give you. Right? So it's also how do we hire the right people? So we've spent a lot of time figuring out like what are the right questions or project tasks or what are we doing to really get to the crux of like if people are able to figure out a new complex technology, if they're comfortable?

00;09;29;21 - 00;09;43;09
Wayne Turmel
And right now, ears perked up just all over the pod versus So talk to us about what some of those tests are like just nuts and bolts. What are how would you test for that?

00;09;43;11 - 00;10;05;06
Jeanna Barrett
Yeah, we actually have like we have core values at our company. And one of our core values is being tech savvy and remote first. So we've just started to just put in place like questions like spit, prescribe questions, and what we're asking people about our core values to get to the crux of if they're going to fit in our core values.

00;10;05;06 - 00;10;26;15
Jeanna Barrett
So we do have a set of questions that we ask, and every candidate is going to get them in the in the hiring round and the and the tech savvy questions are part of that. We are we haven't implemented this yet, but I'm just now in the middle of conversations of taking it one step further. We do a project round because we're remote.

00;10;26;15 - 00;10;54;01
Jeanna Barrett
We want to see how people work. We also want to see how you present. We want to see how you show up to a video call. So we do a project test run. We pay people for this, but we ask people to put together strategies and all that. And we're now talking about, well, how do we take this one step further and like have them do a test that is going to also figure out if they can work with any clip And working with and click upward requires you to be your own project manager.

00;10;54;01 - 00;11;13;15
Jeanna Barrett
We do not hire project managers. You need to know how to scope your entire project from start to finish all the steps you need to put those steps in, click up. And so we're starting to think about how we build a test for our candidates there, because that's where we see people fail. The most really is understanding that.

00;11;13;17 - 00;11;46;26
Wayne Turmel
You said something a minute ago that I don't want to let go by, and that is this notion of people needing to kind of take ownership of their own tech stuff. Right. And I know that I have gotten lost in the weeds. I tend to do that right. And where I get lost in the weeds in particular is not which button do I push, it's how do I name files remembering to tag things.

00;11;46;27 - 00;11;48;04
Jeanna Barrett
Yeah.

00;11;48;06 - 00;12;12;21
Wayne Turmel
Right. Because I just cause chaos. I don't intend to. I mean, well, but I am a chaos agent when it comes to things like and I know it's gumming up the works. So how, you know, how do you prescribe and kind of manage the tagging and the language in the internal logic?

00;12;12;24 - 00;12;36;06
Jeanna Barrett
Yeah, So that's exactly what I'm talking about in terms of like it is a wild, wild West and can be very chaotic and actually the antithesis of productivity and efficiency. If everybody is working within these tools and whatever way they think is best for them, because you need everybody working together all in the same way for it really to be efficient and not slow people down.

00;12;36;09 - 00;13;02;14
Jeanna Barrett
And so ourselves and some other companies I've talked to have taken the approach of like documentation really is like a simple step and it's a big thing in teams as well. But just having us, this is how we work, document a very specific communication guidelines and guidelines for how, what, how and what you do everything in a text and have that be in a central location that people can always go back to.

00;13;02;16 - 00;13;29;28
Jeanna Barrett
So we have a documentation center. You might think of it as like the old school employee handbook that might have been paper like binder that you got when you got hired forever ago. But now it's like all remote documentation and a place that we do it inside a click of a lot of teams use notion. It's a very popular tool right now where you can search any topic and you can find the document that you needed.

00;13;30;00 - 00;13;49;13
Jeanna Barrett
And so we just spend a lot of time making sure that all of our processes, all of our communication guidelines and everything is documented in that one place for anybody to access at any time to kind of go back and figure out if you were at our company way, you would need to go back and figure out how use to be tagging things like what's the guideline that we've set.

00;13;49;13 - 00;13;59;20
Jeanna Barrett
But like setting those guidelines is the first step in thinking through all those specific guidelines. As a company, obviously.

00;13;59;22 - 00;14;14;15
Wayne Turmel
You know, and you've mentioned async a couple of times, like it's just, well, yeah, of course, duh. But, but there are a lot of organizations and a lot of people who have fled those organizations, But we live the way we were raised, right?

00;14;14;20 - 00;14;15;19
Jeanna Barrett
Yeah, right.

00;14;15;21 - 00;14;29;10
Wayne Turmel
What is the key to winning people off of everything needs to be a meeting and still meeting their need for access and contact and that kind of stuff.

00;14;29;12 - 00;14;47;13
Jeanna Barrett
So this is the biggest problem going on in remote work right now. And I think this is why companies are failing and saying like remote work isn't working. And so like, well, you can't just take everybody working in your office and stick them at home and then expect that emailing everybody all day and getting on Zoom for 8 hours a day is what remote work is.

00;14;47;13 - 00;15;08;06
Jeanna Barrett
That's truly not like remote first operations and remote first operations is really thinking about how do you peel back meetings from your calendar? Like I myself have had moments in my business where I was doing six or seven zooms a day. It absolutely makes you feel like your brain is melted. I was so exhausted. It's just a terrible experience, right?

00;15;08;06 - 00;15;26;22
Jeanna Barrett
So like we put in a lot of guidelines about how and when to use Zoom calls and not to use Zoom calls, when to put like we have to put video at the end of every call that's going to be a video. Otherwise, we don't need to show up on video because defaulting to video can be really exhausting for people too.

00;15;26;24 - 00;15;49;15
Jeanna Barrett
So we have like three zooms maximum a day. We have no meeting Fridays. We're constantly probably every quarter looking at our meeting calendar and talking about like what can be reduced, what can be a sync. We think a lot about like team meetings, regular meetings, how do we run those async, How do we do part of that? Like we do biweekly sync meetings and async meetings.

00;15;49;15 - 00;15;57;21
Jeanna Barrett
So every other week you'll meet with your manager. But then the other week that you're not meeting with the manager, you do an async update and click ups kind of saying, Okay.

00;15;57;21 - 00;16;02;11
Wayne Turmel
So let me just let me put a thing in that because async.

00;16;02;11 - 00;16;02;27
Jeanna Barrett
Wrangling.

00;16;03;03 - 00;16;22;19
Wayne Turmel
Is, you know, kind of freaks people out. What I'm hearing is, okay, we need every week, we need to check in and see what you're doing. But if we do a zoom call, whatever, this week. Yeah, next week, a clear, honest report will suffice.

00;16;22;21 - 00;16;48;24
Jeanna Barrett
Yeah. Yeah. And I do want to say, like, you know, I think we need to all kind of get rid of this feeling Native baby sitting right Like remote work does come with a lot of trust that we're all adults and we're going to do our work. And if you flip the switch to looking at like, what the deliverables are like, if you're doing your work, why does it and getting the deliverables done, like why does it matter how, where, when you're doing your work?

00;16;48;24 - 00;17;13;27
Jeanna Barrett
So that's one thing. So it's less about like, you know, needing to check in as a manager, but we think of one on one more like as a person, that's your access to your team lead. If you need support, there's something you're blocked on. And yeah, you don't need to meet every week on those things. Like there's other ways to get a hold of each other.

00;17;13;29 - 00;17;37;25
Jeanna Barrett
You know, we put everything in click up, so I still read it in it. And the beauty of this, right, and this is where like if you're an operations or business founder, but I don't know if this matters to many on the call, but if I read the async meeting and respond and they read it and respond and we solve something that usually takes ten or 15 minutes, now a meeting on your calendar is going to be 50 minutes, right?

00;17;38;02 - 00;17;59;03
Jeanna Barrett
Two people, 50 minutes of their time, like that's a lot of wasted time. And so there's a lot of conversation around my productivity in remote work, but you're working async. There's more time for you to spend actually doing your work, right? Like we call it deep work where you're uninterrupted because you're not on a call or you're not.

00;17;59;06 - 00;18;19;19
Jeanna Barrett
People aren't talking to you, so you have more time and you're more efficient and more productive when you have more deep work, right? And like, you can just get a meeting done in 15 minutes over a chat, kind of a situation, or you can send video clips, right? Like I'm going to send you a five minute video clip and we don't need to sit on a phone and talk for 50, 60 minutes about something.

00;18;19;19 - 00;18;22;00
Jeanna Barrett
So, yeah.

00;18;22;03 - 00;18;44;09
Wayne Turmel
That's great stuff. One week, just because we are as I knew, we were running out of time. Yeah, so much so much to talk about. What is the one async best practice that you have learned along the way that you kind of didn't know going in?

00;18;44;12 - 00;19;12;14
Jeanna Barrett
But yeah, it's really relearning your work habits and it takes a long time and I'm guilty of it too. But you can't default to just sending people Slack chats all day because that's a sink tool, right? You can't default to setting up a meeting because that's a sync tool. So you have to constantly be working with yourself to always default to your async tool, which is like a project management platform.

00;19;12;14 - 00;19;25;27
Jeanna Barrett
So I need somebody do something, put it in, click up, I need to ask somebody something, put it and click that. Don't set up a meeting, don't go on Slack and check them. So it's just like reworking what your what your habits are basically.

00;19;25;29 - 00;19;53;20
Wayne Turmel
That's great. That's really, really good stuff. Thank you so much. Jana Barrett. We will have links to all your good stuff on the long distance work life dot com on the page. Those of you who listen to podcasts, you know the drill. Like subscribe, smash that button, whatever you're supposed to say in these circumstances. You can reach out to Marissa and I at any time.

00;19;53;24 - 00;20;19;00
Wayne Turmel
We are available by email or available by LinkedIn comments, questions, vicious personal attacks, anything that you would like to share with us. Topics. Cool people like Jana that we want to talk to and if you are interested in rethinking how your team comes together. Kevin In my new book, Long Distance Team Designing Your Team for everyone's success is out in the world.

00;20;19;00 - 00;20;27;17
Wayne Turmel
You can find that and some special resources at long distance Team Booking.com. Jana, thank you so much for being us.

00;20;27;17 - 00;20;29;26
Jeanna Barrett
I appreciate you taking your time.

00;20;29;29 - 00;20;36;17
Wayne Turmel
And for the rest of you, thanks for listening. Come visit again and don't let the weasels get you down.


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Bio: Founder of First Page Strategy, a growth agency for product-led brands. Host of the Remotely Cultured podcast. 


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
01:12 The Genesis of First Page Strategy
03:12 Building a Remote-First Company
04:27 Key Tools for Remote Work
06:36 Overcoming Tech Stumbles
09:43 Hiring for a Remote Culture
14:29 Streamlining Remote Operations
18:22 Best Practices for Async Work

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Who’s Really a Remote Work Expert?

Marisa Eikenberry and Wayne Turmel explore the intricacies of remote work expertise. Wayne, a seasoned professional in the field, shares his candid views on the skepticism surrounding the term "expert," the evolution of remote work expertise, and offers practical advice for discerning true expertise in this domain. The episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the remote work landscape, seeking to understand the blend of skepticism and wisdom in identifying genuine expertise.

Key Takeaways

1. Understand the History of Remote Work: Recognize that remote work has a long-standing history and is not just a recent trend.
2. Question Titles and Expertise: Be skeptical of self-proclaimed experts, especially those with pretentious titles.
3. Evaluate Credibility: Check the background and track record of a professional claiming remote work expertise.
4. Beware of Zealots: Be cautious of those who are overly zealous about remote work; true expertise is balanced and objective.
5. Look for Practical Solutions: Seek out experts who focus on practical help and realistic approaches to remote work.
6. Utilize Resources: Explore available courses and resources to deepen your understanding of remote work leadership and management.

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00;00;07;26 - 00;00;19;11
Marisa Eikenberry
Welcome back to the long distance work life, where we help you live, work and thrive in remote and hybrid teams. I'm Marissa Eikenberry, a fellow remote worker. And joining me is my co-host and remote work expert, Wayne Jamal. Hi.

00;00;19;13 - 00;00;29;24
Wayne Turmel
Hello, Marissa. How are you? And hello, everybody listening? It sounds sometimes like I'm ignoring you and I'm not, so. Hello? I'm listening.

00;00;29;27 - 00;00;50;20
Marisa Eikenberry
I'm doing great. And, you know, I'm just so excited about this topic today because I think it's gonna be really interesting for our listeners. May not be something they've really thought about before, but we're going to tackle it today. So every episode I introduce you as a remote work expert and believe it or not, we actually get snarky comments about this on our videos and our clips all the time.

00;00;50;23 - 00;01;08;04
Marisa Eikenberry
How can you be a remote work expert in something that's not been around that long? Now, for the record, and people who have listened us for a while already know that remote work has been around for a very long time. And if you are not aware of this, I would highly encourage you to listen to one of our first episodes titled When Did Remote Work Start, which I will have a link to in the show notes.

00;01;08;06 - 00;01;13;05
Marisa Eikenberry
But Wayne, let's start with the basics. How do you define a remote work expert?

00;01;13;07 - 00;01;40;27
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, and total transparency. I cringe a little every time you introduce me as an expert. I am naturally a cynic and I'm kind of a that try to be a skeptic. And I sometimes go over the line to cynicism. The minute any time somebody introduces themselves as an expert, my radar goes off and the more pretentious the title, the more it goes off.

00;01;41;00 - 00;02;09;21
Wayne Turmel
When I look at somebody's LinkedIn title and they claim to be a guru, alarm bells ring, things go crazy. I just go, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. That and living in a time just in society in general, when expertise is kind of frowned on and nobody is really an expert and, you know, yeah, that's a nice Ph.D. you've got I've got this guy on YouTube who says.

00;02;09;23 - 00;02;10;17
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;02;10;19 - 00;02;23;24
Wayne Turmel
So there is a kind of general skepticism that I share to a degree. That being said, some people know more about other people.

00;02;23;26 - 00;02;25;25
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. That's going to be true for everything.

00;02;25;28 - 00;02;44;17
Wayne Turmel
Right. And if that is the case, then I suppose I am on the expert side of the spectrum. This is a topic that I started writing about in 2005 or six.

00;02;44;20 - 00;02;47;13
Marisa Eikenberry
So that's when I tell you I was a freshman in high school.

00;02;47;15 - 00;03;13;13
Wayne Turmel
And that's when I pulled the dagger out of my heart and tried to continue missing a beat. You know, I started investigating this thing called WebEx. And what did it mean back in 2005, 2006? And so you know, I have written, depending on how you counted, six books and multiple chapters and magazine articles and been doing the research and all of that stuff.

00;03;13;13 - 00;03;36;21
Wayne Turmel
So if I have to defend my status as somebody who knows more about this, then the defense rests. Your Honor. Right. That being said, that being said, it's a constantly evolving field. And this is the other thing is, as I tell people, I do all I read the research and follow the stuff and listen to a lot of nonsense.

00;03;36;25 - 00;04;03;06
Wayne Turmel
So you don't have to. And I run it through whatever filter I can to kind of separate the wheat from the chaff and present in as logical and and pertaining and kind of easily digested as possible, presented to people for them to then make their own decisions with. So, you know, that's as defensive as I get about the title.

00;04;03;08 - 00;04;10;11
Wayne Turmel
That being said, it goes back to anybody. Anybody who calls himself a guru probably isn't.

00;04;10;13 - 00;04;33;04
Marisa Eikenberry
So let's get into that a little bit. Like we've established. You've been doing this for a really long time. You have a bunch of expertise. You know what you're talking about, expert title or not. But how can how can your layperson, your normal person, determine whether somebody is a true remote work expert like yourself or they just started doing this in March of 2020?

00;04;33;07 - 00;04;36;25
Wayne Turmel
Well, you know, just go on their LinkedIn profile.

00;04;36;27 - 00;04;37;12
Marisa Eikenberry
That's true.

00;04;37;16 - 00;05;04;20
Wayne Turmel
Seriously, I am serious. Is a heart attack go under LinkedIn profile and see what their track record. What if they were a manager at Arby's March of 2020 and then suddenly they were an expert in remote work? A little skepticism may be appropriate. So, you know, what is their experience? What is their background? What are we doing? It doesn't take much to check that.

00;05;04;23 - 00;05;06;11
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah.

00;05;06;14 - 00;05;09;28
Wayne Turmel
The other thing and this one is more controversial.

00;05;10;00 - 00;05;10;12
Marisa Eikenberry
I love it.

00;05;10;12 - 00;05;20;10
Wayne Turmel
And I have friends who are going to hate me. The more of a zealot they are, the less I take them at their word.

00;05;20;12 - 00;05;21;16
Marisa Eikenberry
Okay, so why is that?

00;05;21;18 - 00;05;47;12
Wayne Turmel
Here's the thing. And we often, Kevin and I often get lumped into it when they give lists of people who are thinkers about remote work. We're often on the list, and we are not the most zealous specializing. The future is remote work and death to the office and you know, all of that stuff. That's not where we are.

00;05;47;12 - 00;06;16;08
Wayne Turmel
We think there are incredible advantages to remote work. We think that the trend is certainly moving that way. But the people who are zealots, the people who say that there is no use whatsoever, there is no need for people to ever get together physically. All of your social, biological, nourishing needs can be met through through Zoom. I tend to look at that skeptically.

00;06;16;11 - 00;06;17;01
Marisa Eikenberry
That makes sense.

00;06;17;04 - 00;06;40;22
Wayne Turmel
Our approach is these things are happening. They are certainly trends. We need to be aware of it. And like all technology and all work trends, where does it make sense for my company, for the things that I do, for the work I choose to do? Where does it make sense and where can I leverage it, and where are the pitfalls and things that you need to watch out for?

00;06;40;22 - 00;07;02;28
Wayne Turmel
And that's where I like to spend my time. I have no interest in helping Silicon Valley companies get their next new thing launched right. I am a real skeptic about technology, and so I am not an early adopter. I am not first one over the fence, and I don't think most people should be.

00;07;03;00 - 00;07;06;29
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. We've talked about this actually in our episode not that long ago.

00;07;07;00 - 00;07;34;23
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. So I think that and any time you are an evangelist or a zealot for something, your objectivity goes out the window. Yeah, you've gone in with a good vision of the truth, and your job now is to defend that as radically as possible. And so you tend to weed out information that doesn't fit your paradigm. That's in fact.

00;07;34;26 - 00;08;02;03
Wayne Turmel
And the fact that I use the word paradigm makes me cringe, but it's true. Yeah. And so I try to be objective. And at the Kevin Ikenberry group, our focus is not on changing the world in terms of upending business models. My job personally, is to help the individual person get through the workday with some shred of sanity and dignity.

00;08;02;05 - 00;08;03;21
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Right. We just want to.

00;08;03;21 - 00;08;27;22
Wayne Turmel
And if and if remote work helps you achieve that and you're a better person, here's how we can help. And if you have to go into the office every day, here are some things that you might want to think about that might save your sanity and your dignity. So I understand, you know, the skepticism of people online who go remote work expert.

00;08;27;25 - 00;08;37;22
Wayne Turmel
You know, anybody can call themselves that. Well, yeah, they can. And I challenge you as listeners to the dose of skepticism.

00;08;37;25 - 00;08;56;24
Marisa Eikenberry
So, I mean, there's lots of people that are getting the titles, some of which are given to them and some of which are they're trying to make themselves, I guess, is the point we're trying to make. But so but specifically, going back to you, how has your role as a remote work expert evolved over time, especially in the last four years?

00;08;56;24 - 00;08;58;22
Marisa Eikenberry
I mean, a lot of stuff has changed.

00;08;58;24 - 00;09;22;24
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, I mean, if I go back to when I first started thinking about this, right, was June 26, I was teaching traditional presentation skills and I remembered the moment somebody said to me, Wayne, this standing in front of the room stuff is great, but I only talk to real people like twice a year. I work remotely and there's this thing called WebEx, and that's what I'm using.

00;09;22;24 - 00;09;55;10
Wayne Turmel
And I started investigating at the time there were 120 little plankton level web meetings and some WebEx was the Mack daddy of them all. But I became fascinated. I knew the trend was going to continue, and so I became fascinated in that. I started a company that taught people how to do webinars and how to present online, and I got asked more and more about the day to day work, not just the presentations, but how do you run a team and how do you do that?

00;09;55;13 - 00;10;20;05
Wayne Turmel
Kevin and I had known each other for a long time. We created a remote leadership institute, so I had gone from almost strictly presentation and communication skills to teams and leading them in a remote environment. And then the last year and some people have noticed this, some people haven't. The Remote Leadership Institute brand after COVID kind of went away.

00;10;20;06 - 00;10;42;29
Wayne Turmel
It still exists, but it's inside the greater Kevin Eikenberry group because the world has changed the the world of leadership, remote leadership. Most people now no longer look at it as a separate thing. It's part of the job. If you are above first line supervisor, odds are you're going to have at least one member of your team who doesn't work where you do.

00;10;43;04 - 00;10;44;13
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, and you have to prepare for that.

00;10;44;16 - 00;11;11;02
Wayne Turmel
And you have to be able to deal with that and include them in the team. And so the role of remote work in our getting our jobs done has morph and hope. And we like to believe that this is true. We have kind of kept up with that. And again, I have read more nonsense and taken part in more free samples of software and done all that stuff than any human being ought to.

00;11;11;04 - 00;11;59;04
Wayne Turmel
You probably can tell from my white beard and white hair, but I am 42 years old. No, look what it has done to me. So, you know, my has changed. And I think most human beings, if they are wise, they are open to changing as the world changes. I think that if you look at what Kevin and I teach in long distance leader London's team, one year team mate, all of our blogs, all of our courses, it's that while things are changing and we need to be aware of and adjust to and be mindful of the changes that come to us, the core of leading people, of getting work done, of having a leadership mindset,

00;11;59;06 - 00;12;12;10
Wayne Turmel
is really evergreen and it's the details and nuances that change. But those changes and nuances can drive you mad if you are unaware of them and can't deal with them.

00;12;12;12 - 00;12;30;04
Marisa Eikenberry
Right? So I guess, you know, for our leaders and our managers that are listening, you know, what are some common challenges that remote work experts actually help businesses employees overcome? I know you've talked about a little bit of them as we've gone, but like really specifically, like what? What do you help with? What do we think?

00;12;30;09 - 00;13;03;17
Wayne Turmel
Like the big thing, I think is helping us understand how being remote changes us, how we interact with each other. There are a few things. One is that we were raised from birth as face to face, nose to nose, visual in contact, communicating beings. That is our natural default. When we are not doing that, we have to rely on our higher functions.

00;13;03;20 - 00;13;30;12
Wayne Turmel
We have to rely on trust. We have to communicate quite effectively so that I don't have to stand at your desk and watch you do your job. Right. That's something that should be happening anyway. But with the rise of remote and hybrid work, the ability to micromanage the idea of command and control, which has been evaporating as we've evolved as a species, continues to do that.

00;13;30;12 - 00;13;59;11
Wayne Turmel
Well, not everybody's comfortable with that. Command and control is a very lizard brain, very natural response, right to pressure and a task and and all of that stuff. Remote work, hybrid work is a natural extension of expanding that approach in our courses and in our Long Distance Leader series, The first module, and we do this as a standalone course as well.

00;13;59;12 - 00;14;27;16
Wayne Turmel
Shameless plug is how leaders create and manage remote and hybrid teams. And really we introduce three models that are crucial to that mindset. The first is why does this feel so weird? And we have what we call the remote leadership, the three year model. There's a trust model. How do we build trust if something is happening? You know, can we apply this model and figure out what the problem is?

00;14;27;18 - 00;15;04;10
Wayne Turmel
And then the third one is choosing the right technology for the right communication task, which is huge in remote and hybrid work. If you are sending an email rather, or a text, rather than having the conversations you need to have, that is the root cause of a lot of problems, right? And I think that's the work that we do most effectively is we get people to say, if you have a leadership mindset, if you want to have a leadership mindset and you should, what are the nuances?

00;15;04;10 - 00;15;25;05
Wayne Turmel
What are the changes? What are the circumstances that require adjustments to that? And I think at the end of the day, that's not what makes us a zealot because not all work can or should be done remotely. Not all organizations function best that way. There are plenty who do if they do. This is how you need to approach it.

00;15;25;11 - 00;15;50;14
Wayne Turmel
If you are going to be hybrid. These are the nuances that you need to take into consideration. And, you know, I think that's what we bring to the party. I think if there's an expertise to it, that's what it is. So I hope that answered your question and I hope it answered the question for the listeners, because I know we we seldom talk about what we actually do, what our work is.

00;15;50;16 - 00;15;56;27
Wayne Turmel
We try to keep it more general and but specifically, sometimes you got to know that stuff.

00;15;57;03 - 00;16;15;08
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Yeah. We so classes, we have to pay the bills, right. I have my one last question before we end the show here. But what advice would you give to leaders of managers who would like to better understand how to leverage this kind of expertise of remote work professionals such as yourself and us? I think at Mike Berger.

00;16;15;10 - 00;16;33;18
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, and there's a lot of stuff out there and a lot of it's very good. There are a lot of very talented people. There are people we have on this show as guests who are wonderful people and they should make a living and you should hire them if that's what you want to do. I think it's like anything else, understand the first principles.

00;16;33;24 - 00;17;09;09
Wayne Turmel
What does your organization, what is the work that needs to be done? And you are the best person to know that, right? But knowing that doesn't mean that you are 100% comfortable with what's next. Some people have no idea, and they're kind of paralyzed. Some people think they know, but some validation would be nice to make sure that we're on the right track and other people are out on that path and maybe it's not going the way they want it to.

00;17;09;09 - 00;17;13;24
Wayne Turmel
And I think those are the circumstances where you bring in other people.

00;17;13;28 - 00;17;31;02
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, that totally makes sense. And Wayne, I know earlier you were talking about our Long Distance Leadership series. And for any of our listeners, listeners who are interested in that, you can go to Kevin Eikenberry dot com slash LDL s to find out more about those classes and what's coming up and.

00;17;31;02 - 00;17;41;20
Wayne Turmel
Absolutely and those class football as you know an open enrollment series for individuals or we're happy to talk to you about bringing it in-house to your company.

00;17;41;23 - 00;17;58;17
Marisa Eikenberry
And listeners. Thank you so much for listening to the long distance work life for shownotes transcripts and other resources. Make sure to visit long distance work life dot com. If you haven't yet, subscribe to the show so you don't miss any future episodes. And while you're there, we sure like and review This helps us know what you love about our show.

00;17;58;20 - 00;18;12;13
Marisa Eikenberry
Feel free to contact us via LinkedIn or email with the links in our show notes and let us know you listen to this episode or even suggest a topic for one night to tackle in a future episode. We'd love to hear from you. Thanks for joining us. And as Wayne like to say, don't always get too down.


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
00:29 Debating the Term 'Expert'
01:13 Wayne's Perspective on Expertise
05:10 Remote Work Zealots and Objectivity
06:17 Challenges and Solutions in Remote Work
08:58 Wayne's Remote Work Journey
12:30 Addressing Common Remote Work Challenges
17:31 Concluding Thoughts

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Conquering Imposter Syndrome on Remote Teams with Rico Nasol

Wayne Turmel explores the challenging world of remote and hybrid work leadership, focusing on imposter syndrome and its impact on leaders. Joined by guest Rico Nasol, a seasoned consultant and coach, the discussion delves into how imposter syndrome manifests, particularly in remote work settings, and strategies for overcoming it. Nasol shares his personal experiences and insights from his time at Netflix, shedding light on leadership development, the importance of understanding team dynamics in a remote environment, and the significance of self-talk in shaping a leader's confidence and effectiveness.

Key Takeaways

1. Understanding Imposter Syndrome: Recognize that imposter syndrome is common, especially in remote settings. It involves feelings of self-doubt and a belief that one's achievements are just luck. Acknowledge these feelings when they arise and remember that they are a common psychological phenomenon.
2. Combatting Isolation in Remote Work: In remote work, the absence of real-time feedback can intensify feelings of imposter syndrome. Counteract this by establishing regular check-ins and feedback sessions with colleagues or mentors to validate your work and progress.
3. Positive Self-Talk is Key: Develop a habit of positive self-talk. Remind yourself of your accomplishments and skills. Remember, the way you talk to yourself significantly impacts your self-confidence and perception.
4. Leadership and Imposter Syndrome: New leaders often face imposter syndrome due to a lack of formal leadership training. Focus on developing leadership skills actively and seek mentorship or professional development opportunities.
5. Learning from Rico’s Netflix Experience: Understand that feeling like an imposter can occur in any environment, even in high-performance cultures like Netflix. Realize that everyone has unique strengths and that no one is inherently smarter than others.
6. Managing Remote Teams Effectively: For remote team leaders, balance personal and professional goal-setting for your team members. This approach fosters a well-rounded team dynamic and supports individual growth.
7. Hybrid Team Dynamics: In a hybrid work environment, don't underestimate the power of team building. Focus on collaborative, focused work during in-person sessions to maximize creativity and team cohesion.

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00;00;08;19 - 00;00;38;18
Wayne Turmel
Hi, everybody. Welcome to the Long Distance Work Life podcast, the show where we are really determined to help you thrive, survive, get through, keep the weasels at bay in this crazy world of remote and hybrid work. My name is Wayne Turmel. I'm with Kevin Eikenberry Group. This is a Marisa-less episode. I don't want to say Marisa free because that's sounds like she's an undesirable thing and she's not.

00;00;38;20 - 00;01;03;08
Wayne Turmel
But when we don't have Marisa with us, that means that we have an interesting guest, which we do today. We are going to talk imposter syndrome and getting out of your own head and all that good stuff with Rico and Rico is in the Las Vegas area with me, which is kind of cool. And Rico, how are you, man?

00;01;03;10 - 00;01;07;13
Rico Nasol
I'm good. I'm good. Good to talk to you, Wayne. Thanks for having me.

00;01;07;15 - 00;01;33;22
Wayne Turmel
Thank you for being here. So you are a consultant and a coach, and we will have links to your organization and all that good stuff. But one of the things that you and I have talked about offline, and I think this is really important for especially newer leaders, is this concept of imposter syndrome and not believing that you are good enough.

00;01;33;25 - 00;01;39;11
Wayne Turmel
Can you give us that kind of working definition of imposter syndrome just to kind of kick us off?

00;01;39;14 - 00;02;05;01
Rico Nasol
Yeah. So imposter syndrome, how it showed up for me and I think how it shows up for a lot of people is you don't really believe that you have talent and that potentially you are lucky and that at some point in time someone is going to find out you're not as smart as they think you are because you yourself don't feel like you have the confidence or the intelligence or the smarts to have achieved the things that you have.

00;02;05;04 - 00;02;23;21
Rico Nasol
And the thing that drives that imposter syndrome are the stories that we tell ourselves, whether they're true or not true. It's just a running narrative that goes on in our heads. And what happened with the pandemic in remote life. It's exacerbated by the missing of real time feedback. Right.

00;02;23;21 - 00;02;33;28
Wayne Turmel
So, okay, so tell me what you mean by that. By real time feedback, because some of us have spent our entire lives coping with this nonsense.

00;02;34;00 - 00;03;04;03
Rico Nasol
Yeah, great question. And I had to get used to it because I was a mom before the pandemic, mostly in person leader except for my global teams which were distributed. But since the pandemic, when that camera turns off, you're kind of left alone with the thoughts that you have. So if you don't think you if you don't have the confidence, you will continue to reinforce that in your head as opposed to when I was in in person and I did a presentation right when that presentation was over and I walked out, I'd have a colleague, I would go, Hey, how was that?

00;03;04;03 - 00;03;25;18
Rico Nasol
Did that go okay? Was I did I sound too fast? Did I answer the question like you get real time feedback from people that were in there just naturally walking to your next meeting. And in this zoom environment or this remote environment, you don't get that benefit unless you explicitly and this is what I advise people to explicitly ask for it, whether it's through Slack or chat or some sort of mechanism after the fact.

00;03;25;18 - 00;03;51;02
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, that's really important because one of the blessings, of course, of remote work is that you don't have a million people around you, but then you are left with the voice in your head. And if the voice in your head is unkind and I'm really not being facetious about this, you know, I always said I would fire any manager who talked to an employee the way I talked to myself.

00;03;51;05 - 00;03;55;00
Wayne Turmel
Absolutely. Our self-talk is so, so critical.

00;03;55;00 - 00;04;14;26
Rico Nasol
Yeah. And that's one of the things that so I coach leaders and almost the problem solving and it'll parlay into this is I think we've all had here's the story we've all had those jobs, whether it's in high school or college, you kind of you don't think a lot of it, but you end up being good at it and then they promote you to like the shift lead or something.

00;04;14;28 - 00;04;37;29
Rico Nasol
For me, I worked at a theme park and I got promoted to the warehouse lead and nobody taught me how to be a leader. They taught me about labor laws, they taught me about harassment, but nobody ever taught me how to lead people. And unfortunately, what I what happened to me in high school and college, I see happen in the world today where people, leaders, whether they intentional or not, assume, hey, this person is really good at the tactician.

00;04;37;29 - 00;04;54;29
Rico Nasol
Part of the job, so they must be a good leader and they never develop them in the way that leaders need to be developed. So in that way, when you're trying to pretend to be something that maybe you were never trained to do, that's where I come in. And a lot of the folks that I work with are either new leaders or executives.

00;04;55;05 - 00;05;13;27
Rico Nasol
They didn't have proper training. They don't know what they don't know, and they just have this low confidence and this imposter syndrome that, like the people who promoted me, think I'm good at what I do. I don't think I'm not good at what I do, and I don't know when they're going to find me out. So I'm either going to fake it till I make it or I need to get help.

00;05;13;29 - 00;05;14;17
Rico Nasol
And that's where.

00;05;14;17 - 00;05;42;22
Wayne Turmel
You find Do you find that that is. Here's the dirty little secret about our business, right? Is that the people who seek out learning, the people who want to get better at the job and are proactive of about doing that, are probably not the ones who need it the most. Because if they care enough to want to be good at it, right, they probably got some chops because wanting to do the job is a big piece of the deal.

00;05;42;24 - 00;06;04;24
Rico Nasol
Yeah, unfortunately that that is true. But what I do see is I put myself out there is people start to see themselves in me. So there's somebody that I worked with the he I don't want to say he was reluctant, but it was took him a long time to want to work with me because he didn't see anyone around him that looked like him.

00;06;04;26 - 00;06;26;22
Rico Nasol
Right. And so what I'm trying to do here and I think what we try to do with the work that we do is expose people, that there's more people like us out there, there's more ways to be successful. And nobody goes out and says, I want to be a toxic leader. Right? Nobody does that intentionally. But what happens is they have somebody who was never trained to train them and then they train their leaders the same way, or lack of training.

00;06;26;25 - 00;06;42;19
Rico Nasol
Right. And so you're right where, you know, the people who want to be better at it, I think are the ones that go after it. But I think it also takes leaders looking inward and saying like, hey, maybe I do need to get better than I can get the skills to help these folks get better. So I think it's a little bit of both.

00;06;42;19 - 00;06;47;28
Rico Nasol
You get people that want to be better and hopefully they will want to help the people that report to them.

00;06;48;00 - 00;07;08;10
Wayne Turmel
Now, one of the things, the way we connected is you heard the interview you have with Janice Chalker. Yes. On being a introvert and a remote leader, and Marisa will link to that in our show notes. For those of you who are interested, you're an introvert. Tell me a little bit about your journey because you've worked at some big oil companies.

00;07;08;13 - 00;07;17;03
Rico Nasol
Yeah, I so for me, introversion is not like shyness because I'm not shy, right? So, you know, that's a really.

00;07;17;03 - 00;07;21;22
Wayne Turmel
Important distinction right there that we need to put a pin in.

00;07;21;25 - 00;07;38;05
Rico Nasol
Yeah, and I say that because in certain moments I can be shy, but, you know, like if I'm comfortable, you know, I can have a conversation and things like that. But where my introversion shows up is like, I'm not the loudest person in the room. It's not because I'm not shy, it's just not my nature, right? I'm analytical.

00;07;38;05 - 00;08;08;20
Rico Nasol
I need time to sit with things. And then after big presentations to like four or 500 people, I cherish the time to myself just to recharge, you know, just to get my batteries back. I know some people I worked with that Netflix and why this was I had so much imposter syndrome in the beginning because you have this tape type A personality there where they're the biggest voices in the room and after like a 500 person presentation, they're like excited, mingling everywhere and like talking to everybody in the room and answering every single question.

00;08;08;23 - 00;08;29;21
Wayne Turmel
So an organization like Netflix is really interesting, and maybe you can check my assumption here because Netflix is what I call show business adjacent. It's full of people who want to be in show business and want to be in the industry. And at its core, it's a data and and analysis company.

00;08;29;23 - 00;08;47;28
Rico Nasol
Yet it's interesting because I was there for almost nine years and when I first started we were just an aggregator. So we weren't much of an entertainment company. We used to call ourselves a tech company that happens to be an entertainment. And then towards the last maybe four years of my career is when we had more originals, more productions.

00;08;48;05 - 00;09;10;26
Rico Nasol
We were an entertainment company backed by tech, so I was there for that shift. And the culture I started in was very Silicon Valley, like everybody is a Type A, everybody's high performing all those things. And so when I started there, they recruited me. I felt so much like an imposter, like I'm not as smart as these people think they are.

00;09;11;01 - 00;09;31;23
Rico Nasol
And one thing that I have to coach out of people is nobody is smarter than anybody else. They just have more experience in certain things. But what I would tell myself is Netflix. When I first got there, everybody sitting across from me is the smartest person in their field, so why and why am I here? But nobody said that that was just my negative self-talk, right?

00;09;31;24 - 00;09;42;17
Rico Nasol
And it's my fear of being found out that made me speak to myself that way. And it's almost like you said, if I talk to anyone else the way that I talk to myself, it'd be terrible.

00;09;42;20 - 00;10;05;29
Wayne Turmel
I would be in a jar all day. Yeah, to tell you the truth. Now, something about Netflix that I read not too long ago, which is kind of fascinating, is there's kind of a famous PowerPoint presentation, if you can call it, if you can call any PowerPoint presentation, famous that the CEO of Netflix was trying to explain the culture.

00;10;06;07 - 00;10;13;27
Wayne Turmel
And he came up with something called the Keeper rule that you work kind of under that mindset, right?

00;10;13;29 - 00;10;35;19
Rico Nasol
Yeah, I did. And it's interesting because this is probably one of the biggest things I came across and had a debunk. And if you go to Glassdoor, you'll probably see all kinds of reviews about keeper test and culture of fear. But it's the idea that if you built this team again, would you keep this person right if you had to build a team over?

00;10;35;21 - 00;10;48;24
Rico Nasol
And so the way it reads, it seems like, you know, you're just constantly every week what I keep this person, I keep that person. And in actuality, that's not how it played out, at least how it played on my team, because that would be a very toxic environment.

00;10;49;01 - 00;11;10;23
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. What is it like? Because there are lots of it was like Jack Welch came up with, well, you always fire your bottom 10%, which is fine for a couple of years when you have people who are underperform forming. But once you have a performing team, it turns really toxic really fast because everybody's trying to make sure they're not in the bottom ten.

00;11;10;23 - 00;11;21;20
Wayne Turmel
Right. So all these good ideas very often get used for evil instead of good. So how did you apply it and how do you not make that toxic?

00;11;21;22 - 00;11;43;08
Rico Nasol
Yeah. So on that point, you had the lowest churn rate and I had 235 people organization and over my nine years had like a 3% churn and then kind of encountered voluntary set a really low churn rate for my team. But so how I thought about it was maybe during annual review time, maybe once or twice a year and it wasn't like every week or even month.

00;11;43;11 - 00;12;00;22
Rico Nasol
So I would think, okay, if I because tech moves fast. So Netflix, we are always changing and evolving, building new tools and new skill sets. So I would look at my team and say, Hey, if I had to build this team, knowing what I know now, would I keep the folks that I have? And for me, it wasn't an exercise in letting go.

00;12;00;24 - 00;12;19;18
Rico Nasol
People is more of an exercise if I have the right people in the right roles. So maybe at this point in time where somebody was a motion graphics designer, now they need to move into like a UX field where they can actually do animations on the product. So it wasn't a who can it who do I need to let go?

00;12;19;20 - 00;12;27;04
Rico Nasol
It doesn't fit anymore. It's how can I be a better leader and find better fits for an evolving company in an evolving organization.

00;12;27;06 - 00;12;50;03
Wayne Turmel
One more time for the people in the back because that's so important. And also I would imagine that a piece of that is, you know, this person was a functioning member of the team and and they've been good and the team has changed. How do we get them to that new role, Right? How do we develop them? How do we train them?

00;12;50;03 - 00;12;51;27
Wayne Turmel
What do they need?

00;12;52;00 - 00;13;16;16
Rico Nasol
Right. And I can give you a story, an example, perfect example where I essentially automated a team. I led out of a job. And so it was a new AI technology, a computer vision technology. We were like trying to pick images, right? And we first had humans doing it and then eventually got to the point where they were so good that we could have computer vision do it, and we needed just less people.

00;13;16;16 - 00;13;41;06
Rico Nasol
We needed people just to verify and select. And most people would say, okay, so this team's job is eliminated. Let's just get rid of that team. Well, we actually did is, hey, they have value because they know the workflows they know all these other things, and they were big enough to work towards eliminating their own roles. So that told us that they had so much more value because the way they might in their minds thought the way they were strategic.

00;13;41;14 - 00;13;57;03
Rico Nasol
And so we actually we found roles, new roles on new teams for all of them in ways that they could find more automations. So perfect example where most companies would reorganize and let go. We reorganized and found better fits for their future.

00;13;57;07 - 00;14;19;17
Wayne Turmel
So in the little bit of time that we have remaining Rico, you know, you have, as you said, you had international teams, you had give us a couple of your best practices and what you coach your clients to do, first of all, for totally remote teams and then for hybrid teams.

00;14;19;19 - 00;14;38;17
Rico Nasol
Yeah. So for we'll start with totally remote and I'll talk about things how I, how I developed my teams and my leaders and I'll talk about the things I do for myself, for my imposter syndrome. So some of the things I do with my teams and my leaders is it's not nothing new, but I have everyone come up with three personal and professional goals.

00;14;38;17 - 00;15;09;27
Rico Nasol
It needs to be balanced. So the personal goals is so we can check in on each other. On like if you want to travel more, if you want to get into more cooking, things like that, and we have something to anchor our one on ones into. And I also provide opportunities and for real time feedback. So like this story, I said, if I have a director of mine who's presenting immediately after all, like, Hey, you want to talk about how it went or, you know, like, here's some things that went really well or I'll send I'll just send feedback in to know, Hey, this, this part really went really well.

00;15;09;27 - 00;15;29;15
Rico Nasol
I loved how you did this. If there's anything to talk about, it'd be like this. So when they are in a vacuum with their own thoughts, they have my feedback and they have my thoughts and my reassurance that they did a good job, that whatever negative self-talk they have is not valid. So that's when.

00;15;29;22 - 00;15;51;10
Wayne Turmel
I also want to tell you something you said because you said you get them to give you three personal goals and three professional goals and a lot of managers do that. It's kind of rote. You do it at the beginning of the year and then they never pay any more or attention to those personal things, right? It's like, okay, I did that check, check, check.

00;15;51;12 - 00;15;54;02
Wayne Turmel
But our one on ones are going to be about work.

00;15;54;04 - 00;16;15;07
Rico Nasol
Yeah, I mean, it's really important. I can tell you right now, even though I'm not there anymore, most of my team is still there. I can go back to my team Annapolis Recruiter studio and tell you who their kids are, who they're seeing, who they're married to, like, what their goals are, all those things. Because that's the thing that's important with leaders is you make to make everyone around you better.

00;16;15;07 - 00;16;35;10
Rico Nasol
You have to know who they are, right? You can't just make everyone about everyone better. In general terms, you need to really get to know them as people because people some people are type A, some people are type B, some people show up differently than others. And especially in this remote world, if you don't understand how each person shows up best, you start to create exclusive environments.

00;16;35;13 - 00;16;55;09
Rico Nasol
I have folks on my team who show up best in my comments in a Google doc and are deathly afraid of speaking in public, but they show up really well in comments and in in documents. So if I just relied on, I need to hear you to see you, I'm going to exclude very high level contributors on my team.

00;16;55;09 - 00;17;02;24
Wayne Turmel
Wow. Real quick, hybrid teams, anything specifically to that environment?

00;17;02;26 - 00;17;29;17
Rico Nasol
Yeah. So hybrid teams don't don't underestimate the power of team building. I did a lot when we were in person and just getting in a room and whiteboarding. That's the thing I think is most important when you get to be in person is not just sitting in a room. I think it's getting together and actually working on something tangible together and really get the creative juices running and that's when you get the most creativity and engagement from your folks.

00;17;29;19 - 00;17;55;06
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, I think that's such a key point. And again, we're just this is me underlining verbally, but this notion that being together in the same room doesn't create camaraderie or teamwork or innovation. It's focused work. And if some of the people are in the room and some of them aren't, it's still that focused work that's going to do the job.

00;17;55;09 - 00;17;57;20
Rico Nasol
Exactly. Exactly.

00;17;57;23 - 00;18;27;24
Wayne Turmel
Rico, I am sorry to say that is the end of our times. So much good stuff. Rico is in Henderson, Nevada. He is. He has his own consulting company, Rico Nassau Coaching and Consulting. We will have links to that in our in our show notes. Marisa will do her usual terrific job of that. Niko, I'm going to say goodbye to you momentarily while I close up the show.

00;18;28;01 - 00;18;57;25
Wayne Turmel
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00;18;57;25 - 00;19;27;22
Wayne Turmel
Wayne at Kevin Eikenberry dot com Marisa Kevin Eikenberry dot com. If you are trying to reorganize your team, thinking about what your new work should look like, we urge you to check out our new book, The Long-Distance Team Designing Your Team for Everyone's Success. That's it. I hope you're enjoying the show. We really love bringing you a mix of kind of thoughtful trends stuff and tactical practical work.

00;19;27;24 - 00;19;45;04
Wayne Turmel
Very, very smart people like RICO. We're sure that you enjoy it. Check out all our past episodes. You can do that at long distance work life dot com as well. And for now, next week we'll be back with Marisa, my name is Wayne Trammell. Don't let the weasels get you down. We'll see you next episode.


Featured Guest

Rico Nasol

Name: Rico Nasol

Bio: Rico Nasol is an accomplished executive and leadership coach with over twenty years of global experience, including key roles at Zappos and spearheading the Netflix Creative Studio. Known for his expertise in executive coaching, content optimization, and innovative technology, including machine learning and computer vision, Rico is dedicated to redefining leadership and fostering environments where balance and engagement thrive, empowering individuals to unlock their full potential. His career is marked by a strong focus on team building, strategic planning, and driving engagement across various domains, from creative direction to product management and user experience.


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
01:07 Exploring the Concept and Personal Experience of Imposter Syndrome
02:05 Impact of Remote Work on Imposter Syndrome and the Role of Feedback
03:51 Importance of Self-Talk in Leadership
04:55 Challenges Faced by New Leaders and Transition to Management Roles
07:08 Rico Nasol's Personal Journey and Experience with Introversion at Netflix
14:19 Best Practices for Managing Remote Teams
17:02 Approaches to Leading Hybrid Teams and Team Building Importance
18:27 Closing

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Marisa Eikenberry and Wayne Turmel navigate the evolving 'Return to Office' landscape. They discuss the challenges and realities of shifting from remote to hybrid work, focusing on employer-employee negotiations and the impact on productivity and employee engagement. Wayne sheds light on the varied experiences of returning to the office, touching on the concept of 'malicious compliance' and forecasting the future of hybrid work environments.

Key Takeaways

1. Adapt to Varied Office Experiences: Be flexible and adaptable in response to the diverse return-to-office experiences. Adjust your work routine to suit the new environment.
2. Negotiate Work Arrangements: Take an active role in negotiating your work arrangements. Discuss with your employer to find a balance between remote and in-office work that aligns with your productivity needs.
3. Evaluate Productivity and Engagement: Regularly assess how the shift in work environment affects your productivity and engagement. If necessary, seek adjustments to maintain your effectiveness.
4. Respond Thoughtfully to Remote Work Policies: If faced with restrictive remote work policies, consider how to respond constructively. Avoid malicious compliance by communicating your concerns and suggesting feasible solutions.
5. Prepare for the Evolution of Hybrid Work: Stay informed about the shifting landscape of hybrid work. Plan and strategize for the changes this might bring to your role and career.

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00;00;07;28 - 00;00;18;15
Marisa Eikenberry
Welcome back to the Long-Distance Work Life. We help you lead, work and thrive in remote and hybrid teams. I'm Marissa Eikenberry, a fellow remote worker. And joining me is my co-host and remote work expert Wayne Turmel. Hi.

00;00;18;18 - 00;00;20;26
Wayne Turmel
Hello. That would be me. Hi.

00;00;20;28 - 00;00;41;07
Marisa Eikenberry
So as we're recording this, it's actually early January. This is, you know, our first full week back to work. And something that we're hearing a lot of right now is about return to office. And it's popping back up on the scene and lots of different people are having lots of different conversations around this. And unfortunately, it's not going for the better.

00;00;41;09 - 00;00;44;25
Marisa Eikenberry
So, Wayne, overall, how is return to office going right now?

00;00;44;27 - 00;01;19;25
Wayne Turmel
I'm trying to think of the correct word and it's it's on a spectrum. It's not a dumpster fire. It's not quite a car wreck unless you consider a minor fender bender. A car wreck. It's somewhere on that spectrum. We're actually going to have an interview or two about this over the next few weeks. But I think that return to office is going okay and could and should be going a lot better, frankly.

00;01;19;28 - 00;01;42;06
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. I was going to say, I think we can both be in agreement on that. I know one of the things that I keep seeing as I flip around on TikTok or I'm on Instagram or, you know, wherever it is like hangout, that companies are actually starting to increase the number of days per week in the office and up to and including having no remote work days at all, or it's four days a week, which makes some people go, okay, why bother?

00;01;42;08 - 00;01;47;07
Marisa Eikenberry
And so do you think we're starting to see remote work going to the levels that it was pre 2020?

00;01;47;09 - 00;02;03;22
Wayne Turmel
It's not quite at those levels. The latest numbers that I've seen is in the industries where remote work is possible, Right. It's about 33% remote work, whereas before the pandemic it was under 25.

00;02;03;24 - 00;02;04;23
Marisa Eikenberry
Okay.

00;02;04;26 - 00;02;26;26
Wayne Turmel
So it has at least what we are seeing. And I am desperately trying to rein in my cynicism and also the desire to say, I told you so. What we are seeing is that the return to office was not a plan so much as a hostage negotiation.

00;02;26;28 - 00;02;29;04
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. You had to be like there was no choice.

00;02;29;05 - 00;02;54;24
Wayne Turmel
Right? They were like the employers were saying, we want you back in. And the employees were saying, you know, if you push too hard, I will quit. And so they kind of negotiated this uneven Stockholm Syndrome thing where it wasn't so much a plan as it was. We can get them in the office so much that they don't quit.

00;02;54;24 - 00;02;56;19
Wayne Turmel
And that's kind of where it settled.

00;02;56;21 - 00;02;57;04
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;02;57;09 - 00;03;19;11
Wayne Turmel
Which which made no side really happy. And time has gone on. And this is the cynical part of me. Not surprisingly, organizations have kind of clawed back the time in the office, you know, until you're down to, well, you can stay home Fridays if you want.

00;03;19;14 - 00;03;20;12
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

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Wayne Turmel
Which is not.

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Marisa Eikenberry
Not a.

00;03;22;17 - 00;03;31;15
Wayne Turmel
Truly effective hybrid work. It's you know, the the the negotiations are going better for one side.

00;03;31;18 - 00;03;41;12
Marisa Eikenberry
So what do you think is causing this shift to more and more days? I mean, is it just managers being like, I want people in the office and we have a building we're paying for and that's just how it's going to be?

00;03;41;14 - 00;04;04;24
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, I mean, some of it is. And this is senior leader. It's interesting. It's senior leaders more than it is individual leaders. If you look at the people who want more flexibility, people who are managers in the middle levels were ones to get the benefits of remote work and they saw it and liked it a bunch.

00;04;04;28 - 00;04;05;11
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;04;05;11 - 00;04;24;23
Wayne Turmel
And so your middle managers are not exactly leading the charge to come back. As a matter of fact, one of the problems is that the organization and the senior leadership have said, thou shall get your butt back here. And the middle managers are kind of tasked with making that happen, but they're not putting their full back into it.

00;04;24;26 - 00;04;25;20
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;04;25;23 - 00;04;48;00
Wayne Turmel
Because they haven't really bought into. Just fascinating to me. So, yeah, I mean, some of this is a desperate desire, partly through just sheer exhaustion and partly because of and the inbred belief that that's the way it is to get things back to as close to the before times as possible.

00;04;48;05 - 00;05;03;14
Marisa Eikenberry
On this show, we've talked about productivity with remote work a lot, and there are some people that feel like they're way more productive at home and some people that feel like they're more productive in the office. And there's been lots of data and lots of studies that show lots of different things. And you can make the data say whatever you want, but.

00;05;03;16 - 00;05;04;12
Wayne Turmel
And they do.

00;05;04;14 - 00;05;21;26
Marisa Eikenberry
And they do. We and we've seen it we've talked about it on the show. But have you have you seen noticeable changes in productivity or employee engagement with this shift back to remote work? I mean, I would think employee engagement might kind of be on the down low if people are mad about it.

00;05;21;29 - 00;05;52;27
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, it's interesting about that. And, you know, again, where do you get your numbers? Right? So the the best guess is you're looking at the Gartner's, the McKinsey's, the people who are kind of studying this. And you know, McKinsey stuff tends to support the people who are hiring them, which are the managers. But even still, what that is showing is that employee engagement hasn't really shifted.

00;05;52;27 - 00;06;02;21
Wayne Turmel
And that's because the people who are ticked off about going back to the office are more ticked off. And so they're showing up as less satisfied and less engaged.

00;06;02;22 - 00;06;04;07
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;06;04;09 - 00;06;28;06
Wayne Turmel
Percentage of people, it's interesting when they talk about people going back to the office, it's always like, well, they're going to be more productive. What they are is happier because they are extroverts who like having other people around and they're comfortable in that environment. And there's a bunch of people and, you know, the remote work zealots will tell you that they're dinosaurs and will soon be gone.

00;06;28;06 - 00;07;05;15
Wayne Turmel
And that ain't true. There are people who enjoy working in an office environment and they like work peers, and there is some value to that. Anybody who says there isn't is kind of whistling past the graveyard. There is some benefits to being together. It tends not to be on the productivity side. Right. Unless your work relies on brainstorming and quick problem solving and people coming together, if it's task completion tasks get done and people are left alone to get their tasks done.

00;07;05;16 - 00;07;24;05
Wayne Turmel
I mean, that evidence was showing up pre-pandemic and it's becoming more and more clear that if you're going to be in an office environment, you still need quiet time protected from, Hey, it's Marissa's birthday, there's cake in the breakroom. We need a break from that.

00;07;24;07 - 00;07;25;13
Marisa Eikenberry
Yes.

00;07;25;15 - 00;07;34;26
Wayne Turmel
And that has people and this is a whole other show for a whole other day is, you know, if we are going to asses, what should they look like?

00;07;34;28 - 00;07;36;19
Marisa Eikenberry


00;07;36;21 - 00;07;41;16
Wayne Turmel
And the cube farm and it as near as we can tell.

00;07;41;19 - 00;07;59;10
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Well, something else that I've seen, too, is that with some of these companies that are shifting back to, you know, return to office and they might even be doing away with remote work entirely. I know that there was a viral story on Reddit and somebody else does a tech talk about it. And so it's making its rounds again.

00;07;59;12 - 00;08;21;13
Marisa Eikenberry
But basically their employer had said, you you cannot work from home at all, period. Not the end. And so they were like, okay, well, if I can't work from home, I'm removing teams from my phone and I'm not checking my email or whatever. And then their boss tried to get a hold of them after hours and it was like, Sorry, you told me I wasn't allowed to work from home.

00;08;21;16 - 00;08;25;27
Marisa Eikenberry
So do you have any thoughts on that? Because I've seen some of this or.

00;08;26;00 - 00;08;34;24
Wayne Turmel
This gets to something we talked about in the very early days of this podcast, which is this idea of malicious compliance.

00;08;34;27 - 00;08;36;03
Marisa Eikenberry


00;08;36;05 - 00;08;43;21
Wayne Turmel
Right. And any time you put a hard and fast rule in especially one that is viewed as punitive.

00;08;43;24 - 00;08;45;05
Marisa Eikenberry


00;08;45;08 - 00;08;54;25
Wayne Turmel
Right. And let's keep in mind, we have people who were hired during the pandemic, so they were hired to be remote, and now they're being forced to come in.

00;08;54;27 - 00;08;56;04
Marisa Eikenberry
Or move.

00;08;56;06 - 00;09;22;19
Wayne Turmel
Or actually, you know, change their location or whatever. But this idea of if the return to office is seen as a punitive measure, you weren't getting your work done. You were slacking off. You were going to target when you should have been on that conference call. Therefore, we're bringing you in here. You are going to get a negative reaction to that if court move is deemed as punitive.

00;09;22;26 - 00;09;30;03
Wayne Turmel
The natural response short of actually quitting and, you know, the people that could easily quit and move on have.

00;09;30;07 - 00;09;31;01
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, I was gonna say we.

00;09;31;01 - 00;09;55;17
Wayne Turmel
Can target that initial wave of resignations has has passed and where you are now is people who are complying but darn unhappy about it and therefore will do the bare minimum in order to keep their jobs, which is not what you want. Right. Right. And that wasn't the intent. The idea of return to office is we're going to work together better and we're going to do all this stuff.

00;09;55;21 - 00;10;09;14
Wayne Turmel
But if the rule is you need to come to the are paying you to be in the office, by definition, you are not paying me to answer calls at my kids soccer game. And so you get what you pay for.

00;10;09;16 - 00;10;11;08
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Right.

00;10;11;10 - 00;10;36;20
Wayne Turmel
Now, the other thing that's happening, and this is not a surprise to any rational human being, is that before the pandemic, we had a lot of what I used to call stealth remote. Officially, we were all in the office. But, you know, Lisa's kid is sick, so she's going to take that call from home. I'm working on a project.

00;10;36;20 - 00;10;46;11
Wayne Turmel
I need to focus. So I'm not going in on Friday. I'm going to stay home and work. And it was never official and it was never blessed. But we know what happened.

00;10;46;13 - 00;10;53;08
Marisa Eikenberry
Yeah, we got like and now going to see a client or whatever, like, yeah. And, you know, even acceptable once we're still.

00;10;53;09 - 00;11;10;27
Wayne Turmel
Yeah. And now the term that is being and I hate it but nobody invited me to the meeting is what they call backdoor remote. okay. Which is the office has its rules, but if one wants to go work from home, I'm not going to rat on him.

00;11;11;00 - 00;11;17;19
Marisa Eikenberry
Gotcha. It seems like with middle managers, like they're the ones aren't for employees.

00;11;17;21 - 00;11;36;29
Wayne Turmel
Yeah, absolutely. And this goes back to the fact that middle managers with a straight face can't look at their employees and say, You have to come into the office because we don't trust you to get your work done when they know that's nonsense. And as a matter of fact, they want to be working from home more often.

00;11;37;01 - 00;11;38;16
Marisa Eikenberry
Right. Yeah, they want. Right.

00;11;38;23 - 00;12;05;05
Wayne Turmel
And they just can't with a straight face and a clear conscience, enforce these rules. And any time you get unwritten rules, you essentially have no rules. And it's chaos. And dogs and cats sleep there. And, you know, the end is nigh. And this is something that we predicted not. And it doesn't make me Nostradamus. It makes me a cynical studier of human nature.

00;12;05;07 - 00;12;09;28
Wayne Turmel
There is an obvious overreaction to everything.

00;12;10;00 - 00;12;10;12
Marisa Eikenberry
Right.

00;12;10;18 - 00;12;41;24
Wayne Turmel
Right. The overreaction was we have to be in the office. No, I can work from home. I'm not going to office at all. And then there's you have to come into the office and, boy, this feels kind of familiar, and I like it. And it make get my boss off my back. So we're going to have you come back in until they you know, and management doesn't think we notice that that they're doing this and they're wrong.

00;12;41;27 - 00;13;04;02
Wayne Turmel
So there's a and what we have said all along is that hot work is not simply a compromise. And that's what the next wave is. You have to look at we were not in the office for a long time and now we're back in and some things are better and some things are worse. You know, tasks aren't getting done.

00;13;04;08 - 00;13;36;21
Wayne Turmel
It's a lot harder to get your focused work done. We have to only hire people who live within 40 minutes of the office, which reduces our talent pool. So as long as we look at return to office as this uneasy compromise and we're just trying to find what's the balance between keeping senior leadership happy and having people not start to quit, it's not going to progress to the next level, which is hybrid work is a different thing.

00;13;36;21 - 00;14;04;12
Wayne Turmel
And it's not just where people are. It's not just where people work, but when they work. And you have to build in the freedom to have flexibility in your schedule and work when it's most appropriate. And maybe we don't constantly need meetings where people always have to be, Yeah, you can work from home and you can have flexibility over your schedule, but we have four meetings today and you'd better be on them.

00;14;04;12 - 00;14;08;06
Marisa Eikenberry
All right. And we've talked about asynchronous work before and I'll.

00;14;08;07 - 00;14;44;14
Wayne Turmel
Be well again. I know we've got interviews coming up to make that, you know, to have that discussion in more depth. So the answer to your question, how's your return to office going is it's going right. I think some organizations are happy with the balance and got all of them. Other organizations understand that we Stacy's, but nobody's really happy and it's probably not the ideal answer.

00;14;44;14 - 00;15;12;04
Wayne Turmel
And so I'm hopeful that people who are listening to this podcast and and, you know, taking a look at the issue really continuously, continuously and seriously look at how to improve it rather than just going, okay, the bleeding is stopped. And, you know, we like this kind of and think beyond that because that's going to be the next wave.

00;15;12;04 - 00;15;22;21
Wayne Turmel
And the companies that are successful are the ones who are going to go above and beyond compromise to really thoughtful, intentional hybrid work.

00;15;22;24 - 00;15;34;25
Marisa Eikenberry
Yes, that makes a lot of sense. I know that we're getting close to wrapping up our time and wait. I know that we talked before this, that we wanted to talk about our Long Distance Leadership series. So would you like to take that away before I get into the outro?

00;15;34;27 - 00;16;04;00
Wayne Turmel
A lot of people think that, you know, we've done remote or we're going back to the office, so we don't need it. But the fact of the matter is that leadership in the age of hybrid work and remote work is mostly the same as it is. Good leaders will find a way to lead, but there are nuances and we have a public enrollment six part workshop that looks at those nuances of remote work.

00;16;04;02 - 00;16;37;00
Wayne Turmel
I think it's a great idea for individual leaders who want to take the bull by the horns and understand that better as organizations are thinking about how are we going to help prepare our leaders, maybe send somebody from your organization to that to take a look and see if it's appropriate for your team? And I think that it's important and solved built on the cons and the long distance leader, long distance teammate, long distance team that a lot of people on this pod who listen to this show are familiar with.

00;16;37;04 - 00;16;54;25
Marisa Eikenberry
Thank you so much for sharing that. And listeners, thank you so much for listening to the long distance work life for shownotes transcripts and other resources, Make sure to visit long distance work life Bcom. If you haven't yet, subscribe to the show wherever you're listening so you won't miss any future episodes. And while you're there, be sure to like and review.

00;16;55;01 - 00;17;15;29
Marisa Eikenberry
This helps us know what you love about our show. Feel free to contact us via email or LinkedIn with the links in our shownotes. And let us know you listen to this episode or even suggest a topic for Wayne and I to tackle in a future episode. We'd love to hear from you. Thanks for listening. As Wayne likes to say, the weasels gets down to.


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
01:19 Increasing Office Days: Impact on Remote Work
01:47 Shifts in Remote Work Prevalence
05:04 Productivity and Employee Engagement Trends
08:56 Malicious Compliance and Remote Work Policies
15:12 The Future of Hybrid Work

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The Great Escape: Innovating Remote Team Building with Escape Rooms with Madeline Purches
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The Great Escape: Innovating Remote Team Building with Escape Rooms with Madeline Purches

Wayne Turmel joins Madeline Purches from The Escape Game to discuss the world of remote team building. Discover how the principles of escape rooms can transform the dynamics of remote teams. Madeline shares insights on adapting escape room tactics for virtual environments, tackling cultural and technological challenges, and creating engaging, inclusive activities for global teams. Whether you're leading a remote team or looking for innovative team-building strategies, this episode is packed with practical tips and fascinating perspectives.

Key Takeaways

1. Adapt to Change: Embrace innovative solutions for remote team building, like virtual escape rooms.
2. Cultural Sensitivity: Be aware of cultural references in team activities to ensure inclusivity.
3. Tech Accessibility: Ensure activities are accessible for all tech skill levels.
4. Foster Competition: Use competitive elements to engage and motivate team members.
5. Communication is Key: Maintain open, frequent communication channels for remote team members.
6. Level the Playing Field: In hybrid settings, ensure remote workers feel equally involved.
7. Create Connection: Intentionally develop opportunities for team members to connect beyond work.

Featured Guest

Madeline Purches

Name: Madeline Purches

What She Does: Manager of Corporate Sales for The Escape Game


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00;00;08;03 - 00;00;43;28
Wayne Turmel
Hello, everybody. Greetings. Welcome once again to the Long-Distance Worklife podcast. The show for those who are working remotely, working hybrid, working remotely some of the time, just trying to make sense of the way that we work today. My name is Wayne Turmel. I'm your humble servant. We are very excited today. This is a guest episode. I've decided to stop calling them Marisa-less episodes because people love Marisa, rightly so.

00;00;43;28 - 00;01;16;01
Wayne Turmel
And I don't want to diminish expectations. We are blessed with another very, very charming, talented, very smart guest, Madeline Purches and we are going to be talking about team building and icebreakers and activities and all the stuff that you know, makes me a little bit grumpy. But I understand the importance of it. So we are going to welcome Madeline Purches in the show, Madeline.

00;01;16;08 - 00;01;18;16
Madeline Purches
Hey, Wayne, great to be here.

00;01;18;18 - 00;01;32;29
Wayne Turmel
Well, in the words of David Letterman, we'll put a stop to that. So welcome. Tell us a little bit about you and The Escape Game and then we'll jump into our conversation here.

00;01;33;01 - 00;01;49;20
Madeline Purches
Yeah, absolutely. So I'll start with The Escape Game. They're a little bit bigger than I am. They are one of the largest privately owned escape room companies in the U.S. We're currently sitting at 35 physical escape room locations. And if you've never played an escape room before, we're going to lock you in a small room and make you complete puzzles until you get out.

00;01;49;20 - 00;02;10;08
Madeline Purches
It's a lot of fun. Despite what it sounds like. We have sort of shifted our business model to include more and more corporate groups, especially since 2020, when there was obviously a huge need for some team building remotely and we were able to sort of shift some of our games and products to make them work remotely, which I'm sure we'll talk about.

00;02;10;10 - 00;02;14;21
Madeline Purches
And I am the manager of the sales team for those groups.

00;02;14;23 - 00;02;33;21
Wayne Turmel
Well, that's actually was the intriguing thing and why we were having this conversation, because I'm familiar with escape rooms. I've never done them, but I get the concept right now. I have friends who who are addicted to them and other friends who actually I don't know if you call them Dungeon Masters, but you know, they run.

00;02;33;28 - 00;02;35;23
Madeline Purches
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Gotcha.

00;02;35;25 - 00;03;00;19
Wayne Turmel
So when I first got the query about you coming to talk to us, I went, Well, that's nice, but, you know, little hard to lock somebody in a room from across the country. So tell me a little bit about the shift, because I think a lot of people's business model took a beating in 2020. So tell us about that shift to remote.

00;03;00;23 - 00;03;09;21
Wayne Turmel
What what we know, what inspired it, but what kinds of things did you have to take into account that maybe surprised you?

00;03;09;23 - 00;03;32;08
Madeline Purches
Yeah, absolutely. This is something I really have to commend our team for, because they they saw it coming down the pike and knew very clearly that this was going to impact our business uniquely because, you know, not only were we affected by shutdowns, but we would have a harder time coming back. The games are so tactile. They literally involve, by their nature, people being in small rooms, locked in together.

00;03;32;08 - 00;03;54;12
Madeline Purches
So they knew we needed an alternative solution. And so the first version was literally sticking a camera on a helmet on somebody's head, putting them in the room and hopping them on a zoom call and seeing if it worked. It was very Blair Witch Project at the beginning. It was not the biggest success, but we tinkered and tailored until it became something that has become very accessible for remote teams.

00;03;54;12 - 00;04;13;24
Madeline Purches
And we have, through the use of both the person in the room who's got a camera on their head and some very intense training to not be bopping around like crazy, a digital dashboard on the internet that they can access. It's got an inventory and scans of the room and all sorts of things. We're able to create something that has multiple different points of interactivity.

00;04;13;24 - 00;04;24;00
Madeline Purches
And while, no, you're not locked in a room, you do feel very immersed in the experience and really as close to the real thing as we can get you, which is the main goal from our perspective.

00;04;24;01 - 00;04;39;13
Wayne Turmel
And what was what was the reaction from people when you started telling them, Hey, we can do this virtually? What kind of went through people's brains and what kind of objections did you hear about this?

00;04;39;17 - 00;05;06;29
Madeline Purches
It was very similar to you. There was a lot of skepticism. A lot of there was both skepticism towards the whole idea of virtual team building, which I think is a whole other matter, but more specifically towards how the heck can you do something so specific, like escape rooms virtually? And we we ended up doing a lot of demos, a lot of discounted and free games just to get people in the door, lots of videos to explain and show and say, No, this is viable, It is fun.

00;05;07;06 - 00;05;24;20
Madeline Purches
It's really exciting. And then somewhere around June, July of that year, I think there was sort of a cultural shift where people realized that unfortunately, we're not getting out of this anytime soon. We're not going to be able to just get by with our weekly digital happy hours. And people were getting pretty sick of the virtual happy hours.

00;05;24;20 - 00;05;39;07
Madeline Purches
So it became clear we need another solution. And so it just really started blowing up at that point because we'd proven our track record that it was quality, It was a lot of fun. And then we had also gotten to a place in the culture. People were looking for it.

00;05;39;10 - 00;05;50;03
Wayne Turmel
Well, what makes for a good game when you are scattered around the world? I mean, how do you know that? Yeah, this one works.

00;05;50;06 - 00;06;08;02
Madeline Purches
Great question. You say around the world doing it for a global team as a specific challenge. So if you're doing something for a global team, you want something where a language barrier is not going to be a big barrier. Most people speak and read English, but you want to make sure that you're not. It's very easy to create.

00;06;08;02 - 00;06;19;29
Madeline Purches
I live in America. It's very easy to create a game or an activity that is specific to American culture or even Western culture. And so that's something you have to keep in mind. You want something that's going to be broadly applicable to groups. You also.

00;06;20;06 - 00;06;42;11
Wayne Turmel
Let me stop you there, because this is an important thing, because we are blind to it. We don't realize the kind of cultural things, whether it's football references or TV commercials or whatever it is. What kinds of things do you need to be cognizant of internationally?

00;06;42;14 - 00;06;58;24
Madeline Purches
Yeah, great question. Creating something. So there's two versions of it. One is for the group that is very fluent in English, and that's not really the barrier. The barrier is the cultural knowledge, and the other is for the groups that really, if they had their druthers, they would not be doing this in English, they'd be doing this in Spanish or similar.

00;06;58;27 - 00;07;20;20
Madeline Purches
For those groups that are just lacking the cultural knowledge, it can be very insidious and difficult. We created an entire game show product that is a ton of fun, really exciting, really high energy. But the problem is one of the biggest rounds in the game was focused around guessing common idioms and phrases from picture puzzles. And we very quickly realized, like the international groups can't do this.

00;07;20;27 - 00;07;43;28
Madeline Purches
Even the groups that are based in England or Ireland or English speaking countries really can't do it because they're all American phrases. And we don't realize it because most of the time we're talking to Americans. And so people know what you mean when you say something a dime a dozen. But people in Singapore did not. So that was a great example of us learning very quickly, like, it's not as simple as just simple language applicable to groups.

00;07;43;29 - 00;07;50;28
Madeline Purches
You have to really think about what do they know about and what wouldn't they know about, and how can you make something that's broadly applicable.

00;07;51;04 - 00;08;00;18
Wayne Turmel
That's great. I love flagging that kind of thing because so often and it's insidious, it can actually damage teams.

00;08;00;20 - 00;08;20;18
Madeline Purches
Yeah, it can. Because if you're jumping into a team building, I mean, there is nothing worse not only than then not being able to participate, but they probably plan this team building because they wanted to bring the global groups groups together. And so there's nothing worse than you can do than having your ten American participants just steamrolling the others because they can't participate at all.

00;08;20;18 - 00;08;38;07
Madeline Purches
So it's just it's a real bummer when that happens. So we really try to focus on ways to keep that from happening and to create products and games and activities that are going to be fun for everybody and won't make anybody feel like they're the odd one out, which is actually interestingly enough, we don't do any trivia for that reason.

00;08;38;07 - 00;08;57;17
Madeline Purches
Trivia is very popular and we often have people that will come to us and say, we want to do a virtual team building. We were thinking trivia or something similar. Trivia is just about the worst thing you can do because it's pretty impossible to pick a category that everybody is going to have some knowledge on. Inevitably, you're going to pick a category and a bunch of people are going to go, Well, I don't watch a lot of TV.

00;08;57;19 - 00;09;14;19
Madeline Purches
I can't really play. I'm going to sit back and I'm going to answer my emails because it's so easy to do if you're doing something virtually, just go, I'm just going to do my emails instead. We don't want that. Trivia is not a great fit for virtual team building specifically because it's really hard to make it applicable to everybody.

00;09;14;22 - 00;09;26;07
Wayne Turmel
So let's just with so we know what doesn't work. And by the way, as somebody who yes, it's been 30 years, but I was on Jeopardy and I'm a trivia freak.

00;09;26;09 - 00;09;31;05
Madeline Purches
Oh my- I mean, I love trivia, too. I'm about to be a fan, but. Yeah, but.

00;09;31;05 - 00;09;53;05
Wayne Turmel
Don't be impressed. Do you have the face, Everybody has. When you say you were on Jeopardy, and then you have to explain that you got stomped like a bug in international in humiliating. man, that's that's it. But, you know, trivia is kind of the kind of thing that I would go for, right? So that's a good idea.

00;09;53;05 - 00;10;03;26
Wayne Turmel
So let's what works and what doesn't work like very specifically descriptively, what kind of things work? Let's assume a fairly homogenous team.

00;10;03;28 - 00;10;23;28
Madeline Purches
Yeah. Things that work are games that are not going to be too technologically difficult because if you're working with a team, a wide variety of folks, a wide variety of ages, a wide variety of positions, even now, three years into the pandemic, well, post-pandemic, however you want to put it, we still have people that are not super tech savvy.

00;10;23;28 - 00;10;42;20
Madeline Purches
And so that's part of what makes the virtual escape room so good is that we have the Zoom call. We've got a person in the room, we have this whole digital dashboard that you can get as into or as not into as you want. If you are an engineer and you're super tech savvy, you can have two versions of the dashboard open and be looking at two different things at once and be checking the inventory and checking your list.

00;10;42;23 - 00;11;01;14
Madeline Purches
If you're not tech savvy, you could just open the zoom call and sit back and not have to click another thing and still participate. So creating an environment where people don't end up feeling stupid because they're not super good with technology is prerogative number one. That is a great way to make sure that people feel involved and feel like they're going to have a good time.

00;11;01;16 - 00;11;19;10
Madeline Purches
Number two is competition. People love competition and I think sometimes people who are planning these events shy away from it because they're like, Well, we're doing this to create unity in the team. We don't want to break them into teams and have them compete against each other. But most people are not, you know, drop down, drag out competitive people.

00;11;19;10 - 00;11;34;23
Madeline Purches
They like competition because it makes things interesting. But truthfully, what it's going to do is create a touchstone for people going forward. If you have a group that has never been together in person and they get together, they do a fun, competitive game and they're able on their next town hall to go, my gosh, did you see Annie?

00;11;34;23 - 00;11;52;11
Madeline Purches
She crushed our group. She was so good at that one round. That was incredible. That's awesome. And people will rib each other and they'll have their fun little my gosh, Team, you did so terribly. But that's a good thing. That's a great thing. That's giving them something to talk about. That's not work. And that is the most important thing when it comes to building culture.

00;11;52;11 - 00;12;06;13
Madeline Purches
So something competitive tends to be really good, something that doesn't have super high tech requirements. And then like we talked about earlier, something that's going to be broadly applicable to global teams, to teams of different ages and cultures, those are going to be the best fit.

00;12;06;13 - 00;12;31;00
Wayne Turmel
Groups that that those are really, really good guidelines. Tell me a little bit about when you've got like just physically how it works. If you've got people in the office as well as people who are remote, does it work best when everybody is at their own machine? Does it make sense to have people, you know, gather in the conference room, whatever?

00;12;31;02 - 00;12;34;28
Wayne Turmel
Just logistically, how does that work best?

00;12;35;00 - 00;13;04;09
Madeline Purches
Great question. So I myself, I'm going to go back a bit and then go forward. I myself actually work remotely. I work from home. My headquarters is in Nashville. My team is kind of spread to the wind, but I do occasionally have meetings or team building activities with my group in Nashville, and I tend to find and I think a lot of other remote workers feel this way, that nothing feels worse than being brought into a call, or everybody else is sitting around a conference room table and you're the only one on a screen because inevitably they're going to forget you're there.

00;13;04;09 - 00;13;27;22
Madeline Purches
They're not going to remember to talk to you. You're just going to kind of be shunted off to the sidelines. So my personal view, and this is not always feasible, but I always think if you're doing an event that is hybrid, meaning that you've got some people who are in a physical office and you've got some people that are joining completely remotely, I would prefer everyone to be on their own machine, even if that means they're in the office ten feet from each other on their own machine, because it's leveling the playing field for everybody.

00;13;27;24 - 00;13;44;11
Madeline Purches
It's making those remote workers feel like, okay, if they're coming to my space, we're all playing at the same level. We're all sitting at the table together. This is great. You can do it with people in a conference room. And in fact, we've done that before. I think if you're going to do that, it is better to say, okay, here are my people in person.

00;13;44;11 - 00;13;58;19
Madeline Purches
They're going to play on a team. Here are my remote participants, they're going to play on a team because again, what I found will happen is that if you've got those remote players on a team with people who are literally sitting around a table together, they're going to get forgotten. And that's the last thing that I want to have happen.

00;13;58;19 - 00;14;14;20
Madeline Purches
So leveling the playing field, trying to get everybody on their own machines, it may feel silly because it they may be sitting two feet from each other in a physical office, but it's going to be better for those remote participants. And truthfully, that's most of the reason we're doing this, is to get those remote participants involved.

00;14;14;23 - 00;14;38;15
Wayne Turmel
Well, this is great stuff and we will have links to The Escape Game and to Madeline's LinkedIn and all that good stuff on the page. So we will know if you're interested in more details. We can do that. Madeline, what you mention your own team is remote and I mean, obviously you guys specialize in team building and we don't.

00;14;38;17 - 00;14;42;25
Wayne Turmel
So I'm guessing it's not the worst place to work.

00;14;42;28 - 00;14;44;09
Madeline Purches
I hope not.

00;14;44;12 - 00;14;57;20
Wayne Turmel
What challenges you got even in an environment that you're in where, you know, people are self-selecting to work at a place like this? What are some of the challenges that you face with your team?

00;14;57;23 - 00;15;22;00
Madeline Purches
Yeah, great question. I am lucky that my team is small. I it's just me and two other people. So it's a very intimate team, which is great, but there are still definitely challenges that arise. Namely, both of them are most of the time based at our headquarters in Nashville, and I is their leader. I'm not with them. I am in a different place, which can be a big challenge because I, as my leader, want to be as present and available for them as possible.

00;15;22;00 - 00;15;42;06
Madeline Purches
And that can sometimes feel difficult when I am hundreds of miles away. Now, luckily we do sales, which is by its nature kind of an independent role, but there are definitely times when I want to be available as an asset for them and it's harder to do so. So some things that we have taken on as sort of tactics to make sure that everybody is taken care of.

00;15;42;08 - 00;16;02;20
Madeline Purches
We are religious about our use of Slack teams. Google Chat, whatever you use, I make sure that I am as available as I can be to my team whenever I can be. We have a time difference. So I while I'm not working 24 seven, if my team is online, I at the very least have my Slack open and I'm aware of it so that if they need me, I am there.

00;16;02;20 - 00;16;18;24
Madeline Purches
I want them to feel as accessible as I would be if I was literally at a desk right next to them. And of course, that's my perspective as a leader too. I would never want my my team members to feel like they need to be that accessible to me, but I want to be that accessible to them. The other thing that we do is we have stand up every single day.

00;16;18;24 - 00;16;36;10
Madeline Purches
Some days it is 2 minutes. We hop on, we say we're busy, we can't do this. We got to go. Some days it's like 45 minutes. We're 15 minutes of that is for actual work chat and then 30 minutes we just talk. And that to me is just as valuable as the actual down home work talk because it's about building culture and trust.

00;16;36;12 - 00;16;53;11
Madeline Purches
And as a leader, especially in sales, a role that can typically be kind of a little bit, you know, competitive and not trustworthy because you're competing for sales. I don't want it to feel that way. I want them to feel like they trust me. And then the last thing that we do, we will do bigger team building activities.

00;16;53;11 - 00;17;09;15
Madeline Purches
When I come into town, or sometimes virtually, but we do a monthly lunch and we actually I would highly suggest anyone try this because we just started doing it and it is a ton of fun. We'll do a monthly lunch where we each order lunch or go grab it and we'll sit at our desks with our videos on and we'll chat.

00;17;09;18 - 00;17;28;08
Madeline Purches
We started picking it through a spin the wheel thing where everyone puts in three suggestions and we have to spin the wheel to see what everybody gets. And it can be as simple as okay, it landed on Chinese food. That's what we're going to get. Or what happened last week, which is that one of my team members put “Text your mom, what you want for lunch” into it.

00;17;28;08 - 00;17;54;17
Madeline Purches
And moms got to pick what we were going to get for lunch, which was super funny and super cute and again, just created that relationship. Touchstone remote work is all about creating those opportunities for connection that would happen organically in an office, but I sometimes think that remote working has an advantage in that you are. If you're doing it well, you are focused intentionally on creating those moments rather than just trusting that they're going to happen.

00;17;54;19 - 00;17;59;21
Madeline Purches
So there is a little bit of a superpower in that. But I think I think constant connection and constant communication are the keys.

00;17;59;24 - 00;18;25;11
Wayne Turmel
Terrific. Thank you so much, Madeline Purches from The Escape Game. Thank you for joining us. I am going to remove you from our video screen for a moment while I let everybody else know that if you want links to Madeline and her work, they are at longdistanceworklife.com. If you enjoyed today's episode and I can't believe you didn't.

00;18;25;14 - 00;18;59;21
Wayne Turmel
Please please please like subscribe, tell your friends all of that good stuff. Our listenership is growing and not only is it growing, but you're a very engaged, active little audience. We love to hear from you. So please, you know, rollout to Marisa and myself and reach us on LinkedIn or you can email us and questions. Comments. Vicious personal attacks, pet peeves that you want us to talk about.

00;18;59;23 - 00;19;25;03
Wayne Turmel
Please, please, please stay in touch. We love that. Of course, if you are thinking about your team, should it be remote? Should it be hybrid? I urge you to check out Kevin Eikenberry and my new book, Long-Distance Team: Designing Your Team for Everyone's Success. You can find the book and downloadable resources and all kinds of great things at longdistanceteambook.com.

00;19;25;10 - 00;19;45;23
Wayne Turmel
We will be back next week with Marisa and I think a good pet peeve discussion. I think that's the topic so come check that out. Thank you so much for joining us. Check us out at the Kevin Eikenberry Group and we look forward to hearing from you soon. Don't let the weasels get you down. Have a great week.


Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Madeline Purches and The Escape Game
01:49 Adapting Escape Rooms for Remote Team Building
03:00 Innovations in Virtual Escape Room Experiences
05:07 The Cultural Shift Towards Virtual Team Building
06:58 Challenges of Creating Culturally Inclusive Games
09:14 What Works and Doesn't in Virtual Team Building
11:01 The Importance of Competition and Connection in Remote Teams
13:27 Hybrid Work Environments and Remote Inclusion
15:22 Managing a Remote Sales Team: Strategies and Experiences
17:59 Concluding Thoughts and Episode Wrap-up

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